It's how it's starts, if you don't start straight talking to him now, it will not take long before the rest crashes down. You have to be very honest and come to an agreement. Say: what about one of us cooks and the other cleans? Pick one, I need help around here buddy. Don't jump into conclusions, before asking, you'd be surprised and how well men respond to their women when a question is shot straight to the point without emotions, drama or guilt trips.
If he pulls the "I put the money, you do the work" just say this: This is not a mechanic shop where you bring your car, they do the work and you pay them money. it's a relationship and we both have to put the labor to make this work.
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YES it is fair. If he pays for the apartment and the groceries than he is doing more than his fair share. He doesn't want to take care of you like a child. Show him that you can contribute. Pick up some of the slack. Tell him "hey I feel like I should contribute more, I would like to help with A B C."
Yeah. It's not like he's doing nothing. He's doing his share and putting his effort into the relationship. He shouldn't have to cook for you.
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Yes, if you think it's unfair pay for the apartment and let him pay for the groceries and do dinner
Sounds like ya boi might have some sexist views lmao. You should probably talk to him and ask if he calls you his bitch in front of his friends. Good luck
Maybe he just doesn't like to do it?
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