24 y/o physicist never dated/kissed/slept with a girl, should I tell a woman?

[Anonymous]

Hello there,
probably I'm a little too old fashioned for this forum and my English might be bad
but nonetheless I'm interested in sharing some thoughts and reading some of your opinions.

As the title already says I'm a 24 year old virgin and getting my masters degree this year. Although I understand that there is pressure on men to loose their virginity I was never able
to find someone I truly liked, build up a relationship and eventually sleep with them.
In my case it was also a numbers game, since there are hardly any women at our physics institute
and since I work out a lot, going out and drinking was never something I was interested in.
Being a more of a conservative type of person and being industrious didn't help either.

The funny thing is somehow that I got approached by women quite some time,
but I didn't quite understand their signs (which is of course typical for a physicist... :P ).
It literally took me some of these youtube videos like "10 signs a woman wants you",
in order to understand afterwards that I missed these opportunities.
On the other hand the only person who approached me and was pretty clear with his signs
is a gay doctoral student we have at our institute... :P

However,
what I would like to ask is:
if I start approaching girls and eventually taking them out on dates, should I tell them that I'm a virgin or not?
Being a virgin at my age is - as far as I can tell - considered weird
and when I told my closest friends about my concern the answer was clear: hookers.

What do you make out of that?
I'm not a big fan of the "hookers" idea, because I would like to have sex with someone
I actually like and have some connection with...

Thanks for being able to share my thoughts with you,
I'm thankful for every opinion :)

(Oh and yeah I know I'm a virgin looser yada yada yada...)

[Logorithim]

Most women can tell right away that a man is inexperienced, and, honestly, it takes a few years to really become a great lover.

Your selling point is that you're highly educated/intelligent and will be making a good salary. That will attract plenty of women, so don't worry.

Just be yourself. Incidentally, I've met some highly educated women in their 30s and 40s who were clearly inexperienced and rather clumsy at hitting on guys.

[Logorithim]

One more thing- that you're a virgin is something you tell your girlfriend, not just any women you go out on a date with.

[billmunch]

i lost mine at 30. she knew immediatwly i was still a virgin because i was so nervous and awkward, so you might not be able to hide it. at first she was shocked that i was still a V; she was very experienced but liked the idea of being my first everything. o think you should tell her. personally, waiting until 30 was hard and not my choice but it really turned me on knowing that she enjoying the moment.

[White_Widow]

I would tell her, just maybe not on the first date... most girls i know would be honered, that you would consider them fir first time.. i know i would

[billmunch]

i lost mine at 30 to a woman the same age. she liked the idea of being my first because she hadn't taken a guy's virginity since high school, especially since she would be my first kiss, sex and BJ. She was also the first naked woman i had seen in person. at the time, it was embarrassing having to admit i was still a virgin but looking back on it, it turns me on knowing i got yo be somebody's first at such an old age. it makes the memory even more special. The only thing i would have changed was her age. the only thing i would have changed is that i would have lost it to a younger woman. the idea of losing it to a woman 10 years younger kind of turns me on. i thought i was destined to be a life long virgin, so losing it at 30 makes the memory even more special.

[Bandit74]

I wouldn't reccomend telling her unless she directly asks you about it, and even then you might be better off lying.

[Anonymous]

Don't tell them your a virgin at first, especially if your looking for more than just sex, unless it happens to steer there then let them know!

[Anon-ymous1]

You mean should you tell her all that? That you've never fucked a girl before her? No, I wouldn't. Don't tell her that at all.

[johnieohm2]

Lol i am guessing you probably know how iffy science has gotten

[Anonymous]

Get a prostitute...
You're not virgin anymore...
Problem solved !

[HonestGirlAlways]

I wouldn’t mention it unless they asked.

[shahriar_acid]

Sure, tell her the true