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No. Guys are not wussies. We are not emotional like you girls are
Speak for yourself on this one.
It all depends on their personalities, not gender
Anyone with higher sex drive.
Guy's probably as they are a lot more visual
Depends on each situation and coupling.
As someone who is in LDR for nearly 5 years now I would say it's equally hard.
No, they are hard for both the genders.
Nope, they don't work out for both XD
Yes they need sex more than we do.
I think guys because of the sex thing.
Have u experienced this?
Yes. Sometimes I think it is a guys fault cuz they just want to be a player and using their biology as an excuse. Other times I believe it is the biology. Sex is a big reason guys do crazy things even when a current relationship is good.
I disagree, because most guys love the fact of having sex every time you see, and that's more normal in long distance relationships.
@ritxi And I think your answer is too simplistic and wrong. Guys looking forward to sex after holding out means what? That it can drive them to maintain a long distance easier than women? If a man holds out is only because of no means or opportunity. The question is basically who can hold out longer all other things equal and Biology answers that one in favor of women. You dont see women running to strip clubs and whores in record percentages
I agree that some guys do crazy things for sex, but they don't use to do it when they know the next time when they are going to have sex. And if you compare a long distance relationship with any other relationship, it's easier for the guy to know when it'll be the next he will have sex: the next time they meet. And that's why girls use to have sex every time they meet a guy if they live so far that they can't meet so often. If they live in the same city, the guy can despair after three weeks meeting his girlfriend without sex, because he can't predict the next he's going to have sex.
@ritxi My answer didn't mean you were going to fail in your long distance relationship you know. It's only the average.
No not really. Been in a few that lasted a while
I am curious to why u would have that Q.
They are hard for all concerned.
I say equally hard on both.
Yes, unless we are working
I'm asking this to all the guys who say this just out of curiosity, but why do you say so? I'm in an LDR so I just want another perspective.
I think for girls more than guys
Nahh I don't think so
Depends. I think its hard for both
I think it s the same
I don't know about you but it's hard really hard
I guess it's hard for anyone
It's as hard as it is for girl
Much more harder for gals.
A long distance relationship never works.
No it the same
No, they work out for me
not necessarily
Please elaborate?
If you have relatively equal amounts of commitment and emotional connection, why would be any easier or difficult for either one?
Nope
@JSkiy thoughts?
Hmm. I find ours easy, but maybe that’s just us. I guess it’s the expectation that men have to do everything in the relationship that might make it harder
Yes I think so.
Why do u say so?
Maybe just because I am a guy and I would never want to have a long distance one. For me personal it's just an excuse to not have a real relationship. It's just chatting stuff. That's nothing. I don't even think it's possible to be in love with someone you never met in real live
Physically yes.
for both
Harder for guys
Why do you say this? Just curious because I'm in a long distance relationship and I would like to know a guys perspective.
İ had long distance also. Our distance was 3 hours with plane and different country. If the man taste the sex and probably he cheat , Skype is not enough to translate feelings
Add me i will try to explain more
I feel like it all depends on the guy though. My partner has not cheated and is also very adamant on being faithful and we have been together and person and have been intimate. I think if a guy is willing to cheat he just isn't faithful in my opinion. People should be able to control themselves and if they are unsatisfied in a relationship then it just isn't right.
also im only level 1 so i can't message yet
Ohh i see :) also i am 1 😂are you jelaous? Or he?
What do you mean by jealous?
İ mean if your boyfriend go to a girl home to study what you feel?
İt is really normal thing to study togerher. Or he makes new girl friend from school and start to follow at insta and did not tell you do you anger that or not?
He wouldn't actually that's the thing. He never wants me hanging out with guys and he always told me that it feels wrong to him and that he's not interested so if he were to it'd be more of me just being confused as to why he changed his mind. Typically no if he had to study I would trust him, but since he made a point to tell me that he wouldn't be ok with doing that himself then yea I would be confused. Does that make sense?
Normally, I would be ok with it. But since he told me it's something he would never do, then if he were to suddenly do it, it would throw me off since it's out of character.
Yes it makes sense because this is case 1 after time case 2 come and continues until case 10 until you get bored from long distance and dont know what he or she is doing now where is he? This kind of cases and questions makes you tired
After time you will need time to rest and at this time other side or you will find new one
I think as long as I'm interested in the relationship I won't get bored. He asks me sometimes if I will tell him if I ever get bored of him. He appreciates me and is super considerate and I do know he's at work today. I don't necessarily worry about it because he typically wants to spend time with me more than his friends which is what he told me, even when I told him he could see his friends whenever. 2 Years so far and yea things were shitty sometimes but I guess if I'm willing to work at it I won't give up!
Of course continue until it goes but every long distance relationship finish definetly one day
Yea I guess that could be. I know he has talked about marriage so he does seem to be serious and we have been together in person for long periods of time. BUT it is also rare when they work out.
Guys
I'm asking this to all the guys who say this just out of curiosity, but why do you say so? I'm in an LDR so I just want another perspective.
For both is the same
I think both...
Yeah
I'm asking this to all the guys who say this just out of curiosity, but why do you say so? I'm in an LDR so I just want another perspective.