Would a guy be disappointed if you don’t kiss him on the first date? (Page 2)

Question

Had a first date with a guy and we didn’t kiss at the end.

He hugged me twice, and I think he was hoping for a kiss. But I’m a little shy, plus the moment just wasn’t right.

I just hope he doesn’t think I like him. by the way, he did ask me out for a second date.

WalterRadio · Answer

Unless we had explicitly discussed having sex the next time we meet, then that would be a sign that we won't see each other again.

Phillip99 · Answer

It's perfectly cool, the guy will understand that too, since you didn't give him an impression of hate at all You can also kiss him some other time, when you are very free with him Hope it helps

slatyb · Answer

Accepting a date is not a promise that you will kiss someone. Kiss a guy when if feels right to you. If the guy is disappointed that's his problem.

Kat17 · Answer

Depends on the guy. My experience a guy stopped seeing me because I didn't want to kiss him on the first meeting but honestly I'm glad because I don't want someone like that. So if he gets mad your better off without him.

BKLodhi · Answer

Nope. Not a bit if he's genuine. But do tell him that you like him. Good luck for the second date.

PrashanthGujjeti · Answer

Every guy hopes for a kiss, try not to disappoint him next time. If he hugs you and leaves then he's not expecting a kiss, if he really expects a kiss, he'll wait after the hug.

Rushabh52 · Answer

You are going on right track.. It's better not rush in such thing for which you are ready/comfortable to do... You can also tell him that you need some more time... I m sure he'll be ok with it...

TxSonDaddy · Answer

If you weren't ready to kiss him, which it seems you weren't, you shouldn't have to worry about whether or not he is disappointed. If he is worth your time, his main concern should be your safety and comfort. So don't worry, and don't be scared to talk about it to him either.

bbygirlx · Answer

If you feel like you should of kissed him kiss him on the cheek it’s kissing him but not exstreme

musical_kittycat · Answer

Nah, I think you have to get to know someone before you kiss.

Torex · Answer

Honestly I wouldn't be offended by no kiss on the first date. I'd just think we aren't moving quickly that's all.

silverqueen · Answer

Who cares? If you don’t wanna kiss him then you shouldn’t.

SmoMan71 · Answer

Just because you date is hoping for something to happen doesn’t mean you are obligated to do it.

german_of_steel · Answer

You are asking the wrong question. He might even be disappointed that you didn't sleep with him immediately. Does it matter? I don't think so. Some disappointments are perfectly fine and necessary.

mikeysince86 · Answer

If it's obvious that it was going to happen n then u deny the guy that's some bullshit... It's just a kiss. If you're coming at him shy the whole time then it's ok.

SovelissXilo · Answer

Personally, I don't really care about a kiss at the end of the date. As long as both of us had a good time (which judging by the fact that he asked for another date) you should be good. Just go whatever pace you feel comfortable.

hakase · Answer

Personally, I think first date might be too soon for a kiss. I think the guy has understood it too. And since he asked you for a second date, I don't think he thinks you don't like him. Perhaps he's just waiting to see where things go.

rhirhinicks · Answer

Damn, my boyfriend didn't kiss till 2 months of dating hahaa

Diznedude · Answer

You did fine. If it's what you want to do, kiss him this time.

klumpii-v · Answer

Id actually be kinda happy if u did. Id know ur not easy.

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