If you keep it friendly he won't expect anything more from you. However if you give him the opening he will go further. Typical guy move is to make it possible for you to show him the opportunity of more while playing it safe enough to give you an out. Don't over think this. Because of #metoo guys are happy to be alone or platonic.
This is the predating phase. It's when you spend time with each other and see how you feel in each other's company and how compatible you are... But if you really feel something with this guy then talk to him, tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants to go on a date with you...
It means you go to his place and you watch a film. Hopefully something you have an interest in watching. Does he want something more? Is that what you want? These are questions you need to have an adult discussion about with him. Why are you trying to second guess what's going on when you can just be honest about where you are and get things out into the open.
Not necessarily, a guy had asked me the same once before and I agreed, nothing fishy happen and we had a great time, we watched movies he cooked some food, talked a lot and I was back at my place before midnight
Yes that can happen. This type of question is difficult to answer as nobody understands the guy more than the girl. How can a girl not understand if a guy she is dating is trying to get in her pants? It's pretty obvious if you ask me. I make my intentions known pretty early that I wanna fuck,
For these type of situations if you are not sure about the guy it's better to go with the plan but have an escape route like if something happens how will you reach back to your home or keep an emergency no handy, even a pepper spray if anything dangerous happens
When I was in the situation I was clear if something happened I would have left also I had my own vehicle so there was no dependency to reach back home
I agree with you. Some guy's might not take rejection very well. I know I used to not. But now that I'm older, I accept the fact that I might not be the one for that girl.
Obviously he mean "lets put on a movie, pretend to watch it for a moment, then give my peepee your undevided attention" But most men will actually watch the movie and.. chill, you know, if you're not quite ready to reach all the way to the bottom of the popcorn bag. Young men and every teen boy will watch as many shitty movies as it takes and make all the text book corny stuff. With men over 35 you've got about till the end of the opening credits to make a move before they lose interest.
On the surface he seems to want more than just watching a movie. But he could just want to spend some time together. It's like the question do you want to come up for coffee it can be taken both ways. It comes down to do you want to put your self there to see. You never know you may really enjoy the time !!!
If I said let, s watch a movie it would be more like subway and chill. We, d watch the shining or some other great classics. We, d be binging on game of thrones, we, d be rile playing gone with the wind, we, d laugh till we had fun tears. That s what I call ,, watching movies,, with your friends.
Not definitly. If you both like similar movies why not catch up somewhere you don't have to pay and etch them. Suggest doing it in the afternoon. That way after a pizza dinner you have the perfect excuse to naturally head home rather that watch episode w and stay
Of course he may be sensing you confusion and giving you a safe place to choose to act on it
it depends on the guy. When i say it means sex. For a guy you're "just friends" with for a year, probably something, but not nothing. I don't watch movies with my friends at home... since 11 years old
I had a guy I met at a nightclub say that to me before the club closed. My girlfriends told me it was a bad idea and invited him to their house instead for my safety. I think it definitely means they want to Netflix and Chill if ya know what I mean.
No and yes... he can get something more if you wanna give and he can't have if you don't want to. . I know you like ourselves but he is trying to tell you something today... if he don't confess dont give him the taste of you... my opinion
It's possible he want more but it can also be he just want to spend some time with you as a friend, if you know what movie your gonna watch than you can think if he want's more or not
It’s ok to watch a show at his place. But let a friend know. If he tried more then tell him you don’t want that. If he doesn’t listen leave! Bring pepper spray or a taser for protection if he’s a new guy
If he ask just YOU to watch a moive with him, I pretty sure he wants something more. But if he brings a group of friends along, that might not be the case i think.
It just depends on the guy and circumstances. For instance I have a really close female friend that I would invite over for a movie night, and neither one of us would give it a second thought.
Our relationship started out with me expecting more, but we talked about it early on and agreed on just friends. Now we're best friends which is totally awesome. As some other guys have already said, the only way you will know is to go over there and watch the movie!
What he wants is a nice quiet night to relax and spend time with his girl. Not every date has to be public, nor does it have to be fancy. If he does anything you don't like or aren't ready for, tell him.
He likes you probably trying to make the next step without being weird or pushy about it use your voice and ask him so if he wants to be more then friends
Well that depends on you. The question is: Do you expect something more? You can play this off as just friends watching a movie or you could do whatever.
Besides, that guy is a genius for setting things up like that for you. This way you can decide what happens next.
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If you keep it friendly he won't expect anything more from you. However if you give him the opening he will go further. Typical guy move is to make it possible for you to show him the opportunity of more while playing it safe enough to give you an out. Don't over think this. Because of #metoo guys are happy to be alone or platonic.
