Why are virgins looked down upon?

[Anonymous]

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It's because people on this site are always asking questions about their worries being a virgin

[Martabak-piscok]

Depends on the culture of a society. In western cultures, it is seen as a symbol that nobody wants to have sex with you, hence nobody wants you (kind of like that). This information can then be used to prove that a non-virgin individual is more superior than a virgin individual, for dominance and social status. In asia however, pre-marital sex is a taboo because we see sex and virginity as sacred. You can only have your virginity once, might as well save it for that one special person in your life.

[traveler74]

They are not looked down upon. They are sought after. So please do not loose it until you are married.

[Asker]

I'm not I was just genuinely curious but thank you

[traveler74]

You're welcome

[wantaknownall]

i don't think they are virgins are what most guys run do but most guys just take them leave. not being a virgin means the guy doesn't have to feel a way about taking you real hard and good.

[Anonymous]

Depends on culture

Some think virginity is holy and pure while some think it's lame, because it depends on the culture of some community

[azzntittiz]

They are not, it's a good thing. Just don't throw it in old people's faces. We are suppose to be screwing and enjoying it.

[osoyummerz]

Because people who lost theirs can sometimes be jealous

[jennifer_bloom]

I think virgins are respected - especially by men

[electroustic]

Partial true

[ChronicThinker]

Female virgins aren't. Male virgins are.

[ZanyInternetName]

Citation needed. Based on all I've ever seen at your age it is quite the opposite.

[ZanyInternetName]

Well, first of all I saw a disproportionate amount of those questions being by men. Furthermore, those questions often come from individuals in their early twenties or so. At that time most individuals already had sex. Therefore having had sex is often simply assumed. Now, why did I mention that often these questions are from men? Men tend to have a certain image they aspire to, which is does not entail virginity but rather being experienced and skilled in sexual matters (along with everything else there is). When one then has no sexual experience but all of one's peers have, then one begins to question whether or not (a) the partner will enjoy intercourse with one, despite one not being good at it and (b) one can fulfil the self-set standard for being a good man. Now, I'm pretty sure that for females similar things apply, especially a, but I have too little insight to tell.

[Asker]

Never thought of that 🤔

[Anonymous]

Usually because the virgin doesn't know what to do so the more experienced of the three or four is usually on top of said virgin guiding him/her on what to do next or what feels good and what doesn't... virgins are rarely in the top position. Not saying it never happens, its just rare and that's why theyre often looked down upon... hope this helps!!

[SmoMan71]

Who told you that bit of bullshit?

[SmoMan71]

You have to realize that most of the questions like that on here are coming from sexually frustrated guys. Don’t worry about it. do it when you are ready, and don’t let anybody pressure you into anything.

[Asker]

I'm not worried about anything just curious. But thanks

[SmoMan71]

Sure thing.

[Andr0o]

Because society is dumb, and human beings are more so.

[naraku]

I've never encountered anything to suggest they are.
It's good to be a virgin until you decide the time is right.

[Crankor]

Only for other high schoolers. It something they can make someone feel bad about themselves just because

[BrianMerritt]

Those worries are FALSE. Literally nobody looks down upon virgins.

[Anonymous]

Jealous that they don't have the self control for it. Also anger at another they can't understand.

[someguy81]

Because of the stigma of being a virgin. Being a virgin isn't cool.

[kaajal]

Are we looked down upon? I never thought so..

[tilttimmy]

You can think Religion For That that's all it is

[Kiels01]

They aren't, most boys prefer virgins

[WeirdoWerdo]

What? Don't lie to me! You fool!

[ok604]

They are only in high school... by other virgins

[dragon9669]

Not in my book. I've loved virgins

[waynecollins]

NO NOT AT ALL

[rgb008]

They aren't lol