I’m an experienced woman and when I asked to kiss and hook up with this man, who was a virgin; and he wasn’t keen on it. I thought he wasn’t interested. Then years later, he said that he’s conservative about dating. Does that mean like the song; ‘She said no hugging no kissing until I get a wedding ring.’ ‘My honey my baby, don’t put my love upon no shelf.’ ‘She said;’ ‘Don’t give me no lines and keep your hands to yourself!’ Except with the man in the woman’s place. That’s his perspective?
Conservative can mean multiple things, it just varies on degree.
It can mean no sex before marriage on an extreme end,
or more likely, He means he got standards.
When you’re more liberal in a relationship, (Nothing to do with politics) you typically don’t judge for body count as much, you might not care if a girl got Onlyfans, you might not care if she’s friends with people she slept with before.
When you’re more conservative in a relationship, you typically don’t want a promiscuous partner, you don’t like the idea of your significant other being friends with people they slept with before, you won’t go out with a girl who does Onlyfans. You’re more likely to value sex as something more than physical.
I’m pretty conservative in a relationship myself, in my perspective, I see lot’s of gaslighting by women nowadays, calling you “insecure” and “jealous” for having standards.
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No sex before marriage. One woman man. No bisexuality or usually mixed race intercourse in past. All or just one…any combination in between
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If a man explains that he is conservative in romantic relationships, he is probably indicating that he is cautious and selective in his mate choices, and that he values his independence and freedom.
He may be focused on his own personal development and achieving his goals and objectives, and you don't want to commit his time or resources to a relationship that doesn't value his independence or worldview.
It could also be indicating that you value stability and security in romantic relationships, preferring to take it slow and build a solid foundation of trust and respect before committing to someone.
In general, a man who identifies as conservative in romantic relationships is likely prioritizing his own well-being and happiness, and is looking for a partner who shares his values and long-term goals.
When you said you thought he wasn't interested at first, and then rambled, I think you were right the first time actually. If he holding himself to what I assume is religious beliefs, why would he be interested in a woman who didn't?
it means he doesn't wana just bang you and doesn't wana spend 5 years engaged, usually 1 year of dating, an engagement, a marriage, and no birth control allowed after that point
He wants to be commited. Nd will give his v card only for the ones he wanna commit.
It just means he doesn't sleep around.
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