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In 2014, i fell fast and hard for this guy. We met online that December and connected instantly. We lived in the same
State but two hours apart and neither of us had a car. We were like eachothers twin we had so much in common. He kept sayin i was his “boo thang” until we became official. He was like one of the first online guys i really fell for. He was the first i skyped and everything. Last we spent together was Christmas Eve. And he told me his phone would prob be off soon cause he couldnt afford the bill. But i wasn't expectin that to be Christmas Day :( especially when he knew we were posed to meet the first week of January. I didn't hear from him again until early March. He text me his phone had just got cut back on. Dude was sexy af like 9/10 and i wanted to reply but i was so hurt that he supposedly ghosted me that i never replied. Just blocked him
that depends how and why they ghosted me and whether they were male or female. I would forgive a female if they had legitimate reasons such as believing a lie somebody told about me. I would not forgive a romantic interest who ghosted me unless it was something I expected... i. e. we were just acquaintances or very distant strangers when he decided to ghost me and he ghosted me cause we were never that close in the first place.
I would be extremely disappointed, I would most likely let it go eventually but I would definitely would not be able to trust that person again. After being ghosted, I don't think I would want that person to come back, to me that says they weren't able to find someone else so they are just coming back to me in the time being. So no, what's dead should stay dead. They can return back to their grave or haunt someone else.
No. I'm a person who has learned that I literally don't need anyone except my family.
Anyone outside of that is just icing on the cake, and icing can be easily removed.
I once ghosted on a girl (we weren't dating), because I felt that she was getting too close to another guy, and that I wasn't needed anymore.
My next interaction with her, about a year later, she was still with that guy, but they weren't dating.
I had no interest in repairing things or even speaking to either of them.
I do forgive the girl who ghosted me but I wouldn't get back together with her.
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s No, i wouldn't want to get back with someone like that, as i'd assume someone with that behavior would possibly do it again, if they could cut me out so easy the first time.. what stops them doing it a 2nd time?
Well.. a girl who ghosted me on a dating site is the one I've currently been dating.
She is amazing. I forgive her.
Im falling in love... shhhh. don't tell.
I give the gal every possible opportunity to explain her actions; in case it's something totally understandable. But if her responses make it clear that what she can't quite spit out is that she isn't interested anymore, then I try to get her to spit it out and be honest. Otherwise, she's wasting my time and her own.
It would depend on if they had a reason for ghosting. If it's a valid one, of course I would forget.
It also matters how early on they ghosted. If it was in the beginning, I think it's more forgivable than if we had been 'talking' for months.
Either way it's an immature thing to do, so trust would definitely need to be earned back.
i did one time. I broke up with him because he was ghosting me. We got back together last September. Then in November he started to ghost me again and told someone that he was going to break up with me for another girl. I honestly need a good reason now if someones ignoring a text or avoiding you or last minute cancelling on a date. I need a good reason. I need to know that he's going to be committed. So he would need to prove to me that he's worth it not just a "i forgot". Other wise No
I've forgiven the guys that ghosted me in the past when they decided to come back.
I think I felt that if they came back, they must really care. "If something comes back then its meant to be." I always thought that saying was true.
But based on my experiences, it never worked out! So going forward, I would probably just let the past stay in the past and forgive but not take him back. I guess there's always a reason for everything. I'm big on quotes if you didn't realize lol.
Hell no. Ghosting isn't a mistake, it's a deliberate manipulation or a series of piss poor decisions. Even if they think they deserve another shot and can prove themselves, they're wrong. They've ALREADY proved themselves to be selfish and unreliable. Only a fool would knowingly reconnect with someone like that.
It'd be very hard to. I expect loyalty and ghosting me for whatever reason shows me where I stand with her. I wouldn't be able to trust her or respect her after that. I'd only take her back for selfish reasons; like if I didn't have a girl already lined up, I'd use her until her replacement came along.
That's a interesting one to answer, I could & probably would forgive. I've ghosted a few people, & I think to myself I've done nothing wrong, it's not that I didn't give a proper good bye, or lost trust with them it's just I cut communication for my own selfish reasons. There's always room for a second chance, although I'd follow the old adage: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Lol no. Ain't about trust. If he ghosted you he clearly didn't want to be with you or worse, and now what? he missed the booty? Na- ah. Not for me thanks.
No, because it's very disrespectful- if they truly respected me they would've provided me with an explanation but that's not how ghosting works, right? Anyway, no, because there isn't an excuse for ghosting.
Sure, why wouldn't you? You never know that person could of been going through personal problems or was busy. Also if they're making an effort to contact you again then you may as well give them the chance
No , it hurt my feelings a lot when my ex boyfriend ghosted me and i ´m not ready to forget that , even if i eventually accept to talk to him it will never be the same. Some people aren't worth second chances
i would forgive because i am a good Christian but not getting back together if she does not explain herself
No. I’d tell them to leave me alone. They had their chance and thought it was a better idea to ignore me. I’d have no interest in talking to someone who’s so childish and so bad at communicating.
No.
I did it once and it fucked me up emotionally when he “re”ghosted me a second time for a girl who is “3 years younger than me”
I won't be doing it again.
Forgive and move on without them. I'm not going to spend my thought on people who didn't even respect me enough to tell a proper bye.
I doubt I would bother with her again though It may depend on the excuse offered.
But like cheating, I would expect I would be ghosted again eventually.
Hmm I'm not sure.. I don't wanna say what my true intentions will be if I did for give them... karma is a bitch tho.
yeah i would so we can do this together.
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