Would a guy be disappointed if you don’t kiss him on the first date? (Page 2)

Question

Had a first date with a guy and we didn’t kiss at the end.

He hugged me twice, and I think he was hoping for a kiss. But I’m a little shy, plus the moment just wasn’t right.

I just hope he doesn’t think I like him. by the way, he did ask me out for a second date.

GreatGooglyMoogly · Answer

I wouldn't be. It was a first date, so to me that's still a little early for a kiss.

SamXIII · Answer

Don't worry, don't force it and give him signs to make him go for the first move

mactallica · Answer

If you say yes to the 2nd date he knows you like him. Unless he's stupid.

ThePetSquirrel · Answer

No, not disappointed. There's other ways to exhibit one's satisfaction with the date than a kiss.

viraj2911 · Answer

In the next date, if you really like him, i want you to kiss him when he tries to kiss you. No need to thank me afterwards.

Awareness · Answer

A first date is a get to know you. You shouldn't kiss unless you have both agreed during that date to date each other exclusively.

Anonymous · Answer

well, since the "third date" is generally the "sex date", i would think at least a kiss is ok on the first one, but, it's just a guideline, i mean, it's not like you HAVE to follow that

the_sinner · Answer

If the moment wasn't right then it's okay. Make it up to him on your second date for sure.

NoToriousROB · Answer

I mean I would have another girl lined up for me just in case you didn’t kiss me

MeGo99 · Answer

Maybe I don't know but personally I prefer things to just happen not in hurry

canadas1 · Answer

At least a kiss in the cheek, the second one is sure for the kiss

Abdul00 · Answer

On first date hug is enough next time if u like kiss him

ManikPS · Answer

I never kissed a girl and Do not even want to, I'll just kiss my wife..

BirdFan360 · Answer

No, but if there's no signs of liking him, he'll very likely move on.

FrancescoLND97 · Answer

If he disappeared because he didn't get a kiss you're lucky. Probably it's the only thing that he wanna reach.

kaliahardik · Answer

It's not necessary that we guys need a kiss at the end of the first date. It's just a guy and a girl should feel comfortable with each other.

tjcaron617 · Answer

If he asked you out on a second date he thinks his you may like him. And him giving you a second hug was a hope for a kiss

Prof_Don · Answer

I can't lie, I go for a kiss on the first date if I like her

thedreamer6668 · Answer

It depends on how the date went and how the guy presented himself

naterAide83 · Answer

A kiss on the cheek would have let him know your interest

Jessica1999 · Answer

No i think he will love you more and think u unavailable for everyone everywhere

JakeLukas · Answer

Yes. I wouldn't give up on the guy/girl but I'd want a kiss.

banjobabe83 · Answer

Then don't worry about it. He asked you out, let it

nectarstick631 · Answer

Best thing is tell him you aren't attracted to him and stop talking to him.

tao627 · Answer

Nah it shouldn't matter if its the first or 57th when it happens it should be special

dandiecandie · Answer

Loool girl you did good

horchatachan · Answer

Probably he was expecting a kiss, but if you don't like him, don't dwell on it

Logan27 · Answer

Well seen as most girls give it up on the first date, I would say so.

Tuxxy · Answer

Yea Id take it as a rejection

Anonymous · Answer

If he asked you out on a second date, then it's all good

MadeInAmerica · Answer

I wouldn't be upset about it.

xctmnt · Answer

It's okay. A kiss is nice, though.

torwulf · Answer

I'd assume you're uninterested.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really no. Unless he was expecting it.

sidvt · Answer

Not a good thing to kiss on first date itself

Phil694u · Answer

No, it's good to take things slow sometimes

blackjoker · Answer

I think it's normal for first date

heyyyyimella · Answer

He should be the one trying to kiss you

marvel_queen42 · Answer

If he is, he is. Sometimes there's no connection.

slamjam43701 · Answer

No its only good if your bothready

mikla210 · Answer

Yea but fuck feelings

timmhanks · Answer

It does depened if the feelings are there

juhqbubbeli · Answer

Naah at least i wouldn't be

shubh9229 · Answer

No its not the big issue...

thewoolyhead225 · Answer

Id be ok with it :)

Smf1989 · Answer

A guy may be disappointed

WillCain · Answer

Only if i applied chapstick for nothing.

ICantthinkofa · Answer

Nah, any decent guy probably wouldn't mind

Honglitha · Answer

Maybe yes lol

Steve4783 · Answer

It depends if he likes you or not.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the guy and his intentions

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe but who cares

Zak_Viel · Answer

Nope I wouldn't

RohitDr · Answer

No. Not like that.

wantsomede · Answer

Yes if he likes you

zephyranthes · Answer

Most shouldn't be

Jhonnyf12 · Answer

no no

Anonymous · Answer

He would be thinking

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