Why doesn't he text me? He's so unpredictable!
I met this guy, through one of my friends on a night out and we hit it off straight away. We both got really drunk, and I ended crashing back at his and sleeping with him. To begin with, I saw this only as a one-night stand as I'd recently broken up with someone due to me going to University.
But that changed. The guy said he “couldn't believe I was with him now,” and that I was “stunning,” and “way out of this league.”
AND MORE specifically; “he'd like to see me again.”
I sobered up and realized I quite liked him too, so I agreed to meet him in a few days. We kept in contact through the week via texting, and we had a great time when I came over. Yes, I slept with him again but we enjoyed each others company. He even said that he'd come to University to see me.
When he left, he text me he “missed me,” and I said I felt the same.
I was busy in the forthcoming week, so we agreed to meet up again in 10 days. 4 days have gone and barely texts me, and only contacts me through Facebook, commenting on posts and posting stuff on my wall. He only texts me, if I text him. Even a simple “Good night” text would make my day, but no such thing. I sent one the other day and he replied: “Aww beaut! Goodnight =) xx”
I sent him a message today saying: “Just checked the rota at work, and I'm def free. You still up for coming over?”
He replied (quickly): “Of course, darling =) Can't wait to see you.”
I know I don't know him well enough, but am I being paranoid? What's going on?
Should I just give it time?
Please help me, I'm confused lol.
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I've tried being the reliable, easy to get a hold of always-there guy who has gifts on birthdays, surprise trips out of town etc and the end result was always the same - she'd skip out with some random guy. Ask other guys, I'm not the only one. So instead I lie about what I'm doing, don't return calls - told a girl I was really busy the other night so I could catch up on my world of warcraft - and she's texting like crazy to hang out tomorrow night. So in a nutshell being unpredictable works whereas being reliable gets you the cold shoulder.0