Is hitting on girls at the club/bar a numbers game?

Numbers game in the sense of approaching as many girls as you can and eventually 1 will bite. Should you expect lots of rejection? How is your experience any advice?Is hitting on girls at the club/bar a numbers game??
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  • Numbers game

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    • Should I try to approach as much girls as possible

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  • Yes. There's also another factor to it which is diminishing returns. Every girl you approach comes with the risk of other girls seeing that, hearing that, others being told about it by the girl or witnesses or even just being asked directly about how many girls you've tried to chat up that night. The more aware they become of you the lower your chances get. It's not a game I would want to play.

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    • So what would you do

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    • So you don't approach girls at clubs

    • Nope. Done my share of approaching strangers. I'm over it.
      Girls are really the main reason guys go to clubs and since I've no interest in chatting girls up in that situation I just don't ever go to clubs, let alone approach any girls in a club.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Yes it really is

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    • So should I just keep on approaching girls even after consecutive rejections

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    • Oh yea lol your from the U. S. I'm assuming

    • Yes I am

What Guys Said 9

  • It's something in the middle the odds are not random. Make sure you're not pushing girls away with your actions. If she's not attracted to you there's nothing you can do about it move on.

    All rejection in that way is personal. For example, you have a piece of art you drew it might be good but you might not succeed in getting into reality. Learn to accept rejection and move on. Because in many fields the only way you succeed is just by trying over and over again until someone bites.

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  • Well, there is one problem. If they see you asking their friend out, getting rejected and then asking them out, they will probably think you are using them as a consolation prize

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  • 100% numbers game. If you're decent looking you're basically guaranteed to score. However if you're really good looking you can just focus on the one person you like.

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    • Do you hit on girls at clubs

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    • I think it's easy in both places. You just need to change your game accordingly.

    • Teach me 😅

  • It may very well be a numbers game but for you to play the numbers game that means you also need to go for the women you are utterly not attracted to.

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  • sometimes you are horny and feel like a fuck. clubs/pubs are very good for this. Directness with women works a treat

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  • it is numbers game, the more you hit , the more you score. It is as simple as it is

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    • Is it normal to get rejected a lot more then not?

    • Like 1-5 I guess

    • I'm happy if i score 20-30 % , 2-3 girls in 10,
      so yes you always get more rejections then scores :P

  • Numbers game

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  • Both answer are correct.

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    • Expect lots of rejection?

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    • So getting just 1 out of 10 girls is good?

    • It is levelnplayer. Like someone whongets consistently. Someone whose life is filled with women.

  • Yeah pretty much

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