Is it wrong in the modern age to prefer "masculine" men? (Page 4)

ChronicThinker · 2018-06-04T13:29:19Z

Now, before anyone starts spurting a period-fountain: I'm not talking about traditional masculinity in the sense of being a provider or being unemotional - though I naturally prefer less emotional people as a whole, regardless of gender. I'm talking about typical masculine traits, like strength, liking sports - you know, just having a more "male" mentality. For me personally, I have always been attracted to men's-men. Guys who aren't afraid of physical labour, getting dirty, yelling when their team scores, and being physically protective over me. I love a guy who can fix stuff around the house and explain to me how cars and shit work. It's just my preference. However, this age has given birth to less-defined individuals who are perhaps more fluid in what they consider masculine and feminine. I. E. Guys who like to wear thongs, dress in women's clothing occasionally, who want to be extremely submissive (not that this is inherently female, but it's more common) etc. There's also many more guys out there who are very emotional and sensitive, you get the gist. While I have no issues with these men personally, I am not attracted to them in the slightest. I'm turned off by guys who are super sensitive, submissive, who wanna dress in women's underwear lol. However, this has been a problem for a few people because I'm apparently enforcing a "toxic" idea of masculinity. So, I want the internet to weigh in: Am I a hypocrite? Am I wrong for feeling this way? How do you feel about concepts of masculinity?

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Lufech Follow
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The age doesn't matter, if you feel attracted to that kind of men it is totally fine.

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Nope none of my busses

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Not wrong. I prefer masculine men too

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  @Tohhru Are you a masculine man?
  
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- Tohhru
  
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  I'm a feminine metrosexual bitch
  
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- CT_CD
  
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  @Tohhru Interesting
  
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UniqueUsername132 Follow
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Nothing wrong with that, it's personal preference

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You like what you like, easy as that.

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No. You like what you like.

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l am a real guy very loving only for my girl

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  thank you
  
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Yes, but please do the wrong thing.

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I would like to know you better. Just friends?

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- ChronicThinker
  
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  What does that have to do with my question?
  
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- Furuok
  
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  I am a masculine man , and lack the experience of dating.
  
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- ChronicThinker
  
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  Okay... and?
  
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- Furuok
  
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  Toxic is bad or good !
  
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- ChronicThinker
  
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  At your age that's very abnormal.
  
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- Furuok
  
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  Is emotionally detached excepted at my age? By women seeking a relationship.
  
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- ChronicThinker
  
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  No it isn't.
  
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- Furuok
  
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  So what they say is true.
  
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Wtf?

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no we all have our own taste

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torwulf Follow
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Nope, it the norm.

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leledolan Follow
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Um yes bcz theyre dudes

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there's absolutely nothing wrong with masculinity

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your attitude is a breath of fresh air.

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If you are satisfied with this then all good

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Tohhru Follow
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What you described is fine

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Not wrong

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  I believe you are feminine
  
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Nope

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usernamex Follow
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Hell no wtf

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