He wants to video chat all the time, and always asks my opinion on things. Has anyone ever felt this before?

[Anonymous]

I'm in love with someone, someone I feel like I shouldn't be. We dated before, but I played him even though I loved him I was too confused and unable to love and be in a relationship at the time. I really felt like I needed to run away from this guy. So I stopped talking to him and told him to leave me alone for good. He ended up getting put in jail and being deported back to his country. The whole time he was in jail and I couldn't talk to him I felt like my heart was broken. I couldn't understand it because I thought I never really cared about him. When he got out of jail he started contacting me and asking me to come visit him. Part of me wants to but I don't think I should. I miss him a lot, but why do I feel like this? When we were dating I could care less about him! And what's up with his behavior? :/ He wants to video chat all the time, and always asks my opinion on things. What does this mean?

[coolbreeze]

I think he does miss you if he wants to video chat with you and he also wants you to visit him. I think it would be really up to you if you still want ot talk to him or even see him again. I think moving on from the ex is a very hard thing to do because their is so much memories and things you did that is very hard to forget. The real decision comes down if you want him back in your life or not? Or do you just want to keep things the way they are.