Why do guys HATE commitment? (Page 9)

[AlwaysBelieving]

I'm fine with commitment.

[KenKillsBarbies]

We don’t I’m happy in a relationship

[Stephanie89]

They want to be the man.

[Iron_Man]

I don't I love commitment

[Trollduckpie]

Well... I don't. Don't know about you guys

[Lu3xxx]

Because you would nees to commit to something?

[King2B]

Because once we commit you women change!

[nihilistic]

Cause fuck bitches and get money

[shyBriguy]

No we don't hate commitment to the right person.

[nathan001]

Because you change as soon as we commit

[JohnMartin22]

Bz usually people r ego centeric

[baby181036]

Because men are mostly interested in sex

[Acuxx_Reflux-arC]

Maybe you should ask guys that.

[Asad1ONE1]

The same reason girls do - when they get bored.

[Moekay]

Freeeeeeeeeedoooooooom

[Ceasar_Rex]

Most of them aren't ready for commitment

[The_Rickest_Kris]

My question is why do women FEAR commitment?

[McQueen99]

Guys loves commitment..

[davad_it]

They think with logic not emotions

[cbuff83]

I don't know I am a high and never understood that

[Guanfei]

Or maybe that's juste what you attract.

[Anonymous]

It scares them

[Axel80]

In my experience the women didn't want to commit.

[Opinion Owner]

@Axel80 oh, that’s too bad I didn’t mean all men. I just figured the majority. Sorry to hear that.

[Axel80]

I would love to be in a committed relationship or any relationship or even just a hookup.
It gets pretty desperate after 2,5 years...

[Opinion Owner]

@Axel80 I hear what you’re saying. Have you dated at all since then? Anything you like?

[Axel80]

No, every time I got turned down and I barely have any matches on datingsites etc.

[Opinion Owner]

@Axel80 that’s sucks. Im sure the right girl will come along... cheesy I know.
Can I ask what happened with the last relationship?

[Axel80]

After so much disappointments I don't know how to act/what to say anymore.
My self-esteem had gone rock bottom, so that makes me even more less attractive.
Besides that I have no job because of psychiatric problems, caused by my divorce 14 years ago after which my ex totally destroyed me (while she wanted to divorce me), a burn-out at work what resulted in getting fired, the loneliness for not having a partner or even any other sexual relationship and the trigger to seek psychiatric help was losing my last partner who just didn't love me anymore while I thought she was perfect for me.
So that too doesn't make me attractive to women unfortunately.

[Axel80]

Everyone says the right woman will come along.
No-one says when, so could as well be ten, twenty years from now?

[Axel80]

My last relationship was with the perfect person for me.
She just said after a little bit more than a year she didn't love me anymore.
The only explanation she had was that she never felt sexually comfortable with men.
For the rest we have a lot in common and she still values me as a good friend (maybe even her best friend).
But no feelings of love anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

@Axel80 first of all, sorry to hear all of this. None this makes you unattractive. You been through rough times. We all go through rough times at one time or another.
I can’t say I’ve ever been through a divorce but my parents have and I know what it’s like going through it as a kid. Your wife divorced you and destroyed your life and made you miserable. That’s certainly no fun. I can absolutely see that getting in the way of your everyday life and messing with your job. Now, you don’t have a job and you probably feel even less of a person and everything is falling apart... I get it. It would be normal at this point to want to get help and talk to someone about it. It was 14 years. That’s a long time.
As for your other relationship, if she couldn’t handle you needing help still, then it’s better you are not together anyway. The problem with that though, is you probably weren’t ready for a relationship yet. You may still have needed time to mend over the last one. She may have been...

[Opinion Owner]

perfect for you but it just wasn’t the right timing.
You probably just need to fix yourself first and have really good people around you to heal. Then get into your best relationship.

[Axel80]

I never said my last girlfriend needed to help me.
My problems were never an issue between us and when I was with her I could handle them.
Sure I need to fix myself and that is in progress already, but I really miss someone very close to me to support me through all of this and of course miss intimacy.

[Opinion Owner]

@Axel80 oh okay. Well, it’s good that you are best friends with her. She sounds she will be a good person to stand by you

[Drifting_tiger]

Relationships are so overrated. U people crack me up

[hellionthesagereborn]

Nope. They want to make sure the women they are commited to is not going to screw them as legally women have the ability to destroy a mans life. They take on the greater responsibility when it comes to relationships and that means more to lose if things go wrong. Meanwhile if a man acts like he wants commitment women immediately want to dump him because he is "clingy" or "moving to fast" so all in all their is little incentive from women to want commitment.

[mo1985]

Not all guys like that some want it

[zymone]

Guys also get committed

[thumpurrr]

I don't hate it or run from it.

[strech347]

Well it's all about how you approach things

[interstellar]

Your non generalization excluded me from question.

[imadecentguy]

Its less fun & more responsible

[xavierroshan644]

Why should we add a boundary in a relationship

[dunbad01]

A lot of time it is. Is there someone better.

[BE13father]

Because girls love challenges with taken guys lmao

[bushbooger]

Same reason girls do it

[Calix]

Women are like sex toys, variety is the best

[themaker4u]

They don't, you go for players

[Theicekube]

Some just aren't ready

[fox_shawn_11k]

I don't hate commitment I try my best

[marcodno1]

Because I always get shit on

[ChrisSellers86]

Some guys do, I however do not.

[Tiffanylamb]

Most guys don't

[Anonymous]

Just like you Girls we want freedom.

[Anonymous]

Girls don't? Sexual liberation says other wise.

[Drifting_tiger]

Why have one when u can have more

[Longshanks68]

It’s fun but it wears out after a while

[Drifting_tiger]

Nooooo it doesn't. U r wrong

[YingKim]

🤔🤔🤷‍♀️

[frosty1]

I dont

[DogEatsCat1973]

I do not hate it.

[eirik111]

We do?

[aladean]

Some don't.

[gabez84]

I love commitment

[FUCBOI_ARDEE]

Whatever nlggue

[monicasagi]

No idea

[MohammedAZ]

No we don't

[Glen68]

I love commitment

[chef12]

I'm ready to commit

[rs0407924]

Ego.

[thatindiantraveller]

They don't...

[Andro7]

So stereotype 😎

[mila12]

Cuz they have issues

[thegr8lion]

Get bored easily

[kam401]

Fear.

[dead_in_front]

I dont