Is spooning cheating?

[Anonymous]

I have an LDR girlfriend of a year, and my best friend (female) ever since I joined uni ages ago.

so, me and my friend went out to see fireworks recently, got some drinks, and went back to watch netflix at hers.
I stayed round, cause it was waaaayyy too late to walk home where we live (would probably be shanked), and about halfway through the night she get super cold, so we snuggled up and started spooning and cuddling soon after, until we both fell asleep.
We woke up the next day super tangled together and haven't had any issue between us over it.

I haven't told my girlfriend about it, even tho me and my best freind are good with it, i feel bad that i dont feel bad about doing it.
was i cheating on my gf? should i be worried? should i tell her about what i did?

Yes

No

Yes, but (add reason below)...

No, but (add reason below)...

[Anonymous]

This take is a great example of the lies we tell ourselves throughout life. Convenient fallacies to make us believe... the make believe. Just know that as long as you live a lie, you will never be able to reach your true potential.

''I haven't told my girlfriend about it, even tho me and my best friend are good with it''

You haven't told your girlfriend because you know it was 'wrong'. There is an irony in this fallacy. The girlfriend is a lie, and so is the friend...

[truthbeknown]

This is right to the line, but not crossed it. Next time it could happen. All it takes is a moment of emotional weakness. Guys and girls cannot be simple friends. To prove this, would you ever spoon all night and be tangled in the morning with one of your guy friends?

[ashleyb93]

Yes I would consider that a form of emotional cheating. It's really disrespectful to your partner and your relstionship... when you spend time with another girl and do stuff you would normally do with your girlfriend yeah thats cheating... why are you out with other girls anyway?

[jerijay]

How would you feel if your girlfriend was cuddling with some other guy

[Anonymous]

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[SketchForger]

Look... Girls have made me the little spoon all the time because they know I don't actually care, but I was never in a relationship at the time.

Would I care any more of I was in a relationship? No.

Would I care if a girl I was dating did that? To be honest, no.

Y'know why? Because I don't need to treat a partner of mine like some car I own, or a phone of mine.

If I trust this person, then why would I even care?

[Aizou]

Well cuddling and spooning is not something friends does. Also, would you do those things with a guy friend of yours?

[es20490446e]

How would you feel if your girlfriend was the one spooning?

[Twat_Twig]

What if your girl was cuddling another dude?

[TonyBologna25]

Yeah. That’s pretty intimate. I’d be furious.