You know, I think it's more complicated than that. I do think that in general, women often choose the wrong guy, i. e. they choose the hot, exciting guy and wonder why they're constantly disappointed. However, I have this friend Windy and well... I feel she's always made the right decision. I mean, this is a wonderful woman. She's beautiful, intelligent, thoughtful... there's nothing wrong with her at all that I can see. She also has always made it a point to date guys that she felt were long-term prospects -- they were always educated, had stable careers, were umm... overweight ;-) Yet for some reason, these guys always cheat on her and leave her. I have no idea why.
She's a conservative girl living in Tennessee and unfortunately, she's the only one of her friends who's still not married -- which is sort of a big thing among her social group. I don't know what to make of it. Maybe she's the exception to the rule or maybe my (and your) entire assumption about ugly nice guys and hot assholes is not as valid as we think it is?
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I think it depends on attention from girls growing up, I'm sure if an ugly guy got swarmed growing up, he'd end up cocky and not care about girls because he know there's plenty more chasing him. And I suppose if you get ignored long enough to know how horrible it feels, you learn the value of someone else's company and respect it.
Ypu might have a point although it's not always like this. I know men that are ugly but but have such aura that make all girls go crazy and they are still assholes. Or vice-versa, I knew some not so pretty girls and the guys still were attracted to them but they behaved really bitchy. I think more depends on your charisma and if you have the "come here" aura. Also it depends on that persons education, how he was raised and tought by his parents I guess.
The ugliest men I know are literally the worst most dangerous men I have met, most of my emotional scars came from them because my country is full of ugly men. I am like beauty surrounded by beasts who are terrified of women like me but want to fuck up our lives.
People who tell you that just likes it when ugly men can land women they plan to tear down, it's always fun when a pretty girl's life is ruined.
In my experience, most ugly guys have been assholes too. Maybe it is my bad luck. But I have come to the realisation that I'm better off not judging character by looks (I know my first sentence is judgy, but speaking from experience, those ugly guys were truly assholes too. @.@).
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Possibly.. Depends on where you're from. Where I'm from great looking what-a-burger guys don't get much play. However you could be the "white skin" version of flavor flav with $5 million dollars and get all the pussy. But like I said depends on your geographical location.
It's actually the other way around. The assholes are the ones you consider hot likely.
Jezz I hope not everyone is like that. Hey, not everyone you meet should be like that you just gott keep looking haha find someone with a nice spread of looks and personality or something I dunno aha
Not true at all. You just have had bad experiences that's all.
There are plenty of dudes that are ugly physically and ugly inside too.
And plenty of good looking guys that are nice people too.I dunno... I know a few ugly fellas that are extreme cunts.
In general it's because if you have less of something you treat it better.
Ugly guys honestly have to be nicer/funnier because they don't have looks to back them up, they have to stand out in a different way. Not necessarily a bad thing though
Wht u said is right there r limitations for ugly guys were as the hot ones have lot of options...
Find a guy in between
you need to some change in you life
Lol
I am nice!
Oh crap I am too nice!Beauty is subjective.
No even an ugly girl can get a man
Its just ur observation
I think you got it
yeah
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