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cause the bad men are those who tend to go for what they want not caring for what the person they are with wants. the "good" men care more and are less bold most times.
So many good men are single because you're not dating them!
Because good = fedora neckbeard, nice guy, creep, ulterior motive.
Depends on the person but... the nice ones are... zen and patient.
Especially guys like my Grandma and Grandpa who waiting until their 30s! :3 (Very rare to see that these days...)
Reasons:
1) he is dumb
2) very much focussed in their life
3) react awkwardly out of excitements
4) poor conversation skill
5) shy to express his feelings
The short answer is very simple: Because they want to remain single.
I'd say it's the lack of connections, or little to no social life because of various reasons.
I have a problem
Im too shy and I fear to communicate with a girl
Any advice?
Conquer your fears is all I can say. Or remain in your comfort zone. Your call.
Everyone has different tastes I guess. Maybe what you see in them others don't.
I'm not a good man, so I can't give a personal answer, but in general it's probably due to lacking confidencd.
*confidence
Well, Good guys are guys that have girlfriends. If a guy is single, he can't be a good guy. That's where your confusion lies, they may seem like a good guys, but the reason they don't have a girlfriend is because their bad. Notice how some guys can have multiple girls at the same time, or beat them? Girls put up with it because that guy has proof that he's a good guy and better than any single guy out there. Being a guy with no girlfriend means he's weak, a pussy, and overall just a horrible person. Girls rather sleep with guys who mentally and physically hurt them than with a virgin. It's nature, only the alpha's get to have girlfriends because that's who girls choose.
People's worth aren't determined by if they're in a relationship or not. Having many girls doesn't mean anything. They have a lot of losers with no future who attract a lot of women (who also have no future). I need you to drop that BS.
Thats complete bullshit lol your reasoning and thought process is flawes and fucked lol
What a steaming pile of BS of an opinion! I can't even tell where to begin where you are wrong.
Because its actually a fact of life. Bad things always happens to good people.
You say smart funny honest and nice.
You didn't mention hot.
At your age hot and cool are most important.
As they age it shifts more to a mix of attractive/good job/charming.
I'm single by choice. I can't go beyond a true friendship.
because to be honest women doesn't like good boys literally
only after dey get hurt by the bad boys dey realize the good 1was better bt till den it would have been too late :)
I'm friends with all the best looking girls in our school and I don't wanna mess with them
And I'm not even that good looking
Behind each one of them other stories u will never get 2 know so better dont ask why good men cuz maybe they're worst than what u can imagine
because we want the alpha males not the nice guys. nice guys can go die up alone in a monastery or something. i want a strong, dominant, smooth alpha male to give me his alpha offsrpings and protect me... .
beta guys are uninteresting and leechy. most haven't learn to socialise at an early age and how to talk to a woman. what makes us tick.
one of the reasons they are single is EXACTLY because they don't know what their problem is. they are boring, they bring nothing to the table, are poor, miserable, have a crappy routine, can't flirt, can't give emotions unconditionally, aren't led back, are stifled etc... .
You are obviously a bitter guy using a female account while going anon. Go away!
No, YOU are obviously a beta guy asking this nonsense. no woman would support beta guys. if you really were a woman you'd know exactly what we find appalling about them. he can be the nicest guy in the world, that alone doesn't get you a girlfriend. and it shouldn't.
they expect a crane to land a woman on their dick while watching their favorite tv show in their momma's basement. they are introverted, they don't socialise, they don't know how to express clear sexual intent, they don't know how flirt and play with women, they don't know how to subly physically escalate, they aren't fun, they don't share positive vibes around with everyone, they are too timid and withering. fuck this shit. i tried with one, and it ended in a week.
to a huge dergree they have selfishness as much as "niceness". cause to be so much in your head, and subconsciously believe you are the center of the universe and that if you flirt with a woman the end of the world will come, you certainly hide lots of narcissism. plus if he is not confident, congruent in his behavior and vibe, and assertive, then he is a fake, or a weakling. not what i want in my pants.
and if he is just socially incompetent and autistic instead of in his head, i still don't want them. cause it implies they are low status and they will do poorly in life and financial success. or instead could overcompensate by making lots of money. still apalling.
