The first date is stressful a moment and people can't really be themselves and sometimes the first impression isn't always the right one so except if the first date was horrible I'd let the person another chance
Nahhh not me. If i dont have any sparks going then i would friendzone them. I wouldn't waste our time trying again for the same results. I'm good at knowing my own vibes and how i feel about others. Good or bad.
Honestly if i didn't have sparks from the beginning i wouldn't even bother asking her out in the first place.
If you think they are a nice person then give it some more time... You don't always feel the spark on the first date but doesn't mean that you won't find that spark with in the future... Give it at least 3 to 4 dates...
Yes definitely.. their performance can be a result of many factors & jugding a person on first date is a bit rude.. only for those about whom your instincts guide you that their was something that was holding them back
The thing with first dates is that normally one is nervous and unlikely to be themselves, giving someone the chance at a second date can sometimes allow for a much more relaxed experience. It might be that they seem slightly more comfortable on the second date and much more open to being themselves.
I think I would because I get awkward and nervous a lot myself, but if it was just apparent for other reasons it wouldn't work there's no sense in leading them on.
If there is no spark then for me that would mean no attraction what so ever. There needs to be something for me to consider a second date. Otherwise I will just say no. I often find that people think I'm harsh not given it a chance but why waste a date and give the other person hope if you don't feel anything for that person. If I'm interested there will be a spark and then yes I would love to go on a second date
Well, first date isn't everything. He/she have more side that you never see. Maybe it's the side that you will never get at other people. So I'm saying yes. We should see more
As long as the first date wasn't absolutely horrific, yes I'd give another chance. I definitely think you have to work past some nerves and the awkwardness in order to really get to know someone.
Someone did this for me. It was a blind date and I was a bit out of sorts... not in a good place. As soon as I was back home, I wrote to that person and told her the man she had met wasn't the real me and I apologized. She went out with me again and that second date was a memorable one.
The first time you meet someone there's gonna be like a awkward moment were you don't know if you show text first or shouldn't at all. You say their wasn't a spark, well what if you didn't have any material to make that spark visible? Give the guy a second chance, you might be surprised of the flame that could be created.
I believe another chance should be given because normally on a first date, we both will be trying to be cool / calm trying to know each other. While Lots of thought are going on in the mind. So the first date might not always be successful enough to determine a spark.
I have. Sometimes the first date is just kind of getting over the jitters. Sometimes one or both people are trying too hard. There are a million things that can happen after a first date that went bad that can ignite a huge spark.
You need to give it time, you may warm up to them later. Get to know all their layers because as everyone knows, Ogres are like onions and ogres have layers- Mike Myers as shrek
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I feel people always try to give their best in the first meeting... Max to max second chance cn b given but not third if no chemistry or spark is there
True but even if you want to is hard cause you are just getting to know each other k have been on dates and even tho we have talked on the phone many times before going out , they feel awkward causw they dont wanna do anything stupid and 2nd dates ussually go smoother because. She already knows the kind of guy you are
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The first date is stressful a moment and people can't really be themselves and sometimes the first impression isn't always the right one so except if the first date was horrible I'd let the person another chance
Yes, you have to. You don't fall in love with everybody in one hour. It takes getting to know them. Go three or four dates before you call it off.
Nahhh not me. If i dont have any sparks going then i would friendzone them. I wouldn't waste our time trying again for the same results. I'm good at knowing my own vibes and how i feel about others. Good or bad.
Honestly if i didn't have sparks from the beginning i wouldn't even bother asking her out in the first place.
If you think they are a nice person then give it some more time... You don't always feel the spark on the first date but doesn't mean that you won't find that spark with in the future... Give it at least 3 to 4 dates...
Yes definitely.. their performance can be a result of many factors & jugding a person on first date is a bit rude.. only for those about whom your instincts guide you that their was something that was holding them back
Maybe not.
If I have no feelings about him in the first time, it is hard to dating again. Feeling is important.
The thing with first dates is that normally one is nervous and unlikely to be themselves, giving someone the chance at a second date can sometimes allow for a much more relaxed experience. It might be that they seem slightly more comfortable on the second date and much more open to being themselves.
I think I would because I get awkward and nervous a lot myself, but if it was just apparent for other reasons it wouldn't work there's no sense in leading them on.
If there is no spark then for me that would mean no attraction what so ever. There needs to be something for me to consider a second date. Otherwise I will just say no. I often find that people think I'm harsh not given it a chance but why waste a date and give the other person hope if you don't feel anything for that person. If I'm interested there will be a spark and then yes I would love to go on a second date
Well, first date isn't everything. He/she have more side that you never see. Maybe it's the side that you will never get at other people. So I'm saying yes. We should see more
As long as the first date wasn't absolutely horrific, yes I'd give another chance. I definitely think you have to work past some nerves and the awkwardness in order to really get to know someone.
Someone did this for me. It was a blind date and I was a bit out of sorts... not in a good place. As soon as I was back home, I wrote to that person and told her the man she had met wasn't the real me and I apologized. She went out with me again and that second date was a memorable one.
Probably not. If it’s not there, you can usually sense it on the first date.
The first time you meet someone there's gonna be like a awkward moment were you don't know if you show text first or shouldn't at all.
You say their wasn't a spark, well what if you didn't have any material to make that spark visible?
Give the guy a second chance, you might be surprised of the flame that could be created.
I believe another chance should be given because normally on a first date, we both will be trying to be cool / calm trying to know each other. While Lots of thought are going on in the mind. So the first date might not always be successful enough to determine a spark.
I have. Sometimes the first date is just kind of getting over the jitters. Sometimes one or both people are trying too hard. There are a million things that can happen after a first date that went bad that can ignite a huge spark.
You need to give it time, you may warm up to them later. Get to know all their layers because as everyone knows, Ogres are like onions and ogres have layers- Mike Myers as shrek
I feel people always try to give their best in the first meeting... Max to max second chance cn b given but not third if no chemistry or spark is there
It's free food go for it.
As long as you didn't hate him it's all good
The first timw you are both looking to see how the other person is so you dont show your truself right away
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Not showing your true self sounds counter productive, surely expressing yourself to find common ground and shared interests is the way to go?
True but even if you want to is hard cause you are just getting to know each other k have been on dates and even tho we have talked on the phone many times before going out , they feel awkward causw they dont wanna do anything stupid and 2nd dates ussually go smoother because. She already knows the kind of guy you are
I see where your coming from actually. Fair point