I think the problem it's he not being conservative, it's he being insecure.
If he is (a little) smart, he would not be connected to a liberal woman at almost 30 years old while he is a young man with all his life ahead.
Do him a favor: leave him. And make it easier for both of you. Him to find a conservative woman who loves you and have children with moral values; And you find a liberal player who will agree with everything you says.
If you don't like all those things about him the move on with your life. He shouldn't try to change you. He should love you for who you are not who he want you to be. He also needs to change his way of thinking this isn't the 1950s. Women are breadwinners in houses now and men are stay at home dads.
Well that depends on you and what you like. Just remember guys that are traditional so I can manage the boss of the house they feel like a woman shouldn't work so if that's what you like and you're comfortable with that then why not but if you're not comfortable with that then definitely don't date them cuz that's what you're going to get
Wtf run now everything you say about him is him trying to change you he doesn't love you he loves the idea of controlling you and turning you into something you aren't
Do not marry him if he still like this, this is a time bomb which gonna blown on you at the first chance when you're he's wife, so dump him or if you really love him then try to help him see the bigger picture and bot day in the place he is now
If you shared his views on the roles of men and women in marriage then there would be no problem. But the fact that he feels a need to change you is a huge red flag. (And I'm speaking as a traditional and conservative man myself, though I do help with the housework.)
I'm sorry but that would be a big no no for me, you obviously have very different opinions on essential issues. And what you can tolerate now you will absolutely loath in ten years.
Views are too different... I couldn’t live like that and you shouldn’t have to drastically change for someone you grow together... you need to really think about it or sit down with him again.
Intellectually superior to women? Why are you with him? He seems like he votes for a conservative governments, not only that he believes in traditional roles
Honestly just tell him everything u said here. He can't rush a marriage also you're still young. if you have all these comments on him then obviously it isn't working out. My grandpa was like this and my grandma is miserable. I suggest telling him this and see if there is a change and if not then probably end it. I really don't know what else to say.
Well... If you like him, and can live a happily in this way, then do it. However if the "traditional" stuff is really not what you are in too, I'd get out of that relationship fast.
The fact that you are asking for advice on the internet iindicates like you are not content in such a relationship and that you are insecure about making changes. I believe the question should be wether you want to have children from this man or not... When you get around your 30s your primarily goal will be reproductive so you have time until then to make the best pick.
See what ever happens happens for good see already u have mentioned that he is too caring and listens to u thats what every women want from men , and some how u can convince him to have children when u both are ready
Do/did you have a solid friendship prior to entering this relationship? If not, see if you both can handle that part first. You both have defined differences that are hard to change, in a short amount of time.
Depends on how you are. If you're traditional and conservative too - you'd love it. But if you're not - you'll find it very difficult. Does that answer?
You've literally got the most perfect man that most women say they want other than the traditional thing but if that's how you feel about his views and his "over affection" you should break it off
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I think the problem it's he not being conservative, it's he being insecure.
If he is (a little) smart, he would not be connected to a liberal woman at almost 30 years old while he is a young man with all his life ahead.
Do him a favor: leave him. And make it easier for both of you. Him to find a conservative woman who loves you and have children with moral values; And you find a liberal player who will agree with everything you says.
*who loves him
It's up to you. I mean if you don't want to be a traditional stay at home mom then don't waste yours and his time.
If you don't like all those things about him the move on with your life. He shouldn't try to change you. He should love you for who you are not who he want you to be.
He also needs to change his way of thinking this isn't the 1950s. Women are breadwinners in houses now and men are stay at home dads.
Well that depends on you and what you like. Just remember guys that are traditional so I can manage the boss of the house they feel like a woman shouldn't work so if that's what you like and you're comfortable with that then why not but if you're not comfortable with that then definitely don't date them cuz that's what you're going to get
Wtf run now everything you say about him is him trying to change you he doesn't love you he loves the idea of controlling you and turning you into something you aren't
The math says this isn't gonna work. The amount of time you've been together plus this many red flags is a recipe for disaster.
Do not marry him if he still like this, this is a time bomb which gonna blown on you at the first chance when you're he's wife, so dump him or if you really love him then try to help him see the bigger picture and bot day in the place he is now
If you shared his views on the roles of men and women in marriage then there would be no problem. But the fact that he feels a need to change you is a huge red flag. (And I'm speaking as a traditional and conservative man myself, though I do help with the housework.)
I'm sorry but that would be a big no no for me, you obviously have very different opinions on essential issues. And what you can tolerate now you will absolutely loath in ten years.
Leave as far as you can now that you can still do , you might fall into his trap and it will be harder to get out if you let it
Views are too different... I couldn’t live like that and you shouldn’t have to drastically change for someone you grow together... you need to really think about it or sit down with him again.
Intellectually superior to women? Why are you with him? He seems like he votes for a conservative governments, not only that he believes in traditional roles
Honestly just tell him everything u said here. He can't rush a marriage also you're still young. if you have all these comments on him then obviously it isn't working out. My grandpa was like this and my grandma is miserable. I suggest telling him this and see if there is a change and if not then probably end it. I really don't know what else to say.
Well... If you like him, and can live a happily in this way, then do it.
However if the "traditional" stuff is really not what you are in too, I'd get out of that relationship fast.
The fact that you are asking for advice on the internet iindicates like you are not content in such a relationship and that you are insecure about making changes. I believe the question should be wether you want to have children from this man or not...
When you get around your 30s your primarily goal will be reproductive so you have time until then to make the best pick.
you are not for one another. he is a relic of a lost era. patriarchy is long dead tell him.
and not only a tradcuck, he is a beta too. really hopeless. no wonder you are not attracted.
I am happy to know my reasons to why I'm not attracted to him as much as I wished to are being picked up by you too!
then stop leading on and end it quick. he can either adapt to reality or stay single. have you had sex? or didn't move to that point?
No, we haven't had sex
See what ever happens happens for good see already u have mentioned that he is too caring and listens to u thats what every women want from men , and some how u can convince him to have children when u both are ready
Do/did you have a solid friendship prior to entering this relationship? If not, see if you both can handle that part first. You both have defined differences that are hard to change, in a short amount of time.
Depends on how you are. If you're traditional and conservative too - you'd love it. But if you're not - you'll find it very difficult. Does that answer?
You've literally got the most perfect man that most women say they want other than the traditional thing but if that's how you feel about his views and his "over affection" you should break it off