I think a big part of it is our society. In the past a woman's full time job was usually being a housewife and mother. Now you have women who are working full time jobs and running kids to sports, or other things and they simply don't have the time.
I know several women who hope they are able to be housewives/stay-at-home moms some day so they can devote the time and energy into providing quality meals for their families.
cooking would bore me, I'd say if I lived with a man or even another women (that would be abit awkward and werid), we'd share cooking and other house chores equally. And please, a way to a man's heart is through his penis, not his stomach.
ha! true I have noticed that I am like one of my only friends that cooks. welp I think ladies figure like this.. If a have sex with him I don't have to cook. sad... but I see it in the trends.
So the trend ends up being, "If I have sex with him, I do not have to __"
You realize this is why men use women for sex? They realize that after they get sex, there is nothing else left the girl can offer them. You should tell this to your friends.
Girls are being less and less like women, and more and more like whores in this case.
Do you like cooking? Lots of girls don't like cooking. If they're not being forced to by social roles, they're not going to. I don't find cooking fun, but I do it because I have to (I live on my own). This is like asking why don't guys serenade girls anymore. People just have different intrests.
I am a practicing chef! My girl tries to get me outa the kitchen but I refuse to let her in (She can cook and wants to!) BUT in my house I OWN the kitchen and I cook for my family and my girl loves it but she wants to cook for me some times
well if I really like a guy I cook him a nice home made meal nothing says I love you like spending all day preparing something he will appreciate! I think a home made meal is awesome and is always a cute gesture and the guys I dated like it.
allowed? yea the are allowed. my pint was not about obligation, just practicality. what's up your but. women don't HAVE to cook, they may if they like , its not an obligation. I don't know where you got this duty concept thing from. d say its anachronistic thinking but I don't believe it was ever proper to force anyone into one occupation , regardless of personal goals,
I am not saying a Women's occupation or obligation is cooking. I am saying that men have learned to cook and to help themselves and take care of themselves. It seems that at the same time many women have taken that opportunity to stop cooking. Practically, to be lazy, because they can.
"Whats up your but"
It seems that men, in the attempt to find the best female have been taking more and more duties. Thus, ladies are taking less and less duties. I think cooking should be shared. its not.
maybe women are taking more duties outside of the kitchen.
I personally, cooked for my whole family growing up & I'm sick of spending anymore time than absolutely necessary in a kitchen - I spend my time studying & working not in a kitchen. I make things I need on Sunday & freeze it so the kitchen is but a dim memory.. But I absolutely know HOW to cook, Again, if you want someone who likes to cook, you should know this before moving in with them & yes you get to choose who you are with,
So find someone who cooks, not all men cook, not all women cook. don't be with someone who doesn't cook. & I'm not tired after work, I'm just not spending my time in a kitchen, I don't even like coked food, I eat things that are very healthy & quick to prepare,
I do love sandwiches they are great. If you know about food & are creative, you can fit a whole meal between bread & best of all they are portable. (I hate sitting to eat)
I also eat vegetables ( salads with many diff kinds of vegetables, diff forms protein, diff sources of essential oil) nuts ,seeds, yogurt,soy milk, tofu, protein shakes, seaweed, nutritional yeast, cereal,milk, fruit. I eat basically everything except meat, sugar, cream, msg, artificial additives&stimulants, hydrogenated oils.
I am concerned as to when a man comes home from work, and the girlfriend/wife does not want to cook or know how to cook. So they have to go out and eat.
because the media makes it seem that girls have to diet all the time and stay skinny and why would girls bother with cooking if they want to stay in skinny?
That reason makes ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE. In Fact, a woman cooking her own meals could make them more healthy and more tasty for her to lose weight. Eating out constantly makes it more likely for a girl to gain weight.
im talking about girls who diet and only eat vegetables and fruits or don't eat at all its very common and no girl whos dieting would go cook a pasta or anything like that
I agree with QA here. If I were on some kind of restricted diet to lose weight or something, or any kind of diet with particular guidelines to follow, I would much rather make my own food, because I would have complete control over it. When I was a vegetarian, and a vegan, respectively, I cooked ALL my own food, and rarely ate other peoples' cooking. Simply because my diet was so specific that I'd trust almost no one to cook and put together my meals better than I could do it myself.
