I would date her again. JSYK the way you asked that question, it's not clear if the yes answer mean yes I'm turned off or yes I would date her again, so I put depends
It's about offering and if she has been good company, or just in it for a free meal, it's not polite to just assume it's about the offer not just take it for granted
Well it's our first date and if we till now haven't decided the relationship so I think we both should share the pay. But it will not be a turn off is she didn't ask for.
I would date her again because i dont let my now girlfriend pay for me anyway, i dont take handouts. Im actually turned off if they do offer to pay for me because it means that she is a bit too dominant for my liking
It's a given to pay for a meal on a first date or split the bill,, circumstances and how the date went could impact the outcome, but I'd gladly pay and date again especially if there's some elusive spark!!
Depends who asked who out. If I ask a woman out I'm prepared to pay. Now if a woman asks me to go eat with her. If I can't afford to go out I don't go out. Give up expectations!! That doesn't mean lowering your own standard's.
I know the times have changed, but it’s always been a gentleman like thing to do. Even if it’s a bad date. We pick up the check. So, if they offer, great. If not, no harm no foul.
Its not so much whether she pays for herself, but if I enjoyed my time with her. If I had a good time, then its money well spent. If not, then I learned that she isn't someone I should be dating.
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No, I always pay. Gentlemen rules unless she fights me over the bill.
I think it's common courtesy for both parties to offer to pay , simply expecting the other person to do it is just plain rude.
Who the fuck would be turned off by that. Men are SUPPOSED to pay, what would I expect her to try and pay?
No, I wouldn't be turned off. Yes, I'd be open to another date. Hard to answer 2 questions with 1 click lol
I wouldn't expect her to offer to pay on a date with me.
It really depends. Guys nowadays r being used as c. c by gals so ill b careful. Lot ov g. d out thr dude 😊
I would date her again. JSYK the way you asked that question, it's not clear if the yes answer mean yes I'm turned off or yes I would date her again, so I put depends
It's about offering and if she has been good company, or just in it for a free meal, it's not polite to just assume it's about the offer not just take it for granted
Well it's our first date and if we till now haven't decided the relationship so I think we both should share the pay.
But it will not be a turn off is she didn't ask for.
I would date her again because i dont let my now girlfriend pay for me anyway, i dont take handouts. Im actually turned off if they do offer to pay for me because it means that she is a bit too dominant for my liking
It's a given to pay for a meal on a first date or split the bill,, circumstances and how the date went could impact the outcome, but I'd gladly pay and date again especially if there's some elusive spark!!
Depends who asked who out. If I ask a woman out I'm prepared to pay. Now if a woman asks me to go eat with her. If I can't afford to go out I don't go out.
Give up expectations!!
That doesn't mean lowering your own standard's.
I always offer to pay for my self. Never works though lmao. Only one guy didn't pay for me but the 2nd time we went out he paid for everything.
ON a first date, I always hope she offers to pay. If she doesn't, it's not a deal breaker. If we hit it off, another date will happen.
I think it's fine for her not to pay.
I would see her again if we got along well, not because of a few dollars and who paid.
I would expect to pay for her but I'm old and have money, I wouldn't be offended if she insisted on paying her way though
No because usually I am the one to ask for the first date. It is reasonable that I should pay for it.
I know the times have changed, but it’s always been a gentleman like thing to do. Even if it’s a bad date. We pick up the check. So, if they offer, great. If not, no harm no foul.
Its not so much whether she pays for herself, but if I enjoyed my time with her. If I had a good time, then its money well spent. If not, then I learned that she isn't someone I should be dating.
I wouldn't date her again if she expected me to pay. And I'd only pay my half and leave.