If you’re on a first date and she doesn’t offer to pay, are you turned off? (Page 3)

[rain_maker112]

It is first day. We would like to keep the tradition going, but the next few dates and she still acts as if it's my duty to be in charge in bills? It's my duty to let society discipline her again.

[VegetaSSB]

No, i am not turned off and i would date her again, there are little things that men still enjoy doing despite feminism having made a push against, such as paying for dates.

[emmanuel100]

I responsible guy cater for the house including the lady so that payment is my responsibility not her and that is how I am raiaed... My custom

[motownplayer2000]

It all depends on who asked. If I asked her, then I would gladly pay for the first date... if she asked. Then I would expect her too... it’s only fair! We have to start thinking about being equal!

[MrKandMissy]

I'm not sure why the expectation would be for her to offer to pay, really at all.. Seems like if ANYTHING it oughta be him offering to cover it, or them deciding together to go Dutch.

[DarthLadyKiller]

Much to learn you have still. To be like men women want. hmmmm. Paying for men's dates leads to the feminazi side. A willingness to let a man look after you, you must have.

[sam3324]

I don't want to say it would be a complete turn off but one it'd be nice if they offered and two if the date is going badly or they feel like there's not going to be a second date why should I have to pay all of it?

[YilunChen]

I don't think it's men's duty to pay whenever, but it can be a choice. As me, I will offer to pay if I can offord it. And I don't think there will be a time when I can't offord the bill in a date because neither will I see anyone who is out of my league nor anyone who doesn't care about my fiance condition at all.

[LonelyTiger]

I'm dating , it's my responsibility to keep it good going , and it's her responsibility as well , I would never ask her to pay a bit but in case she exclaims herself , it would be a good sign, but If she don't realise , it's alright 😉.

[Jon_25]

Wait which question was for the answers? No I wouldn't be turned off, and yes I would go for another date.
I'd think SHE would be "turned off" if I didn't offer to pay, especially on the first date!

[Anonymous]

all the women i went out with offered to pay lol one of them did and it was our last date because of her personality. then one day i asked a girl to go to the movies i paid for tickets she paid for the snacks.
if i ask her our i would pay. after that we should split.

[rmgnow]

I expect to pay, when she offers, tells me that she's independent and considerate, both pluses for me

[AD240pCharlie]

The perfect scenario is when she offers to pay for half of it so that I can turn down her offer and pay for it myself. That shows that she isn't stuck-up and that she actually cares.

[vald9inches]

i have always had the belief that a Man should pay on the first date but we are living in different times i guess lol

[Lavenderella]

I would go dutch unless he offers before hand but will treat him back on another date.

[Shoenron]

If the date went well, It wouldn't be a turn off since I'm well aware that men are expected to pay on the first date. It would be lots of bonus point for her if she offers to split.
If I don't want to see her again, I won't pay for her.

[arrykancil]

Personally, i will pay for her, even though that makes me can't eat, because my money allocation/my ration becoming gone for her. But i'll tell her the truth after she looks happy and i tell her that i do that for her.😊😊😊

[Anonymous]

Wow good to know, honestly I thought if the guy (or whoever) insists on going out for a date should pay. But good to see other people's thoughts on it.

[ohshee]

I have never accepted money from a girl when going out yes I would date her again no I'm not turned off at all

[hahahmm]

Only if she asked me out because that means she’s a self-centered, entitled princess type & not the giving type.