In a guy's world, there's what you call a "Respect Meter". This meter affects how other guys treat you. If you hang out or date the hot girls, every guy will bow down to you. They will not make fun of you. You will fit into any group. If you hang around with girls perceived as ugly, other guys will often make fun of you, tease you etc.
Quite important to me.. I would never go out with an ugly girl... even though I'm ugly myself lol, but I don't give a fuck.. I'm selfish hahahaha. .. anyway. ... can u send me a picture of u please? U might not be as ugly as you think.
I am the most brutally honest person in the world who is not afraid to hurt people's feelings.. so when I give you a rating.. you can believe it's true and I'm not jus saying it to give you confidence. .. I will rate you 1 if I have to
I always say, get a girl who is just as attractive as you. Compability is not only emotionally, but physically too. With that in mind, if you are attractive, you have more barganing power, than somebody who is not.
Attraction is important, but every guy likes different things about the way a girl looks. Why do you think you’re ugly? Send me a pic and let me point out the good qualities I see and maybe some pointers on how to bring out your best look.
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So first off, even if you think you're unattractive overall you may still be okay if you have a particularly good feature that you can emphasize. For most girls, no matter what their face looks like, following a healthy diet and exercising can result in a pretty attractive body. So I'd say start there because you can change it. What would you say is your single best feature?
Girls as opposed to guys are just as thirsty or into hot partners but unlike guys girls pretend that's not the case. 80% of all girls go for 20% of all guys cause they only want the other ones. No 20% here admit that. The rest is even lying anonymously on the internet. That's how afraid girls are to say they are horny too. Weird. Just admit it.
Even if a girl is a really great person, I will not date her if she isn't at least decent looking. That's not to say that other things don't matter too. There are a lot of hot girls out there who are whores that I would never date. But men are very visual creatures.
As long as someone looks like they're taking care of themselves it's fine in my opinion. You don't have to be a fullblown 10 but having plucked brows, good hygiene and brushed hair it's fine.
Very important. However, you will just have to lower the bar. If you're a 5, try to flirt with other 5s. It would be ridiculous to expect you could get a 9 if you're a 4.
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How can you know if you’re really ugly? Ugly doesn’t exist remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some person might think you’re pretty and someone else won’t.
Get a thousand guys and ask them if lets say "Victorias secrets model (insert name here)" is beautiful 100% of them would say yes. When it comes to what humas find aesthetically pleasing in human faces directly correlates "attractiveness or beauty" im pretty sure there have been a lot of studies done on this... these days however people seem to think that millions of years of evolution doesn't have anything to do with what we are today and how we behave. I hear a lot of people who don't even seem to think that we are actually animals. To that i say... imagine if the electricity was turned off worldwide... then the true animal nature of mankind would be evident.
They're somewhat important... Every guy has, and every guy will compromise on looks to get with a girl who has a great personality. There are limits, of course, but dudes are very lenient about these things.
I'm an unattractive guy but still care about looks a fair bit. In saying that, however, if a girl was to reject me based purely off my looks then I honestly wouldn't blame her one bit.
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In a guy's world, there's what you call a "Respect Meter". This meter affects how other guys treat you.
If you hang out or date the hot girls, every guy will bow down to you. They will not make fun of you. You will fit into any group.
If you hang around with girls perceived as ugly, other guys will often make fun of you, tease you etc.
We also have standards.
Quite important to me.. I would never go out with an ugly girl... even though I'm ugly myself lol, but I don't give a fuck.. I'm selfish hahahaha. .. anyway. ... can u send me a picture of u please? U might not be as ugly as you think.
I am the most brutally honest person in the world who is not afraid to hurt people's feelings.. so when I give you a rating.. you can believe it's true and I'm not jus saying it to give you confidence. .. I will rate you 1 if I have to
Ok, go fallow me and rate the people on my page.
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@Mikayla3 ok
I always say, get a girl who is just as attractive as you. Compability is not only emotionally, but physically too. With that in mind, if you are attractive, you have more barganing power, than somebody who is not.
Your profile picture is <3
@Platypoos lol thanks!
Attraction is important, but every guy likes different things about the way a girl looks. Why do you think you’re ugly? Send me a pic and let me point out the good qualities I see and maybe some pointers on how to bring out your best look.
So first off, even if you think you're unattractive overall you may still be okay if you have a particularly good feature that you can emphasize. For most girls, no matter what their face looks like, following a healthy diet and exercising can result in a pretty attractive body. So I'd say start there because you can change it. What would you say is your single best feature?
Girls as opposed to guys are just as thirsty or into hot partners but unlike guys girls pretend that's not the case. 80% of all girls go for 20% of all guys cause they only want the other ones. No 20% here admit that. The rest is even lying anonymously on the internet. That's how afraid girls are to say they are horny too. Weird. Just admit it.
Even if a girl is a really great person, I will not date her if she isn't at least decent looking. That's not to say that other things don't matter too. There are a lot of hot girls out there who are whores that I would never date. But men are very visual creatures.
As long as someone looks like they're taking care of themselves it's fine in my opinion. You don't have to be a fullblown 10 but having plucked brows, good hygiene and brushed hair it's fine.
Just find an ugly guy to date you. Ugly people go together
Lmao😭😂
Very important. However, you will just have to lower the bar. If you're a 5, try to flirt with other 5s. It would be ridiculous to expect you could get a 9 if you're a 4.
How can you know if you’re really ugly? Ugly doesn’t exist remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some person might think you’re pretty and someone else won’t.
I'm sorry but ugly does exist. There are physically attributes that are recognized universally as beauty. Google "golden ratio"
@Fredde199 yeah there might be a golden ratio but that doesn’t mean everyone finds it attractive
Get a thousand guys and ask them if lets say "Victorias secrets model (insert name here)" is beautiful 100% of them would say yes. When it comes to what humas find aesthetically pleasing in human faces directly correlates "attractiveness or beauty" im pretty sure there have been a lot of studies done on this... these days however people seem to think that millions of years of evolution doesn't have anything to do with what we are today and how we behave. I hear a lot of people who don't even seem to think that we are actually animals.
To that i say... imagine if the electricity was turned off worldwide... then the true animal nature of mankind would be evident.
They're somewhat important... Every guy has, and every guy will compromise on looks to get with a girl who has a great personality. There are limits, of course, but dudes are very lenient about these things.
They matter, but they aren't the be all, end all. They gotta have a good personality and at least a few things in common.
I've gone on dates with women who were cute but were just boring to talk to.
Looks will fade eventually. Personality, values and interests are far more important when it comes to a long-term relationship.
Basic good looks are important but she doesn't have to be a model. Her personality is also very important.
It's EXTREMELY important. To tell you otherwise, would be blowing smoke up your ass. Having said that... keep looking. Your prince is out there.
"And there's no way to change it or make it better,"
That's often more untrue than most people believe.
Looks need to be attractive enough to get over the individual guy's threshold to move on to part 2, getting to know you.
In my opinion it is somewhat important so go find a man that finds you beautiful. Maybe its somewhere out of the country.
I'm an unattractive guy but still care about looks a fair bit. In saying that, however, if a girl was to reject me based purely off my looks then I honestly wouldn't blame her one bit.