Is your partner being insecure a turn-off for you? (Page 2)

[RandomShowerThoughts]

Everyone has insecurities, it's natural.
I don't think it's a turn off.
And it would be hypocrite since I'm insecure too.

[Justacatlady]

If it is to a large degree then yes. If it is only a small amount or one particular area then no, I think everyone has some of these.

[ShortCircuit]

In all honesty, it has never bothered me as much as it seems to bother everyone else. I'm legitimately indifferent.

[badgalg]

Tbh I generally don't like clingy, people that are insecure for no reason. Like it's ok if there a reason. But if I have to constantly reassure you I'm out

[wolfguy]

It shows they care about me. It shows they really do enjoy being with me. and i like the like reminder she really likes me.

[spartan55]

Everyone is insecure about something, like others have said. It's about having the maturity to deal with it without driving your partner away.

[DollFace0612]

I don't know why anyone would be attracted to insecurity. If you don't think you are worth my time you probably aren't.

[NearlyNapping]

It's a huge turnoff. I seriously don't want to deal with that kind of thing. Depending on how insecure she is, it could easily be a deal breaker.

[HereIbe]

Not if she is trusting. I prefer confident and rebellious or insecure and trusting. The worst is insecure and rebellious--that's a passive-aggressive child. Confident and trusting takes a lot of work to live up to.

[joker91]

I think it's more of a turnoff for heterosexual women in regards to men. Insecurity doesn't fit the whole masculine model

[jeremythedrummer]

I like it when i can boost my partner's self-confidence. I wanna help her. We all have our own insecurities that need other people to address.

[GingerGuy]

Depends how insecure. It can be if too much for sure. Confidence isn't just what women like in guys, we like it in you as well.

[Finchie40]

It depends on what it is about , sometimes insecurity can be cute, everyone has some type of insecurity so I don't see it really being a turn off

[effyourfeelings]

It depends on what he's insecure about
and how he acts as a result of being insecure

[Astoriana]

There is very little else that is a bigger dealbreaker for me.

[Pamina]

To a certain (low) degree it can be cute, but anything beyond that is problematic.

[MMarina]

You wouldn't imagine the kind of dysfunctions it breeds...

[nickyxs1]

I would. I've been on the receiving end.

[MsLoli]

It's sad, and I want to change it, but it isn't a turn-off.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope , i can handle a girl whose got insecurities and
it's not a turn off cause i have my own insecurities.

[motownplayer2000]

Yeah a bit. I understand that's everyone has flaws and things they need to work on.. but if your not actively trying to fix those flaws... Then it's a huge turn off.