It does not make sense you send him nude photos but you will not let him see you nude on a video chat. Remember photos are considered a still shot and there is no actions but in a video everything is happening real time and there is a difference.
The next time he ask you to take off your clothes on a video chat and surprise him and take your bra off then squeeze both of your Tits together and say to him "Do you want to suck on and then fuck them"?
You have nothing to lose.
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You are irritated that he wants to see you naked on video but you have sent him nude pictures of yourself and you have only known him online for two weeks! Do you think you have contributed to his expectations?
Yes, his attitude blows. Is this the kind of guy who you want to get in bed with? What will be expect then? Do you want to take him home to meet mom and dad? Tell him goodbye.
For goodness sake tell him to naff off. He will no doubt save them, and maybe pass them round. He may even be looking to try and blackmail you. I do not know what you used to take the photos with, but you should stop sending them now. Certainly do not video chat naked. He will screen grab it all quite easily!
Read what my brother wrote:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27899-nude-photos-are-bad-why-geo-tagging-is-even-worse
Why are you still with him? You've only talked to him for two weeks and he already causing arguments over you not taking your clothes off on video? You already told him no and he still has a bad attitude about it. Thats a red flag. Stop entertaining him by continuing to talk to him and be around after all that unnecessary pressure to do something you don't wanna do. Have some self-respect and ditch his ass.
Uh, I'm not trying to be a dick, but he's an online guy you've known for TWO weeks. Are you shocked?
I barely consider you two a legitimate couple with such little time having passed. My advice? Take off now. You can clearly see what he wants you for and he's an asshole on top of that.
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He wants you. Simple.
A guy is allowed to want/ask for pics and vids of his girlfriend. A girl is also allowed to say "no" if she doesn't want to do it. We then are also allowed to be no longer into you if we don't get what we want, the same as you're allowed that if you don't get what you want from us. Is he maybe being a bit too aggressive about it? Yeah but that's testosterone for you. Relationships are about give and take and meeting in the middle. Do whatever you think is right. Just don't expect him to be into you any more if he doesn't get what he wants, same as you.I don't even have to read the entire thing... No means no. If he can't accept that and keeps pressuring you, tell him to fuck off with that noise.
You have no obligation here. Pic or video... he probably wants it for a way to say "look at "my" girl"...
He seems like a typical horny, toxic individual that pressures people into doing what they are not comfortable doing.
My roommate even agreed. He's toxic, and you should stay away from him if he cab take no or let you "progress" at your own pace.This is not love arguing with you
it's more exploitation
and even SOP for him with other gals, so GO FIND OTHER GALS, PAL
All YOUR fault comes from a liar that thinks only of self
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not satisfied with face-out nudes = never satisfied + all this friends don't believe his ego brags these nudes are YOU
Videos are much more demeaning to you and more sexually stimulating to him, more like porn and you are supposed to be his porn "star", perhaps even to share/trade w/others
If sharing, one day a nice guy that viewed you nude might take you on a date in order to have sex with his new obsession, like it or not... can be very unpleasantYou aren't overreacting.
In all honesty, this would've been something I'd threaten with. He doesn't have half a right to force you into doing something you're uncomfortable with. Talk to him about how you feel AND ask him why he's so insistent and persistent and tell him that if he doesn't figure it out you'll break up with him.
If that's all he wants from you then he's not the one boo...Don't do anything you are uncomfortable doing. And if he persists stop talking to him
I think you should tease him over some weeks. First few days, stay completely dressed, but with a sexy dress. Then after some weeks, show him hotter dresses, than after more time show him your underwear and so on.
No you're not overreacting. Seriously just cos someone is your girlfriend you don't have the right to demand anything. Hell even if you were his wife he can't demand things from you. It's been 2 weeks. Tell him to fuck off seriously cos if you pursue a long term relationship with someone like this then those demands may very quickly turn into violence when he doesn't get his way
"what are his intentions" ? he wants to see you naked and beats off to your naked body. isn´t that obvious? XD i can understand if you don´t want this. just tell him it´s not gonna happen and if he keeps bothering you with it, block him and never talk to him again.
Hey... If you find him so disgusting (so do i) then why are you still talking to him!
Why do you want to be with a person who you are not comfortable with... and it has been just two weeks right? You can move on easily i guess if you haven't fallen!!Do only what you feel comfortable with and never allow to be forced in anything you dont want to do.
You can nicely deny his request. If he persists, talk with him and explain you dont feel comfortable with it and he should respect that.
I think he is just trying to get what he wants , doesn't know how to take no for answer. But that doesn't mean you should do what he wants. He will have to deal with the fact that you are not his toy.If he is into you as a person he will not try to pressure you into anything. Drop him. And don't let him pressure you into anything
Leave that territorial dishrag. If he loved you, he would respect your personal opinions and needs, and he wouldn't goad you into taking off your clothes for him. I know you might like him, but I think the best idea is to dump him and move on to someone else who will treat you better. It sounds to me he just wants to get in your pants.
Getting some red flags from this. Dont ever do it, i dont trust this guy not to record it.
I would simply say "sorry, I'm not confortable with that". And from that on no longer follow that conversation.
Videos are 10 million times better because it's moving. But If it's making you feel uncomfortable tell him that and if he keeps pressuring you tell him you'll cease communication.
Stop talking to him. Also, just remember that when you finally do it; he was recording, and he has that footage of you forever.
He sounds like a creep. I'd ditch him. He has no respect for you at all. You're just a toy to him.
This guy sounds toxic. Dump him. It's not his right. He shouldn't be trying to pressure you into doing this.
Definitely don't do it! Why are you dating such a scum bag? Dump him.
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