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Why do boys get so easily scared if things go too fast? (Page 3)
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Little boys are scared of commitment. Get yourself a real man.
Thanks man,!
No problem.
It's not scared it's not wanting you have to remember we live for on average 100 years say you meet at 23 years of age you want time for yourself time to do what you want solo. If you move to fast and reach an average relationship what's left? And look how many years you got left in life at say 27 years of age married etc
have you heard of the flight or fight mentality? the same thing applies to relationships. some boys will give up when things get tough and run away from a girl or they'll stay and fight for her. you're just attracted to the personality of boys who would rather run away
lol because there scared of rushing through the chase to quickly get to the torture *this message was approved by scream*
What torture? Haha
what your saying your the type of killer who DOESN'T TOURTURE?😮😮😮
Oh, ofc I love torture 😈
😈😈😈😈u and i are 1 in the same🔪🔪🔪
What type of touture?
the gold ol tie them up to a chair then ask there dumbest friend a horror question then slowly cut the guy in the chair untill the other guy gets annoying then kill them both kind of TOURTURE *this message was approved by scream*
meant good not gold
welp im stoned to hell ima go pass out
Hahahsh wtf
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No.
For one, MANY men aren't like this at all.
You should date a nerd or quiet boy that's attractive to you. You're looking for love in all the wrong places...
Honestly even in my 20's I know I'm not mentally or emotionally ready for a dedicated relationship. I want a chance to live and experience things for myself before i get stuck with the old ball and chain.
Besides woman wanting to rush into things like marriage is a big ol red flag for me
Well for me, I rushed into things so fast that it would, in its own ways, ruin a lot of things in a relationship. I didn't find the girl of my dreams until I finally slowed the process down to really appreciated all things. It took a while to realize that, it's the small things that count the most
It's because boys want to control the situation and can't handle it if they can't control the situation. If a girl doesn't let herself be controlled then boys don't know what to do and just run away
There has to be some control both ways. Equal input and output. If the girl has full control and he's just along for the ride, that's just as dangerous or more so than if he has full charge and she is merely along for the ride. One or the other is no longer a true partner in the equation. They're merely a passenger on someone else's train of madness.
not true. women were made to have children and support her man I. what he does, take care of the house and kids and stay at home.
nowadays you got women making more than men shits all backwards I'm not saying women working and being independent isn't ok but it's not natural nature didn't make them that way. a lot have zero respect for most men, cheat lie use men for self gain it's like fuck your a woman. I have no problem
maybe he's in tears too.. because he think that all of that things who are happening aren't real so he thinks he will ever love his perfect soulmate forever even she doesn't love him.. that's why he runs away. i think he didn't sse your hints and because of that he feel everyday more and more empty then he sees you everytime and thinks he couldn't get to be with you happy forever. maybe it could be because that.. did you understand what i mean?
I had girl treat me like that, she was a cheater. My point Is not all women will treat you like your heart disent matter.
This isn't a gendered thing. Guys get ditched for being "too available" too soon all the time too.
I agree with you here. I think women get just as freaked out when a guy starts wanting something the woman feels is too soon for them! So I concur that this isn't a gender specific behavior.
don't want to be pinned down. need to fully decide if they are gonna be with someone. maybe they don't know what they want and need to go figure that out first (mature).
This generation have a thought that having relationship is burden on them and will trap inside if they comitted.
But things are very opposite to their perception and all about procrastination.
To me you need to have your own life and things to do... If you become too clingy or needy guys run... But would need more information on what happened in more detail to really give more of an opinion...
mate it's nothing to do with boys, I'm the same way I just have a really strong fear of committing to the "wrong" person and love living on my own
what's that crap I'm reading in the comment?
Both girls and guys are affraid of thing going fast.
I can't find a girl that'll attach fast, like in less than a month of high-talking.
Define too fast. In my experience, talking about marriage after first sexual moment is too fast. Shacking up after first date is too fast. Anything that screams codependency is a flag for me.
Typically if I slam on the breaks really fast than it's because I need to figure out if this is real love or it's just going to fall apart. And if I'm going to invest long term in some woman she would understand that need.
men and women are culturally (and mistakenly) set up for different expectations here.
let me rephrase it. why does it have to move fast at all? especially if you're young. why not just relax and enjoy it for what it is.
Hmm. Something that could scare me a bit is, if you might be too clingy in a bad way. Like if you start living "ME" instead of living with "me". Like you got nothing else to do, than to think about me. Not being social with friends and so on... That has happened to a lot of girls I've seen throughout the years. And unfortunately that's what pushed me away from them.
They don't have time to think stuff through if it goes fast, I'd say, and that's alarming to many boys.