How to date as a very conservative man nowadays?

[Anonymous]

I don't think I am that conservative, but most women I meet are very straightforward and flirty and it's really turning me off. It just feels like a lack of chemistry when someone wants to kiss me or sleep with me the first night we meet at a party. I would prefer a romantic date with coffee and with a walk and getting to know each other very well before holding hands and kissing by a river or a lake. It's not that I wouldn't give some women a chance, but they move too quickly and they seem disappointed when I don't know how to approach their sexual flirting the first time we meet. I don't mean that I prefer puritans, but I would like a very organic interaction which leads to genuine connection.

[kylee2437]

Interesting, I don’t think most women insinuate moves like that on the first date? What places are you taking them to where they feel like those are the moves they should make?

[Alli39]

I agree with this. I suspect the type of people/behaviors you're seeing are more a product of the environments you're putting yourself in than reflective of all women. If you like a girl but she's moving faster than you're interested in you can always be up front about it. If she's interested in engaging with you despite that then that's great and if not then you guys simply weren't meant to be. I'd say that's a good move for pretty much any strong belief or preference you have for a relationship (ex. politics or religion). I think there might also be some preference/religion-specific dating apps you might be able to use. I can't say I've ever tried anything like that though, so I can't recommend anything specific. If you're struggling with the environments you're in, try spending more time in different places where you're more likely to find people with shared values.

[boobliker]

are you sure your under 30 it don't sound like it, and I would say your at the worng partys if that what's going on. most men I know would love a shagg on the first date that way you don't waist time if it don't work. but if on the other hand it dose well it a head start...