I cheated on my girlfriend, but she forgave. But she is still mad that I did that to her. How do I tell her how sorry I am?

[Anonymous]

Like I understand that I hurt her really, really bad, and I am extremely lucky that she forgave me. I also understand that she loves me a lot because she was willing to give me a second chance. But that doesn’t mean that she’s forgotten what I’ve done. This week everything was good, we talked/ FaceTimed everyday (because I’m out on vacation), but then today when I was having lunch, she was good for a second, but the next she told me that she’s stalking the girl I’m cheating on her with and started saying that I’m trashy and stuff. She said that she was still mad at me for cheating on her. I tried reassuring her a lot but she’s not having it.
I tried texting her.
I don’t know what to do

[CurLyF]

Look, it's good that you recognize you mad a mistake and that you are lucky she gave you a second chance. So, I see two points in this situation.
1.- You need to be patient with her. If she had cheated on you, you don't know how you would have reacted. She feels insecure and it's going to take her time to fully get back to normal, if that ever happens. So you need to be patiend and understanding.
2.- Even though you made a horrible mistake, you have apologized and she decided to forgive you. If you guys want to work things out and if you have any hope at all to make it work, she needs to really let it go. It must be incredibly hard for her, but if she really wants to move on, she can't keep bringing it up anymore. If she doesn't begin to trust you again or tries to move on, things are not going to work out.
If I were you I would told her point 2 in a very loving and supportive way.

[CurLyF]

thanks for mhg!!! :)

[Parasiempreparaiso]

Sorry love to tell you; this relationship is done and over. Once a trust is broken you can't never replace it. Even though you're still with her, it's a huge gap from on until you both separate from one another. Good luck, never cheat again it'll bite you in the ass somewhere down the line.

[FMJ_Guy]

I had one that cheated on me, with her ex. 'Forgive', no, how can you trust them, after that betrayal?
It's over!!

[Mamabear213]

Once someone cheats, the trust is gone. Your guys relationship will never be the same

[Meximan1993]

The solution is simple, but definitely not easy. Understand that you alone have the power to prove how trustworthy you are in light of recent events. On the other hand, she alone has the power determine how much she trusts you again. The best thing you can do is give it your best, give it time, and let her come around on her own. And if you don't think that her love is worth all that, then just save you both some time and frustration.

[jerrysboy]

Let her do what she needs to. If this will make her happier to stalk then so be it. If you don't like it then leave. She needs to progress what you did.

[Anonymous]

Baby you are right
hate to see you go
but if ever you forgive me & wish to come back & light up my life again
know that Audrey is forever banned from my life
and so are all other gals unless I can get over you
which doesn't seem possible in near future
Gotta get hold of whatever it was that tempted me away from your paradise and kill it so it never tempts me again... it wasn't Audrey, something the devil had on me but I'm fixing it

[RedRoses18]

I just wanted to ask. . . WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? sorry just had to ask that. You need to walk up to her, grab her face, and kiss her. Then tell her how much you love her and how much you will change. and you have to show it.

[CrazyyChick]

you cheated, and she actually forgave you do not expect her to forget that eaily, though I think she broke up with you

[Anonymous]

Stick up for yourself. Either she forgives you OR she keeps losing her shit with you- doing both is a contradiction. You've already apologised sincerely, but make it clear that this doesn't give her license to use you as a punchbag.

[Anonymous]

You're not forgiven, she just said that to create the illusion that everything is fine

[Cammy137]

She'll never truly forgive you

[bubble_tea]

Words mean nothing if actions don't follow.

[DiegoO]

You got a long road man.