First date with an INTJ male?

[Anonymous]

i will have my first with my crush soon, he is an intj and very confident and well educated , what do you think i should do to not be boring and take his attention in this date? any advice will help me :) thanks in advance ♥

[deroy]

Do you want to win the battle? Then the strategy is simple. Don let him use his superpowers.
1. Wear a dress which will not make you look desperate, yet will catch his attention and will mess his brain , right up. Half the battle is won. Make sure he doesn tag you as well dressed decent girl. You are indeed in trouble then.

2. Now he will try to recover from what he has lost. When he tries to become intelligent, try working with your hair, as if you have not worked up your hair well. Make sure you have jumpy and curly hair on that day. A little headshake of yours will shake whatever he has inside his head.

[deroy]

N don try these things with me... I have gone immune.

[Asker]

thats good , but all you talked about is "looks" . i want advice about how i talk to him and about what sometimes i feel that he talks very much and doesn't let me speak as much as he speaks and i know he thinks he superior to most people so i wanna defeat him in his own game i wanna prove to him i am as smart.
he is really worth the try so i would really appreciate your help :(

[deroy]

Well that's what I told you. Do not let him use his superpowers. Mess his brain up so that he fails on his business , he knows well. You are going in the wrong direction. You are saying he is MJ and I'm gonna show him, how to do moon walk. That's not gonna work, if you already feel. Bring him to your game and finish him off. If you insist on talking, pick topics carefully. Like, relationship, career against love, etc. Guy of 21-25 age can't work on these topics carefully or smoothly. You may have an advantage, considring u r a girl and perhaps talk on this stuffs all the time. If you choose this, do remember to talk with emotions. Like when you ask a question, do not just throw it with a vibe, 'can yoy ans this Einstein?' That will be pushing for him. Instead, ask him with an emotion, which shows what you say is the right thing in the world and if he doesn agree, he is gonna break a heart, loud.

[Asker]

all he talks about is psychology _ which is my fav interest too _ and how he is a badass and how others benefit from his knowledge _which is so true_ and i can't help but agreeing with him and praising him i mean what could i do in this situation since he is Narcissistic a bit? .. if i talk about relationship he might think i am superficial and naive :/

[Asker]

and also how can i appear more confident? i mean in body language and stuff.
i am sorry i am asking so many questions but i am really nervous i was waiting for this for about 3 months.

[deroy]

Hmm... if he is into psychology, body language is not gonna help, unless you try to fake it. But let me tell what you are trying to get for yourself.
You are in the ring with another boxer. He says to you, I'm good in throwing puches on face. So you say to him, ok then I have to punch you in thee face only, I have no option, because if you punch somewhere else by the book, he may think less of you! That's not how you engage. Try him where you think you want to try a guy and don measure how good he is in his business. Yoy already know the ans to that. Dont you?

[Asker]

thank you a lot for your time i really appreciate it :)

[deroy]

Glad to be of some help! N don be tensed. It'd be a nice day. Enjoy and go knock him out!

[AlexanderZ]

lol. Okay, I'm a INTJ, and I don't know what to say. Dates kinda should flow naturally so try to relax, be yourself, and stay confident. We do like fellow intellectuals, so make conversation. If you don't know 'everything' about him, ask questions. Find common interests and branch off of them. Its your first date afterall, so focus on getting to know eachother.

[Nihilego]

Be yourself. That's it. Whatever happens, happens.
That letter shit doesn't mean as much as people like to pretend it does.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

That my personality type