Since men and women have about a 1:1 population ratio, most women are not going to get an alpha, and when they get to about 30, even the betas are looking for younger women. You better be a high value wonen yourself if you don't want to end up alone or with a beta.
@bekkesmash only way i'd get a beta is in my late thirties and he better have money and a stable job.
So you are a prostitute then? Hahah your dad must be so proud.
@bekkesmash 80% of women asked in research studies, report that they feel they settled down with their husband. if so, we are all prostitutes. the beta provider is the safe choice if you decide for a family and can't find an alpha then... .
You are just describing why you are a whore/prostitute, you still are one though. Most men settle too, but not for monetary reasons.
@bekkesmash why else settle with a beta if not for his money? he doens't have much else as a man. you are the same. for you its hotness of a girl. you are a prostitute for looks then.
Prostitutes for looks? That's not a thing. You are a prostitute by the actual defintion of an official word. You make women sound like the most horrible creatures. I feel sorry for you and whoever buys your body.
@bekkesmash so money is superficial, looks aren't? you are such a bigoted hypocrite... .
One is actually gender specific, sorry for actually being attracted to the opposite gender body, you know, actually being heterosexual. Money is trade for almost anything, it means you are a product and property. If you are after money you could just as well go dater another girl, all women are bisexual anyway.
@bekkesmash no talking to you anymore. you are a sexist misogynist scared twat. i lost my time. your opinions matter as much as dog poop.
I am the sexist when you see most men as only money? you are the worst type of women, the type that betas physically beat when they get sick of them.
This is the biggest pile of horse shit I've ever seen. The alpha/beta thing is ridiculous, and everything you said is ridiculous. And what the hell are you going on about with "we" and "us"? Who the fuck elected you as the representative for the female sex? Speak for yourself asshole. Not all of us are entitled, pompous, gold-digging cunts like you've made yourself out to be. You're doing nothing but making the rest of us look bad, and you're part of the reason there's such a terrible stigma surrounding relationships, marriage, and women in general these days.
@CarpetDenim I may be as evil as you say but what does that make you? A hypocrite? You can't deny our very nature. Gold diggery has almost nothing to do with it. You'd choose an alpha man over a beta any day. I rejected brandpitt looking men in college just because they were creepy and awkward. 99% of the women i know prefer an alpha, assertive and confident man over them every day.
@CarpetDenim This entire thread is absurdly hilarious. The asker was probably spot on with her bitter male comment.
@Timodeum exactly. asker is a man trying to bash women indirectly. what if HE had to get pregnant for 9 months? a woman MUST choose her man carefully. beta, withering, weak men can't defend themselves not to mention you or your baby. only a bitter man would ask such a stupid question "Why are all these good men single". CAUSE THERE IS A REASON. social autism, non assertiveness, antisociality and introversion, coping instead of thriving mindset etc. i don't care how good a scared boy you are. i need a good MAN.
For fucks sake
@Timodeum u disagree? are you a bitter beta man as well? i've never met a normal man that doesn't agree to this opinion.
And you suck at trolling as well.
@Timodeum wow dude. you really need to get a grip. u have waaaayyyy to manhood if you don't understand this is serious... .
Timodeum thank me later in your life. If you have the balls to put it into practice of course. i don't care if a guy was like that naturally or had to force himself and struggle hard to reach that level, i only care if he DID reach that level that these guys advocate.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKAzOsPPg1I
I don't fucking care, you have been spouting bullshit for a day straight.
Anything reasonable Owen might have to say there is overshadowed by the fact that you're a delusional moron.
I'm blocking this anon troublemaker.
You never get the "because I want to be" response?
Only a few of them said so.
Where are they?😂
I want one
Ma body is ready