I love cooking its fun, I its kinda like art you can always try something new. but I'm not that way because I'm girl it's just something some enjoy, my grandpa is the one who taught me how to cook
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I cook most of the time but I don't cook consistently because I have other things to do. But overall, I think that both men and women are cooking less and eating out more. You can thank the last couple of generations for this new unhealthy tradition.
Gender roles have been completely warped, with husband-abuse rates reaching sky-high levels. Cooking is only one dire symptom. Resist brothers, before our hawt female overlords entirely place their high-heels/yokes upon our necks.
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I think a big part of it is our society. In the past a woman's full time job was usually being a housewife and mother. Now you have women who are working full time jobs and running kids to sports, or other things and they simply don't have the time.
I know several women who hope they are able to be housewives/stay-at-home moms some day so they can devote the time and energy into providing quality meals for their families.
cooking would bore me, I'd say if I lived with a man or even another women (that would be abit awkward and werid), we'd share cooking and other house chores equally. And please, a way to a man's heart is through his penis, not his stomach.
the way to a mans heart is through his stomach.
Girls have been trying to keep guys using their vagina for years.
But I bet in almost every case, a guy is much more likely to stay with a girl if she cooks very well for him, and does it happily!
See, a special girl can cook a great meal. But every girl has a Vagina. So CLEARLY, his penis is not what needs to be pleased, it is his appetite.
that's bs
If the way to a man's heart was through his penis, the would be COMPLETELY different.
ha! true I have noticed that I am like one of my only friends that cooks. welp I think ladies figure like this.. If a have sex with him I don't have to cook. sad... but I see it in the trends.
So the trend ends up being, "If I have sex with him, I do not have to __"
You realize this is why men use women for sex? They realize that after they get sex, there is nothing else left the girl can offer them. You should tell this to your friends.
Girls are being less and less like women, and more and more like whores in this case.
It is very sad.
:-/
lol I know right?
Do you like cooking? Lots of girls don't like cooking. If they're not being forced to by social roles, they're not going to. I don't find cooking fun, but I do it because I have to (I live on my own). This is like asking why don't guys serenade girls anymore. People just have different intrests.
I serenade girls. I play the piano.
I am a practicing chef! My girl tries to get me outa the kitchen but I refuse to let her in (She can cook and wants to!) BUT in my house I OWN the kitchen and I cook for my family and my girl loves it but she wants to cook for me some times
I LOVE COOKING! ha ha I'd much rather be the one to cook because I know that it will most likely turn out good and I know what's going into it:)
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well if I really like a guy I cook him a nice home made meal nothing says I love you like spending all day preparing something he will appreciate! I think a home made meal is awesome and is always a cute gesture and the guys I dated like it.
exactly!
could be that feminism is more these days than ever, discouraging women from taking on roles of their mothers/grandmothers.
The problem is when girls don't feel they should cook because of feminism but then also don't feel they should cook because they are tired from work.
Guys will still cook even though they came from work. This should be a loving shared responsibility.
"tired from work" is never an excuse a guy can use apparently, lol.
exactly. Ladies above are saying that they do not cook because they are itred from other obligations or busy from other obligations..
Well, men are tired or busy from other obligations as well! So yes, that is a terrible argument for a lady to take.
Why exactly do you believe she have to start out in the kitchen to begin with? You now the best chefs are cooks?
you mean the best chef's are men?*
Also, just because a man is better at something in theory, that does not mean that women don't have to do it.
If it turned out one day that women were better car mechanics, would all men be allowed to quit fixing cars..and send out women to do it?
no.
allowed? yea the are allowed. my pint was not about obligation, just practicality. what's up your but. women don't HAVE to cook, they may if they like , its not an obligation. I don't know where you got this duty concept thing from. d say its anachronistic thinking but I don't believe it was ever proper to force anyone into one occupation , regardless of personal goals,
I am not saying a Women's occupation or obligation is cooking. I am saying that men have learned to cook and to help themselves and take care of themselves. It seems that at the same time many women have taken that opportunity to stop cooking. Practically, to be lazy, because they can.
