Numbers game in the sense of approaching as many girls as you can and eventually 1 will bite. Should you expect lots of rejection? How is your experience any advice?
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Is hitting on girls at the club/bar a numbers game?
It's something in the middle the odds are not random. Make sure you're not pushing girls away with your actions. If she's not attracted to you there's nothing you can do about it move on.
All rejection in that way is personal. For example, you have a piece of art you drew it might be good but you might not succeed in getting into reality. Learn to accept rejection and move on. Because in many fields the only way you succeed is just by trying over and over again until someone bites.
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Yes. There's also another factor to it which is diminishing returns. Every girl you approach comes with the risk of other girls seeing that, hearing that, others being told about it by the girl or witnesses or even just being asked directly about how many girls you've tried to chat up that night. The more aware they become of you the lower your chances get. It's not a game I would want to play.
Find a girl I like that I see regularly at work or class or other activity, whatever you have going on. Develop a bond and escalate into a relationship.
Nope. Done my share of approaching strangers. I'm over it. Girls are really the main reason guys go to clubs and since I've no interest in chatting girls up in that situation I just don't ever go to clubs, let alone approach any girls in a club.
100% numbers game. If you're decent looking you're basically guaranteed to score. However if you're really good looking you can just focus on the one person you like.
Do you think it's harder to get a girls # at clubs then other places like library, coffee shop, school etc. when approaching. I feel like they have their shield up at clubs because they're already expecting to be hit on. So you really got to be on top of your game.
Well, there is one problem. If they see you asking their friend out, getting rejected and then asking them out, they will probably think you are using them as a consolation prize
No it’s... I didn’t mean it offensively. But it’s definitely a numbers game when you’re at a bar. When girls are at clubs and bars it takes a lot more than a pretty face and a good personality for them to say yes
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