Would you give him/her another chance if you don’t feel any spark on the first date? (Page 3)

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Maybe there could have been contributing factors like nervousness or stress from other unrelated matters that ruined the first date in some sorta way.  And you’re willing to give that person another chance? Go on another date with the same person perhaps?

Anonymous · Answer

I tend to get to know a person before even going on a dae, if there is no chemistry right off the bat no.

I know what I want in someone and it is difficult enough for me to even be interested in dating.

Renegade_man · Answer

Yes the first date is full of worries and wonders i feel get to know them better and have a few dates some in public some more private like at a house

pman24 · Answer

I'll give it a chance as friends. Also I'll try and make it more fun and spontanious. No has fun sitting at a table in fancy clothes eating expensive carbs.

PAWSTTG · Answer

Yes. You only learn more about the person. If I don't feel much connection with the person by third date I look at it like this person could be friend at most.

doogo · Answer

Sure, I know first good impressions is a thing but you never know what you could be missing out on. Now if they are totally weird or something along those lines then move on.

watchmen · Answer

If I did not see any red flags than yeah I would go out with her again.

Ayer93 · Answer

Magic number is 3. If there's still nothing after 3... move on.

Deutscher · Answer

I'm usually shy, I don't warm up to someone unless I'm around them a while. I need to get used to them

sarthak_bhargav · Answer

I was given an another chance, I was very shy on my first date. Even it was not a date we just got together once.

PrivateJim · Answer

If they are nice, attractive and are interested in me, yeah I definitely would everyone deserves a second try

lolidontgetit · Answer

Of course. Second or third date with no spark? Eh...

Aroso · Answer

One date isn't good enough to assess anyone's character

JohnFrost · Answer

My dad took 2years before my mom fell in love. And first dates are a mess because first impressions are hard.

lovebird007 · Answer

It all depends on how you feel about this guy, if you like him give him a 2nd chance date&see what happens...

CowboyAceTre · Answer

Depends. If there ain't nothing after a couple dates, three at the most, move on. Life ain't like Hollywood though...

NatashaJ · Answer

Maybe-depends if I had a great time or not.

Kevinnnn · Answer

Depends. Do I have interest? Yes? HELL YEAH then No? Of course not then.

SoldierMane · Answer

There's no such thing as a spark. There is no magical force controling who you date. You decide.

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Im willing but if she really turns me off won't even try.

vjedi · Answer

Yes, I would and yes I have.  However, nothing has ever really come from it other than friendship.

Chrisdl · Answer

Yeah unless they said they've killed a man in cold blood.

1nittol3arn · Answer

Yes. The only thing that would stop me from a second date would be... complete selfishness

Sweetgirlh · Answer

Maybe a second date just to see if there is a connection

chrisv · Answer

Ummm no spark? No nothing.. it won’t magically get better lol

Powergirl_ · Answer

Yes I would give my future boyfriend another chance.! Things take absolute time.

salierose1 · Answer

I myself probably wouldn't. But I would tell other to do so. I know totally hypocritical.

Anonymous · Answer

This happened to me once, in fact it took a while for me to realise how amazing he was, my friend then ended up dating this guys best friend, and I ended up with my date for 3 years. We were just young and dumb

thomasans2 · Answer

No juices flowing? See if you can get him interested. ONE CHANCE

IsoUser · Answer

Apparently she likes microbrew girls brew, who am I to say NO

MRDLEEE · Answer

yes, find something in common, light that spark. Dont be a drag on him her...

LittlePrince85 · Answer

Probably would, especially since we could end up as friends anyway.

kamash · Answer

I would... . you never know , if the other person is comfortable enough or not...🤗👍🙌

Gludiusmax · Answer

First impressions are important. So if your gut doesn't hate them they could have more depth.

rahul_24 · Answer

Of course, I won't totally wait for the spark solely

sureshsjr · Answer

One single meeting can't decide anything.. After few meetings we can decide whether she is an perfect match or not...

kenzyeissa · Answer

I voted no cause in my point of view everything show from the first time or you can feel sth vary

colin77 · Answer

yes why not sometimes nervousness cause things to happen

Dreams19 · Answer

Personally I will not. But its about gut feeling of an individual.

DLJ2_ · Answer

Yea sometimes it’s just the first date feeling like at least let them know and try to fix it

bakedgoods · Answer

I dont need a spark all i need is affection and cuddle-snuggles😃😃

ommiezz12 · Answer

Always but you should know if you going to feel the spark or not by the personality

IamMeLetsBeWe · Answer

Yeah, always a chance you just had to feel one another out and things will be better next time

PablosFinest · Answer

Unless she iratated me , I would slide through 1 more time and see what's good... 😎

guynextdoor28 · Answer

You never know right? It's hard meeting people these days. Lots of anxiety.

eshia · Answer

I would I feel the first date very one is nervous and not thier selfs

Johnki · Answer

I don't force myself to a relationship is not based of love or affection

starz13 · Answer

No and I'm a very straightforward person so I would just tell them we could be friends nothing more.

Hédishhi · Answer

Because maybe one date can t make me feel any spark

abhishek1392 · Answer

Yes I will give another chance and more time so that I get to know that what type of person she want

SATYARACHAKONDA · Answer

Well maybe yes if we both have the common feeling of Meetup each other once again.

George1974 · Answer

Yes I would and also give yourself another chance on a different day..

ctk1969 · Answer

Yes... maybe go somewhere more private... take a walk or something.

banksy14 · Answer

Absolutely. Maybe she was having an off day

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. The spark isn't always there from the start...

axali1 · Answer

Why not? I don't see the point why not.

Northern_star · Answer

Hey there🙂 and YES of course.

Jamesthemistokleous · Answer

Depends how bad the date goes

the_sinner · Answer

of course everyone deserves a sec chance

kenzie242 · Answer

Because i have been through this before

Mickey9999 · Answer

Sure as long as the first date otherwise went well

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