How to politely tell someone to fuck off?

(I wrote this but never realised it hadn't sent...)

So, let start off... This guy and I have been friends for about a year. I liked him because he was polite and funny to talk to, however over the summer he became, quite literally, obsessed with me. He stalks my school's band page and screenshots every picture he finds of me and then spreads it to my friends, saying stuff like "isn't she so cute!" He has gotten very jealous of both my male and female friends, and is planning on following me to college, wherever that may be. He is overly friendly, complimenting absolutely everything I do and touching me. He freaked out to one of my friends when I gave him a slight side-hug ("We've made a huge leap in our relationship!"). He constantly texts me and questions what I'm doing. He stares at me wherever I am. I'm not a people person, I literally shake when I'm around people, and I've been feeling reluctant every time I see his name. He constantly pats me on the back, even knowing I don't do touch.
He has asked me to go to a hockey game with him, and he is apparently going to take me aside after the game and admit everything to me. I don't like him as anything other than a friend, and knowing he has been getting more and more obsessed it is beginning to worry me.
Updates:
Update: now. I told him I am gay, yet he refuses to back down. One of my friends gave me a hug and then he immediately came up and hugged me, and wo
uld not let go until I returned it. I discovered that he has been texting almost everyone in the school, and have had multiple people, who I have never met before, come up and talk as though we are best friends. He has informed the school that we are dating, and even has a ship name he uses for us in his private stories. Friends have shown me texts
Friends have show me texts of his to them where he has sent unknown pictures of me to them, and recounted word for word private conversations.

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  • Say this. I think your getting the wrong idea in your head about something and said it with a smile. "he will say" what's that you look at him and say. Your dead to me you were never born and you should remove your self from my air space. !!! Or..
    you could just say. Ok (name) . Lets stop this right here. … you will stun him. Don't walk behind me don't talk to me or my friends and remove me from your wall !! today

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  • This guy sounds potentially dangerous. Don't be polite about it. Just tell him to fuck off. Do not be ambiguous in any way. Make it perfectly clear that you are not interested and to stop his behavior. Telling him to fuck off is clear. Punching him is clear. Don't be afraid to do either one.

    Tell him if he doesn't stop stalking you, you will report him to the school authorities and police. Then follow through with it.

    Stop worrying about being polite. With someone like this, polite translates to lack of communication.

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  • The guys need more direct f.. ck off rather than politely f.. ck off. It's even better to show around with another guy (even a fake bf) to make the object pissed off.

    It's also highly advised to block him at all social networks after sending him a "fck off message".

    However if there's no damage or annoyance = don't send anybody to f.. ck themselves. It's better to have 1 extra friend than 1 extra enemy, you know.

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  • You need to be firm with him and tell him that you are not in a relationship with him and you never will be. It sounds like you may need to contact a guidance counselor. That's what they're there for. This kid seems to have serious issues if he can't or won't take no for an answer.

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  • Say this to him " I want to apologise if anything I have said or done has given you the impression that I give a fuck about you stalking punk ass you little bitch" that's about as polite as he deserves

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  • If he's done all that there's no need to be polite. Make it very clear to him that you don't appreciate his advances, his behaviour is sexual harrassment and if he doesn't stop you're going to go to the police.

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  • 'fuck off 😊'.. Jk

    Just be blunt and tell him that he is being clingy and you're not comfortable with it.

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  • I don't think there is a polite way to say fuck off. Pull that leech off and get on with your life. Let him know, and hopefully it doesn't go further than that.

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  • Wtf is wrong with him?

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  • Confront him about it

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