First date isn't about sparks, as far as I'm concerned. It should simply be informative, what kind of person they are, what are the things they value, their sexual beliefs, and so on. It's about finding the *potential* for compatibility, not the compatibility itself.
Give me another chance baby please. Nothing like these other guys who only try to put you at ease. They only want one thing and you know what it be. I share with you my past so you understand me. Let you know about the bad so we can move on and become a fad.
@TikiTook Puh-lease, arrest me like the police, My time is a lease, never felt peace. Until I met you, but you say I'm dumb. Baby I'm this way because I'm numb. Can't put on a act, all I write is facts. If I give you diamonds to shine, would you come back and give me the time?
Sure. First dates can be hard because you probably don't know someone well- depending how you know your date I guess. So, nerves can potentially really affect a first date in this way.
That said , you will know when it's something like nerves and when said person just plain sucks !
I would because some people (myself included) hold back the 1st time not really expecting immediate attraction and put their emotions in their pocket and are more analytical on a 1st date every detail is taken into consideration when choosing a new mate this is what I started doing because I used to fall in love really quickly (never doing that again)
I got ghosted on my first date with an individual despite me thinking it went quite well, so I wasn't sure what happened there. I think the opportunity to have a second chance really depends on the individual.
I don't think one date is enough to judge someone... One's mind is much deeper than anyone can imagine. If you want to spend a part of your life with someone; you also need to be patient and look at all the different sides of that person. A good 3 dates should be enough... 1st for the general talk 2nd for diving a bit deeper into their life and a 3rd one to check their social behaviour.
If they seemed like an interesting person when you met them, or they seem cool when you're texting, it could've been a poor setting, there are a lot of first date ideas that really aren't ideal for a first date to get to know each other!
I always feel that you need to give a second chance, if only because there may have been an external reason for a poor "first showing". Having said that, those that have dated me gave rarely given me that latitude.
Most of the time you need more than one date to figure out if y’all have chemistry. The first date is usually full of nervousness and anxiousness and it makes people not themselves. They need a second chance to show who they really are
That depends on their interests. I like to do stuff that shows a different side to my personality, and if she's interested in the same kind of stuff, then I'd reserve judgement until I saw her engaged in that kind of activity.
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First dates are always awkward. Unless they were creepy or have me a weird vibe, I’ll always say yes to a second date if they ask.
First date isn't about sparks, as far as I'm concerned.
It should simply be informative, what kind of person they are, what are the things they value, their sexual beliefs, and so on.
It's about finding the *potential* for compatibility, not the compatibility itself.
Give me another chance baby please. Nothing like these other guys who only try to put you at ease. They only want one thing and you know what it be. I share with you my past so you understand me. Let you know about the bad so we can move on and become a fad.
Puh-lease 🙄
@TikiTook
Puh-lease, arrest me like the police,
My time is a lease, never felt peace.
Until I met you, but you say I'm dumb.
Baby I'm this way because I'm numb.
Can't put on a act, all I write is facts.
If I give you diamonds to shine,
would you come back and give me the time?
It all depends. If he ruined the first date by being rude or irresponsible then no.
Love is a developing process built on trust, respect, and other great humanly characteristics. One date will not determine a loving relationship.
Yes, given the chance.
Obviously it's easy to misjudge someone in a short period of time. But how often will you get a second chance?
Yes, if i liked him as person. I wouldn't instantly dismiss a guy just because i didn't feel a spark between us on the first date
Sure. First dates can be hard because you probably don't know someone well- depending how you know your date I guess. So, nerves can potentially really affect a first date in this way.
That said , you will know when it's something like nerves and when said person just plain sucks !
I would because some people (myself included) hold back the 1st time not really expecting immediate attraction and put their emotions in their pocket and are more analytical on a 1st date every detail is taken into consideration when choosing a new mate this is what I started doing because I used to fall in love really quickly (never doing that again)
I got ghosted on my first date with an individual despite me thinking it went quite well, so I wasn't sure what happened there. I think the opportunity to have a second chance really depends on the individual.
Hey... y not. I did and it was fun but we became good friends at the end.
I don't look for the honeymoon phase, I look for actual, long-term compatibility.
A good relationship is basically just best friends who fuck.
" A good relationship is basically just best friends who fuck " This !! When you become not friends anymore... sex stops too !!
Yes of course, first dates are awkward and stressful so always try for second and third.
I don't think one date is enough to judge someone...
One's mind is much deeper than anyone can imagine. If you want to spend a part of your life with someone; you also need to be patient and look at all the different sides of that person.
A good 3 dates should be enough...
1st for the general talk
2nd for diving a bit deeper into their life and a
3rd one to check their social behaviour.
Hell yea, not everything goes so great the first time. There's room for improvement ! ☺
If they seemed like an interesting person when you met them, or they seem cool when you're texting, it could've been a poor setting, there are a lot of first date ideas that really aren't ideal for a first date to get to know each other!
I always feel that you need to give a second chance, if only because there may have been an external reason for a poor "first showing".
Having said that, those that have dated me gave rarely given me that latitude.
Most of the time you need more than one date to figure out if y’all have chemistry. The first date is usually full of nervousness and anxiousness and it makes people not themselves. They need a second chance to show who they really are
That depends on their interests. I like to do stuff that shows a different side to my personality, and if she's interested in the same kind of stuff, then I'd reserve judgement until I saw her engaged in that kind of activity.
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