My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over three months now. When we first started dating I was 145 pounds and I could tell he was subtly trying to make hints for me to gain weight and even told me I would look good with about 20 more pounds on me. Before we met I was already losing weight. I weighed 157 pounds ten months ago. As time has now went on I lost 9 pounds and I am now 136 pounds and I am 5ft4 by the way. I'm not trying to lose weight I've just been under a lot of stress and depressed and it doesn't help when I'm taking three buses and walking 55 minutes five days a week to go to work. My boyfriend's critiquing about my body has took a real turn since I've lost weight. Lastnight he told me he wanted to get me pregnant so that I could pick up some weight? And he told me directly he wanted me to pick up some weight which I wouldn't mind picking up a few more pounds but he makes it seem like he's not too satisfied with the way I look now and that I'm not good enough. He doesn't just critique me about my weight sometimes but also my boobs and how they look. I'm a 36D cup and have always had perky boobs but he doesn't seem to like em. In the mirror he held my boobs up and told me how he wanted them to look someday. As time goes by I find myself getting more insecure about myself than I already feel. I'm glad he's open and honest but I'm starting to feel very offended. I confronted him about it and he said he wasn't trying to be a jerk and said he was concerned for my health. I love him very much but his critiquing is starting to get out of control.
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