So, let start off... This guy and I have been friends for about a year. I liked him because he was polite and funny to talk to, however over the summer he became, quite literally, obsessed with me. He stalks my school's band page and screenshots every picture he finds of me and then spreads it to my friends, saying stuff like "isn't she so cute!" He has gotten very jealous of both my male and female friends, and is planning on following me to college, wherever that may be. He is overly friendly, complimenting absolutely everything I do and touching me. He freaked out to one of my friends when I gave him a slight side-hug ("We've made a huge leap in our relationship!"). He constantly texts me and questions what I'm doing. He stares at me wherever I am. I'm not a people person, I literally shake when I'm around people, and I've been feeling reluctant every time I see his name. He constantly pats me on the back, even knowing I don't do touch.
He has asked me to go to a hockey game with him, and he is apparently going to take me aside after the game and admit everything to me. I don't like him as anything other than a friend, and knowing he has been getting more and more obsessed it is beginning to worry me.
uld not let go until I returned it. I discovered that he has been texting almost everyone in the school, and have had multiple people, who I have never met before, come up and talk as though we are best friends. He has informed the school that we are dating, and even has a ship name he uses for us in his private stories. Friends have shown me texts
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Say this. I think your getting the wrong idea in your head about something and said it with a smile. "he will say" what's that you look at him and say. Your dead to me you were never born and you should remove your self from my air space. !!! Or..
you could just say. Ok (name) . Lets stop this right here. … you will stun him. Don't walk behind me don't talk to me or my friends and remove me from your wall !! today
This guy sounds potentially dangerous. Don't be polite about it. Just tell him to fuck off. Do not be ambiguous in any way. Make it perfectly clear that you are not interested and to stop his behavior. Telling him to fuck off is clear. Punching him is clear. Don't be afraid to do either one.
Tell him if he doesn't stop stalking you, you will report him to the school authorities and police. Then follow through with it.
Stop worrying about being polite. With someone like this, polite translates to lack of communication.
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Why not quite simply say to him FUCK OFF.