"Whats up your but"
It seems that men, in the attempt to find the best female have been taking more and more duties. Thus, ladies are taking less and less duties. I think cooking should be shared. its not.
maybe women are taking more duties outside of the kitchen.
I personally, cooked for my whole family growing up & I'm sick of spending anymore time than absolutely necessary in a kitchen - I spend my time studying & working not in a kitchen. I make things I need on Sunday & freeze it so the kitchen is but a dim memory.. But I absolutely know HOW to cook, Again, if you want someone who likes to cook, you should know this before moving in with them & yes you get to choose who you are with,
Men work and cook. Women work and could cook as well.
That is all. Both genders are tired after working.
So find someone who cooks, not all men cook, not all women cook. don't be with someone who doesn't cook. & I'm not tired after work, I'm just not spending my time in a kitchen, I don't even like coked food, I eat things that are very healthy & quick to prepare,
"I don't even like cooked food"
what food are you referring to? Cold Sanwhiches?
I do love sandwiches they are great. If you know about food & are creative, you can fit a whole meal between bread & best of all they are portable. (I hate sitting to eat)
I also eat vegetables ( salads with many diff kinds of vegetables, diff forms protein, diff sources of essential oil) nuts ,seeds, yogurt,soy milk, tofu, protein shakes, seaweed, nutritional yeast, cereal,milk, fruit. I eat basically everything except meat, sugar, cream, msg, artificial additives&stimulants, hydrogenated oils.
we are too busy to cook for ourselves or work in the work force. many guys can cook for themselves nowadays anyways.
I am concerned as to when a man comes home from work, and the girlfriend/wife does not want to cook or know how to cook. So they have to go out and eat.
A women like that would not keep me.
Also, if a man is "working in the workforce" why is he not allowed to just have someone else make it for him?
So you are saying, if the man and women are working, then they should just BOTH not cook and go eat dinner at applebees?
Where do you think obesity comes from? Likely from eating out every meal!
well this is not only the thing I have many things which girls stop doing...
i can see many ladies after geting married they even don't care of the children they have and only think of money.
they even don't know what their child is studying. but am sure this is not all girls does only few, am afraid this should not spread more...
because the media makes it seem that girls have to diet all the time and stay skinny and why would girls bother with cooking if they want to stay in skinny?
stay skinny***
That reason makes ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE. In Fact, a woman cooking her own meals could make them more healthy and more tasty for her to lose weight. Eating out constantly makes it more likely for a girl to gain weight.
im talking about girls who diet and only eat vegetables and fruits or don't eat at all its very common and no girl whos dieting would go cook a pasta or anything like that
Then the girl who is cooking can make the meals how she likes it. Cooking her own food would seem to more EMPOWER her dieting ways.
I agree with QA here. If I were on some kind of restricted diet to lose weight or something, or any kind of diet with particular guidelines to follow, I would much rather make my own food, because I would have complete control over it. When I was a vegetarian, and a vegan, respectively, I cooked ALL my own food, and rarely ate other peoples' cooking. Simply because my diet was so specific that I'd trust almost no one to cook and put together my meals better than I could do it myself.
Well...i Cook...Because I prefer my own food... and the way I make it as to others lol.
In my family..every women still cooks..its part of my culture.
I love cooking its fun, I its kinda like art you can always try something new. but I'm not that way because I'm girl it's just something some enjoy, my grandpa is the one who taught me how to cook
I cook most of the time but I don't cook consistently because I have other things to do. But overall, I think that both men and women are cooking less and eating out more. You can thank the last couple of generations for this new unhealthy tradition.
Gender roles have been completely warped, with husband-abuse rates reaching sky-high levels. Cooking is only one dire symptom. Resist brothers, before our hawt female overlords entirely place their high-heels/yokes upon our necks.
Te he he.
I love cooking. My father taught me to cook beautiful food. Bloody hell, I can just taste his cooking now...great, now I'm hungry.
I don't know about other women, but I absolutely love cooking
and I haven't noticed what you are asking about...
I cook , my boyfriend cooks ... we have equal roles
great!
Thats not true, I cook but now I'm single I've got no one but myself to cook for
I am not sayng cooking is the magic answer to all of your dating problems.