This is the predating phase. It's when you spend time with each other and see how you feel in each other's company and how compatible you are... But if you really feel something with this guy then talk to him, tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants to go on a date with you...
It means you go to his place and you watch a film. Hopefully something you have an interest in watching.
Does he want something more? Is that what you want? These are questions you need to have an adult discussion about with him. Why are you trying to second guess what's going on when you can just be honest about where you are and get things out into the open.
Not necessarily, a guy had asked me the same once before and I agreed, nothing fishy happen and we had a great time, we watched movies he cooked some food, talked a lot and I was back at my place before midnight
Yes that can happen. This type of question is difficult to answer as nobody understands the guy more than the girl. How can a girl not understand if a guy she is dating is trying to get in her pants? It's pretty obvious if you ask me. I make my intentions known pretty early that I wanna fuck,
For these type of situations if you are not sure about the guy it's better to go with the plan but have an escape route like if something happens how will you reach back to your home or keep an emergency no handy, even a pepper spray if anything dangerous happens
When I was in the situation I was clear if something happened I would have left also I had my own vehicle so there was no dependency to reach back home
I agree with you. Some guy's might not take rejection very well. I know I used to not. But now that I'm older, I accept the fact that I might not be the one for that girl.
😊 nice to hear that
Obviously he mean
"lets put on a movie, pretend to watch it for a moment, then give my peepee your undevided attention"
But most men will actually watch the movie and.. chill, you know, if you're not quite ready to reach all the way to the bottom of the popcorn bag.
Young men and every teen boy will watch as many shitty movies as it takes and make all the text book corny stuff. With men over 35 you've got about till the end of the opening credits to make a move before they lose interest.
^ and that's why you proof read
Close enough
On the surface he seems to want more than just watching a movie. But he could just want to spend some time together. It's like the question do you want to come up for coffee it can be taken both ways. It comes down to do you want to put your self there to see. You never know you may really enjoy the time !!!
If I said let, s watch a movie it would be more like subway and chill. We, d watch the shining or some other great classics. We, d be binging on game of thrones, we, d be rile playing gone with the wind, we, d laugh till we had fun tears. That s what I call ,, watching movies,, with your friends.
Not definitly. If you both like similar movies why not catch up somewhere you don't have to pay and etch them. Suggest doing it in the afternoon. That way after a pizza dinner you have the perfect excuse to naturally head home rather that watch episode w and stay
Of course he may be sensing you confusion and giving you a safe place to choose to act on it
it depends on the guy. When i say it means sex. For a guy you're "just friends" with for a year, probably something, but not nothing.
I don't watch movies with my friends at home... since 11 years old
I had a guy I met at a nightclub say that to me before the club closed. My girlfriends told me it was a bad idea and invited him to their house instead for my safety. I think it definitely means they want to Netflix and Chill if ya know what I mean.
I need friends like this!!! But sadly they all live in different states.
So serious.😭
No and yes... he can get something more if you wanna give and he can't have if you don't want to. . I know you like ourselves but he is trying to tell you something today... if he don't confess dont give him the taste of you... my opinion
It's possible he want more but it can also be he just want to spend some time with you as a friend, if you know what movie your gonna watch than you can think if he want's more or not
It’s ok to watch a show at his place. But let a friend know. If he tried more then tell him you don’t want that. If he doesn’t listen leave! Bring pepper spray or a taser for protection if he’s a new guy
If he ask just YOU to watch a moive with him, I pretty sure he wants something more. But if he brings a group of friends along, that might not be the case i think.
It is possible that he wants to be more than friends and simply wants to get you alone for a heart to heart.
It is also possible that he doesn't want to spoil a great friendship with romantic involvement but still really enjoys cuddling up.
It clearly depends on the movie and setting.
Scented candles, romantic music then it is clearly something more that he wants.
Some do and some don't. It depends on the man.
If they're really serious about wanting a relationship with you though, they'll let things progress naturally.
It just depends on the guy and circumstances. For instance I have a really close female friend that I would invite over for a movie night, and neither one of us would give it a second thought.
Our relationship started out with me expecting more, but we talked about it early on and agreed on just friends. Now we're best friends which is totally awesome. As some other guys have already said, the only way you will know is to go over there and watch the movie!
What he wants is a nice quiet night to relax and spend time with his girl. Not every date has to be public, nor does it have to be fancy. If he does anything you don't like or aren't ready for, tell him.
He likes you probably trying to make the next step without being weird or pushy about it use your voice and ask him so if he wants to be more then friends
Well that depends on you. The question is: Do you expect something more? You can play this off as just friends watching a movie or you could do whatever.
Besides, that guy is a genius for setting things up like that for you. This way you can decide what happens next.