Why do guys HATE commitment? (Page 7)

Question

I'm not intending to generalize, but why do most guys take pride in cheating and having many girls? Most of them love to play the role of " The Player " instead of  the boyfriend . why is commitment such an awful thing to them?

Kevinjyrwa08 · Answer

Some of them don't know the True meaning of love... They only realized when there is no one by their side... They act like they are playboy but actually they indolence fool

AMIITBHU · Answer

Not all hate commitments.. But those who do may either fear loosing their independence in the personal life or else maybe they want to look for better options to get committed to.

praveenkumarpk · Answer

Commitment makes our own self to be a busy person in money making while we loss our many childish habits and ran like machine behind money till the death

girlwithmusic · Answer

Some guys think that they can "play" when they want and with whom they want without any consequences. That is why we exist to help them emerge from the role of "player" and become men.

omargv1 · Answer

I don't think most guys hate it. its just that most don't think about it and when the subject comes up we don't have an answer and plus guys are usually the ones that have to pay for it

bigtec82 · Answer

Because a committed relationship can lead to marriage marriage can lead to divorce and divorce can read to her taking half stuff and leaving you paying her every month

GoodMan789 · Answer

Basically, as women become more and more feminists it takes any security of dependency, that a couple has to have, away and men will resort to their primal desire to conquer the next greatest thing...

BurntSiennaBoi · Answer

Personally I'm not, but that doesn't really matter. I think at a certain age guys very much just want sex, and romantic intimacy threatens their care free, I the moment life style.

mrthreelefts · Answer

Either it's a bait and switch on either party, or one of the two can't be tied down

legendaryintrovert · Answer

Why did you decide yourself? Or else did you forget to mention some? I'm not.

meganbirdy · Answer

depends on the guy! just as some girls don’t like commitment

Nash1991 · Answer

Because women won't let us commit with their hyperemotionalism and their constant greed.

Cooldude21 · Answer

I want a girlfriend but a lot of girls use me and hurt me. I want to be committed to that one girl

iamclueless · Answer

I don't I get way to attached to fast but its goy a lot to do with how that were raised

john76 · Answer

Men don't hate commitment. Focus on what commitment is in the relationship.

nicoizfun96 · Answer

Because we want to not get hurt and also feel free and that we aren't captured

IMainHanzo · Answer

Men don't hate commitment. Please don't over generalize.

legalboxers · Answer

Im not afraid. been wanting it for 20 years of my life. Im 41 now.

clampfan101 · Answer

I desire it. I simply can’t find the one I want to choose.

Gijs1990 · Answer

Well guys don't hate commitment as long you don't want to Mary him already after a few months or so

skykid1992 · Answer

Some girls are not ready to settle down and others don't truest women

bibi3pu · Answer

Why do women love it? Tomorrow is full of posibilities, why give that up just to listen to you

iron1414 · Answer

We don't hate it. In fact some of us would love to have it.

alanlikesbears · Answer

Not all guys hate it. Some are just selfish or disrespectful

oldoldold · Answer

I guess it depends on where you live. Not like that here

GetFragged · Answer

Blame women. Guys are biologically wired to want to fuck a lot of women.

Nerdking · Answer

Bc men and women make bad choices and date people mostly for aesthetic and emotional reasons.

BlackParade · Answer

Because most men are sluts. That's it. It's simple. Not even an opinion. It's a fact. Fact.

ashleyrenee22 · Answer

because if they commit then they realize that they can't mess it flirt with other girls anymore. they realize it's about you.

Anonymous · Answer

Because if he commits to a woman, there's a chance that the woman will 1. cheat on him, have another man's baby, and force him to pay child support
2. uses him for money
3. abuses and slanders him
4. tries to push feminist ideals on him

tantrum · Answer

I don't when I FINALY meet the rite one , I'm most loyalist , loving caring protecteve. fucker on the planet.

17morgm · Answer

Because you chose the guy that plays with your emotions - stop choosing those guys. They're not as great as you think.

sucker_for_smiles08 · Answer

just as many girls do the same. they enjoy attention of more the one guy. people are intentional jerks. don't give it much thought

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t understand why I guess they don’t really like the girl they are with

Utell · Answer

Because they are guys Not Men.  gentleman does not hate commitment

happyness28 · Answer

Because it can neally kill us killed some mates around me wouldn't you be scared

thenewjay24 · Answer

We don't hate commitment we just know what we want in a wife or a one night stand

bobby1973 · Answer

I have no. problem with commitment just find it hard to do d a woman that's willing to commit to me

Rayce · Answer

Guys hate commitment because they have too much to lose

Clarke498 · Answer

Some do. Some don't. Use more time before having sex, to find out.

razor97 · Answer

i don't hate commitment. i actually find it essential for a successful relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Because they have privilege of hook up and sex free society particularly in western culture its common thing to lose your virginity at any cost otherwise you are not normal.

Anonymus2017 · Answer

Not all guys do. I personally want nothing more.

Out_About_2 · Answer

Thats bullshit, if anything those are the guys women encounter more.

CuteMonsta · Answer

BC most guys just want to have fun and not have a serious relationship which is stupid

umusbesmokin · Answer

Really, I don't. I wish I could find a woman who could be committed...

BeHappy1985 · Answer

Because you're 19 and it's a "thing" ... And the guys you know are boys not men...

hahamariooo · Answer

Because they are afraid to commit, but most guys aren't like the player

mrmxyzptlk · Answer

The guy who will truly love you will never be afraid of a commitment.

tooshortforthewhite · Answer

Girls hate commitment too. As for me I hate it because not one girl has convinced me otherwise... American women are so spoiled

Anonymous · Answer

I dont hate it, but I've had times when i didn't want it cause o had other priorities

Mathias777 · Answer

If a guy wanted to commit and is serious about it he will probably get cheated on later. Same for other side. Its something about breaking the rules.

Typhoon79 · Answer

We don't..! We hate nagging and,, notching at us for the same Shit that attracted you to us in the first place!!!

charleymashek · Answer

Commitment is a big part of life that many people just aren't ready for. When people meet their match that's when they can start to commit.

fencekey · Answer

I think you've just been with pricks.  All I've ever wanted was that romantic long term relationship. You need to look harder

willek777 · Answer

Nowadays girls do the same, can't stick with one guy and tries to get as much attention as she can. Commitment comes from both sides tbh.

WhatsInAUsername · Answer

Because most of the guys are afraid of their girl thinking other rich guy (s) can have her better, can treat her better...

sexalgr · Answer

Commitment is not awful for us, but women want more often commitment and men need more sex, so or men become sad not having sex or they cheat and lie

dragon13194 · Answer

I think I t gets better when guys get older they grow up honestly I have personally never had that problem

ErnestAddai · Answer

Not that kind of guy but one thing for sure is a man will never be in commitment with someone he don't love... guys often like but not love.

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