Is that how it works in your village?
Yeah but it seems women get higher expectations as they also become less interesting to men. So its easy to ride the train to long and miss your stop. Men are different, as long as we stay in shape, make more money and learn new things we can always get a hot young babe. We have different issues to deal with though.
Yes but to many guys they miss real relationship where he finds someone who really gets him and inspires him to be better feeling like a winner because they were in short term relationships they know won't last.
You can't be considered a leftover if you never been in a intimate relationship or marriage. But you probably have some leftover clothes your cousin gave yoy or used TV from your parents etc.
Ah okay. 😊
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The only men who should be dating 30s women are like divorced 50 to 60 year old men who already had a family and want someone they dont have to invest into.
That is common for young adults. You'll soon see that start to change rapidly for most of your age cohort.
There are tons of single women. Single moms, sluts, fat women. All the kind you want to marry! Lmao. Date young girls they are single and not fucked up yet.
@bamesjond0069 Haha, young girls would go for guys around their age! Why would they choose me? I am not filthy rich, so I can't really be a sugar daddy. And I wouldn't want to, even if I had money.
I'm the same but tend to find the younger women are mostly just drama so I prefer around mid twenties women
@Silver158 But see my girlfriend is 17 and so if we stay together then she's been taken out of the market and if we have a stable relationship for years, you will never have the opportunity to date her. And if we have a stable relationship, she's obviously one of the good ones and so all the girls who are her age now, when they are 24 lets say, I've already had my pick of the bunch before you even looked. So whats left are leftovers like the question asks about.
Isn't 17 underage in the US?
@Silver158 no. Depends on the state. 16 17 or 18 depending where you live.
ah right, fair enough.
*calls the police to tell them not to worry*
@Silver158 *makes fun of me but is happy with my leftovers* cool dude lol
You know the 2 ** are for things that you're doing right? Ask your girlfriend she'll tell you lol. See I wasn't making fun of you before but now I am
@Silver158 haha she teaches me lots of stuff about pop culture and stuff. I do the same thing in return. Its kind of fun.
Honestly, most of those people who marry before 25 tend to get divorce or quite miserable if it was arrange marriage. It just sounds like someone who wants to feel better about themselves so they put everyone down with him. I am fine being single because I was in a relationship that annoy the fuck out of me and it made me want to be single for years because I didn't want to date another person who going to annoy the living shit out of me for a long time lol.
If you aren't married by 25 as a woman id say you are a leftover. If you think you need to earn money first it just strikes me as selfish and shallow and who wants someone with personality defects like that?
@bamesjond0069 Honey, a lot of people who marry before 25 just do it because they are horny. How is wanting a good home, good education and a good life for your kids selfish?And there's other things people look in their lives besides money: like recognition, meaningful relationships, experiencies and legacies to pass to the new generations. Divorce and single motherhood almost always start a vicious cycle difficult to break.
Its selfish for a woman to want both to be a good mom and to reach career and income goals. Its not realistic and i just think why are they so controlling that they have to bring home the bacon? Why can't they just focus on being a good mom so i can focus on making money. Instead many women want to do everything and then there is no room for a man any more because they are so controlling and think buying expensive baby toys is more beneficial than being a stay at home or mainly stay at home mom.
@bamesjond0069 Funny your 31 and not a leftover while a woman is at age 25? no wonder your bitching no woman wants your bs. Come back when you realize how ignorant you are.
@NatashaJ men and women are different. Most women exclusively date older. So my age has nothing to do with it. For women age is almost everything because most men exclusively date younger. Im 31 but i have an 18 year old girlfriend. Im far more desirable now than i ever was at 18. Someones just jealous its the opposite for them. Lol
@bamesjond0069 Ew wtf she could be your little sister you clearly taking advantage of her and you act like she stay forever how you know she not going to dump your ass for someone her age? and money is not everything to women personality counts more. If you act like a shitbag constantly she probably goodbye and leave.
I know that's not super inspiring, sorry. If it helps, I found a good one (both were 28 when we met), it just required a rather arduous search through dates with many losers
I’ve sick of women in their 30s who have made shitty decisions in their youth (dating violent assholes) having a bitter attitude towards men in general.
Over exaggerating, but so are you.
Lies people tell themselves
@Shoenron A lot of people are concentrating on developing their careers in their twenties, especially if in a complex profession. But I guess that doesn't apply to you.
So that means you're not on the dating market, smart boi. And even then, people that can't manage both will be leftovers. Sad but true.
If you look at the term "Leftovers" it means something left or used from someone else or a legacy left behind.If a man or woman was in a marriage or serious intimate relationship with someone else and no longer is with them then its considered someone's leftovers.
love me some leftovers. waste not, want not.
Mostly we all had part in being a leftover or received past downs as leftovers from clothes, car etc. Its life.
That's a generalization. For example, what if someone was in a long-term relationship and his boyfriend/girlfriend died? Or if they had an accident themselves in their life?Also there are people who have never been in a relationship (rare but it exists)
Nevertheless I can't stand the hypocrisy. Are you above all these people you call leftovers?
Age has nothing to do with it. You can be washed up before you turn 21 if they started at 15.. lol
Age at which you started has nothing to do with it. Unless you let yourself become a crack head blob fish there is no way you're washed up at 21 even if you started at 6.
You'll be surprised. I'm not talking about physical looks though..
But you did say "mostly filled"
You brought age into it not me. I was specifically addressing how dating is currently..
You seriously did not understand the answer?Women above 25 still on the dating market are mostly leftovers. Sale for men above 30.Under that it's not mostly leftovers. Is it that hard to understand?
but in all fairness, I know people who have intense issues who still found someone..
.. but maybe they're not as screwed up as people who get left over... I don't know
That's what they call it. I didn't make up the term.
Don't know who in the world that is..
Yes, it's Christopher Eccleston playing a character called Matt who is a priest in the HBO show The Leftovers, if i'm not mistaken!
No you aren't.
Do you want to lose it?
@sonnysunshine maybe but it has to do with the right person but I guess at my age I won't be knowing the right person haha
It’s up to you. But honestly you really can’t be picky at this point. However it would probably be worse to be a man and die as a virgin vs a woman unless you are doing it for spiritual reasons.
@sonnysunshine Im not doing it for religión purposes and I know I can't be picky but then s not that I be fooling around just to not be a virgin im more responsable and mature
Do you want to be saying that 10 years from now? Do what you want. But you either pop the cherry or you don’t at this point.
@sonnysunshine So u think fooling around it the nice way to go in my case? Sorry is not who am I am as a person. There was a chance of maybe just maybe getting laid with a guy I was attracted but then he just wanted to do it it for fun and that is all, even if we are Friends for 3 years and even if I was attracted to him
You are not 16 anymore sweetie. Are you going to be saying this when you start collecting social security? Not to put you down for your age. I’m no 19 yr old kid anymore myself. I’ve been more flexible on what physical attractive standards are for women. Arm candy is nice but if it rots my teeth I’ll avoid it. If you want to have sex have sex. If you don’t, don’t. But you might not marry or even date the man who is willing to the honors at this point. Not impossible you might find that guy, but not likely either.
@sonnysunshine im staying single forever
Remember it was your choice.
@sonnysunshine i dont know if by choice or becaue i will neer find anyone
If I were in a relatioship with you and you dump me what am I to you in regardless if another woman wants me? You know the answer.. lol
Not a leftover
PC rules you.