What makes a guy want to be in a relationship? (Page 3)
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Its never one thing it depends on the individual and with any relationship there must be goals and if there the same the relationship will be successful because both partners will work twords that goal
Chemistry
As close to a dude and a nurture entity as possible. Similar to their mom's but without giving them a weird visual of them being so similar.
Add yourself to their life where they barely notice you. They will love you the most.
Well except being blue or green eyes and red or blond hair, I am sure I have all those traits.. well, yeah u can call me goodie or innocent or plain or whatever but that’s what I am and I plan to keep it for my future husband.. thanks
Hell yeah! I need her to be compatible with me. Meaning, we have to connect on a basic level in the things we like to do. Looks don't matter too much, because if she's the one, she's hot to me.
Guys generally if they are searching for a girl, they do it for normal relationship or just to have fun, but some guys search for a perfect woman who is capable of fitting in his life, once the guy really gets that kind of girl he'll never leave her and iam waiting for that perfect woman
Just remember she'll be perfect for you but she won't be perfect. Sometime people dismiss someone that would have been perfect for them because they don't fit everything they think they want. I almost threw away my fiance and Best friend because I had it in my head that he didn't fit everything I wanted. I'm glad I realized perfect is a fairytale because he makes me very happy.
When he wants someone to feel love with and share memories.
I think a guy wants to be in a true committed relationship, when he's in love. If he is only using a girl for one thing (Most Commonly sex.) He's not going to label it as a true relationship if he's not committed to you or in love.
Showing interest in their life and being active with them. (Ie. Asking about their day, subtle flirting, talking about yourself, asking about their passions and such)
Just take care of your appearance and don't shag other guys. That's pretty much all it fucking takes. You'd think it wouldn't be that hard to find, but it is.
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Even if finding someone who takes care of their appearance and is faithful alone is hard to find, surely there's more to it for that than that? Judging from your past comments, I don't think you would be interested in being with an insufferable bitch right? Haha
@UnknownXYZ True, but I think that one, particularly, goes without saying.
Definitely need a connection of some type. Some go for physical attraction, others aim for personality. It can be a whole combination of things that's different from guy to guy.
I'm not quite sure what my standards are, what I'm willing to compromise on, but I have some general hopes.
I'd like a woman who likes many of the same types of things I like, and can indulge my kinks.
Well, in general, I find that men find them selves loving ur "little quirks" so to speak, the roll on ur belly, etc. Also, probly the biggest thing is space, when girls need to talk all the time, it can be very draining, it's not because we don't care, but cause men tend to be more independent, we work things out in the majority of problems. So we In turn don't talk about stuff to the same frequency of females. Hope this was helpful😊
Well the whole point of being in a relationship is to be able to be with that person for the rest of your life there should be no specific thing a guy looks for only in what the heart wants. The ability to just lie next to somebody and cuddle them to sleep and wake up looking at their beautiful face is enough. Be able to kiss hug cuddle have kids that's what a guy wants if it's anything other than that then all the guy is looking for is sex
What I would want in a relationship is someone who comforts you, can help you with things most guys aren't good at, and someone who he can trust and open his feelings to. And most guys want attention and want to cuddle with someone they love
hope you dont lose this honesty insight as you get older :)
Well, usually---if not always---it's because he wants to sleep with her. As to why? That depends on what he's attracted to.
If after he sees her as more than just a sentient fuckable sack of meat, then he'll want something long term.
From my experience, i was always taught that; i should find a good wife to build a family with, but how good she'll be, will be determined by who i find and how they'll behave in a relationship. On contrary, if she makes me feel respected and loved, i will do the same for/to her for a long time.
She must give you the feeling that you're needed but without the pressure, that she relies on you. Just simply in a good way. And also to honesty and trust. Of course, it's not necessary to tell her every bit of your life, but on the important stuff, she should be honest. Generating interest. I usually noticed that I don't pay attention to others and not interested in the other person even almond friends or such. Then there's no human relationship. It's needed.
how do you feel needed without feeling pressure. that seems like a contradiction, maybe you mean 'wanted' bc if its a need then there's pressure. generally speaking.
I think with anyone there's no one thing. It depends on the connection two people have and things in common.
For me, a girl has to be somewhat attractive, smart, and has a good sense of humour. And I feel like a lot of guys would agree that these are the standards they look for.
Only if he see a future with you that means everything :)
Honesty so there can be complete trust, absence of narcissism/attention seeking, genuine concern for wellbeing of others, sexually open minded.