Why do my tinder chats keep hitting a wall? (Page 3)

Question

I've been on and off tinder for a few years now. It seems like I always get frustrated and quit at some point. One major reason for this frustration is that my conversations seem to always hit a brick wall at some point. We'll have what I am considering a good and fun conversation and out of nowhere they stop replying.  I decided to give tinder another try not long ago. I matched with a few people, and started a conversation with two guys that seemed the most approachable. I didn't pick and choose out of a thousand matches, by the way. I only had maybe four so far and decided I'd stop swiping and try to get to know these new matches.  I had a conversation going with both of these guys for a few weeks. Then, a couple of days ago, both of them didn't reply anymore. On an app like tinder it's not alarming if it takes a few days for them to answer but both of these guys had previously answered within 24 hours. Now I haven't heard from either in four days. Obviously you can't know what has actually happened because you aren't mind readers. The guys only know why they decided to not answer anymore. However, this has happened to me more times than I can count.  Do you have any idea what could be causing this trend? Is this a sign of me simply being a bad conversationalist? Should I ask them what's going on or is that too pushy?

PurplePirate · Answer

I sometimes think most of the profiles there are fakes or bots

Guanfei · Answer

At least you have conversations. I can't even have a match

bashar_w · Answer

Tender is bad chatting app I deleted and I was so made  I is just a west of time

Anonymous · Answer

Cause tinder isn’t really used for actual dating/talking/friends. Mainly used to hook up.

Smegskull · Answer

I don't know I have only had one person swipe right on me and it was an advert.

sucklingambitions · Answer

It's all about the right person, if you want a relationship maybe a different app would be better

Anonymous · Answer

I don't believe that Tinder is for deep and profound connections...

Anonymous · Answer

No man wants to talk on tinder!! They just wanna fuck!!

LoveOrLustTN · Answer

No way in hell I'm reading all that. Though if your on tender and are a good fuck hit me up

Jeremy74 · Answer

Chances are you are looking for something new not the same everyday life

shaken_chef1 · Answer

I've run into this before. I just always assume that they became serious with someone else

Vampstiryteller · Answer

The goal is to met, so if after couple days with no

churbleburble · Answer

A few weeks? The guys probably met someone else by then

Anonymous · Answer

Dip it low, pick it up slow, roll it al around bend over like your back broke. pop pop pop that thang...

bubble_tea · Answer

Did you ask them any questions in your last reply?

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Cause it's a sign that you need to get off tinder

Markella88 · Answer

Tinder can be fun meet girls with my boyfriend.

CrazyyChick · Answer

Maybe you are boring or smth

omgjassy · Answer

They found another girl

AndrewMG · Answer

Did they live close to you?

LasPlagas · Answer

I didn't even get a match so I quit that trash

JSmuve · Answer

They met other girls. Shit happens.

SpecialOpsBunny · Answer

Wait... you people get matches ! 😂

WhiteKnight2 · Answer

At least your getting matches :,(

Decentguy · Answer

the same thing is happening to me too, lol

BigJake · Answer

Because you're on... Tinder...

YouCantStopRedJacket · Answer

That's the funniest shit I've ever read

baby181036 · Answer

I think that you are not nearby to visit&have sex

jon6740 · Answer

People use tinder to have sex not talk

DNB1994 · Answer

Just date me. Problem solved.

Good_Behavior · Answer

You might just not be interesting.

Cannuk22 · Answer

Because tinder is shit

AlexDelux · Answer

Because everyone is there only for one thing

theFantasticJ · Answer

Because you're not interesting - probably

JinnRose · Answer

Something shinier came along. Next question.

jimmy2 · Answer

Well I might be able to help you. Pm me

jade_ofeliaa · Answer

because its tinder

humpleg · Answer

The people not up for meeting and coffee...

allaninabox · Answer

Mine to I am about ready to give that up

rightthere · Answer

Tinder is more of a hookup app nowadays

Anonymous · Answer

You really are a blonde

bobbyp · Answer

All fake

NightOwl_23 · Answer

Tinder sucks

Anonymous · Answer

because you are boring.

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Because #Tindersucks

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

You might be boring

dtunctuncer · Answer

I have no idea

Anonymous · Answer

Delete it

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