Would you rather stay in or go out for a date?

Question

What things would you enjoy doing?

lumos · Accepted Answer

Nowadays my boyfriend and I just stay in. But sometimes we do go out when we're bored or we feel like breaking the routine. If I'm just getting to know someone, I'd def prefer going out.

angry_llama · Accepted Answer

Depends on where we'd go out, if it's away from people than I don't mind

Logorithim · Accepted Answer

Definitely go out- some outdoors activity and/or a sporting event would be at the top of the list. Picnic included for something to eat.

NYCQuestions1976 · Accepted Answer

Going out with the eventual goal of "going in". HA HA HA! I made myself laugh. No regrets.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

It depends on the guy and my mood.

I'm usually pretty active, so I'd love an unorthodox date like meeting up at the gym and working out together, or a run/jog through a park or a trail together. And when we finish, we can have a picnic lunch, or just grab a pizza.

Or if it's an evening date or we're just looking to keep it simple, maybe just meet up at my place, grab some food (burger, pizza, sandwich- something quick and simple), and watch a movie or tv together and talk.

I'm not really a fan of conventional, "Let's go eat out at a restaurant!" They're overpriced, crowded, especially on the weekends- so I sparingly do that with dates. Besides, why eat out when you can eat at home or pack your own food for cheap?

Apope16 · Answer

Id go on the date if we split the check. Otherwise if i pay everything hell no. Im happy single.

coachTanthony · Answer

Well if it's date number 5 I would say STAY IN LOL

Northern_star · Answer

it depends.
i'm usually against meeting at my place at the beginning, its an openned card game then...
they see my financial level, my hobbies, my addiction to tidiness, and the bloody perfectly proportioned food in the fridge i put in small standardised boxes.. once i dated a psychologist, took her home, openned the fridge for wine, she just lookt at me sayin "OCD dude, right?" no, never again. let them be surprised by insanity years later!!

oh and if she's "bad crazy" i can't say "ok i have to go home now" cause holy fuck, i already am home.

oreodair · Answer

I’d want to stay in, only if I really fw the person though. I think when you really vibe with someone it doesn’t matter where y’all are at because you both enjoy each other’s energy. We can stay inside and just sit and talk on the couch it really don’t matter lmao

PoliceLivesMatter · Answer

Definitely go out. I love going to a nice and cozy place, doesn’t necessarily have to be a restaurant it can be some sort of lounge. If I really like a woman, which is the only reason why I’d be dating her in the first place, I’d want to reserve a spot at a nice restaurant.

noubigdumbdumb · Answer

I feel going out is good for the first couple of dates. Going out lets you do a lot more things than staying in. However, once you're comfortable with each other and have entered more of the relationship phase than just dating, then staying in becomes an option.

nonratracereality · Answer

That which enhances your life and those around you. What you want to do and what is actually agreed upon will not only decide what's going on but how it will end up. Don't be afraid to be you. They weren't afraid to engage you.

Moralisa · Answer

Honestly to me, I’d rather spend the whole day with my loved one in track pants with snacks than to go out on an extravagant date any day.

Wowgirl10q · Answer

😂😂😂

dreadmyst · Answer

ideally I would rather stay in and do an activity with someone whether it be playing a game, watching tv/a movie or just anything around the house. I personally hate spending money and staying in saves money but one activity I enjoy that's low cost is playing Billiards pool.

Yourlegaladdiction · Answer

I like staying in, feels much more personal. Watching classic films while eating homemade spaghetti (made together) and drinking wine.

menina · Answer

I would rather stay in because I'm shy and then we would have more privacy. Plus, I wouldn't want to be seen with him. Maybe we could watch a movie and have dinner.

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

On a first date, I would prefer to go out, just enjoy and have fun, later on when we're a bit more comfortable with each other I would prefer to stay in, cook food, relax and just talk or something...

Didi1337 · Answer

The most important thing is doing something you both apreciate, good vibing and dressed properly, i don't really care if its inside or outside, tho in the winter i prefer inside, norway can be cooooold😅

Miristheiss · Answer

I'd say 70/30. Go out 70 percent and stay in cuddle, watch movies, cook together etc. 30 percent of the time.

Prof_Don · Answer

My girl is such a homebody, so most of the time we stay in.  Order some takeout/delivery, and watch something or play some card/board games 👌🏾

Wolframium · Answer

Indoors. Just be comfortable. So that kind of eliminates certain group of girls, who just need to…keep moving. For some reason.

Catacious · Answer

A nice long scenic drive is perfect. I guess that's a bit of both.

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

For first date I like to go fourwheeling it can be funny and a friendly competition 🙂

newPython · Answer

Stay in if it leads to some major making out or sex. Otherwise go out.

MeanderingTrex · Answer

Go out, my place has a bunch of kid toys and fruit snacks.

Titanic1912 · Answer

Out-dinner, coffee shop, picnic, romantic walk. In-cuddling, movies and popcorn, dancing, romantic bath.

lanabug · Answer

Out. Adventurous dates are better for getting to know each other.

TheAceholeSupreme666 · Answer

Depends on the woman, circumstances, finances, and the present situation. Many variables and factors come into play.

Sheeks77 · Answer

I would prefer to go on a date. There's just something about spending time with the person you like. It beats staying in to me

TheDevilCat · Answer

If it's a guy i really like, then go out, but if not... eh

hindril · Answer

Go out. I would rather go on a nice alk and have a picnic.

Anonymous · Answer

I would rather have a date, cause there is more food

Lovethecountry · Answer

It doesn't matter, whatever she wants, and as long as she is comfortable

hellacray · Answer

Go out.

And I'd say a date in the library could be fun. I mean so many different books to make your imagination go wild. And you have to be silent which is excellent.

Yup TV has convinced me it is the best place for a date.

Lance1965 · Answer

Stay in really but I will go out if that is what my date wants.

Likes2drive · Answer

Like to go out until I know them more then it’s nice to stay in sometimes

Decentguy · Answer

stay in probably, but if she really wants to go out, then i'll go out just to make her happy

numerouno85 · Answer

Out for the first few then when you are both more comfortable stay in

Kayokenx3 · Answer

Either one will suit me just fine as long we both feel relaxed.

Pandora91 · Answer

Usually I'd take a woman to the movies, bowling, or we'd go out and see bands

OnitheWanderer · Answer

I would rather go out for a dare than staying home. I'm more of outdoor person rather than a house cat. 😉😉

Hatter3127 · Answer

Stay in, but I do suffer from anxiety and depression

Anonymous · Answer

Variety is the key. I enjoy both indoors watching movies and cooking together as well as going to the movies or a picnic.

Massageman · Answer

I'd like to go out more often, but who can afford it any more?

joebbray1829 · Answer

Oh stay in 100% my perfect date is just listening to music and talking with some good food 😊 possibly going for a walk too at the park

1smooth28 · Answer

I'm too indecisive and would just want what the girl wants

bhavy24 · Answer

Depends on mood but if its first den it will be definitely outdoor

BeMuse · Answer

Both have their own charm...

DrHonesty · Answer

Depends what the brothel offers

Historylover18 · Answer

It depends on how many dates I had been on, and my mood at the time

valualty · Answer

Indoor is nice warm, snuggly and comfortable. Guys appreciates it more

Sarah44444 · Answer

Depending on my mood it could go either way

Kenni · Answer

Both are very pleasant in their own way.

Anonymous · Answer

Women are dangerous. Men don't date them stay clear of them. You men were warned.

rickytim · Answer

I want to do whatever makes her happy

masonoram56 · Answer

Always rather stay in, I don't like people

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I'd definitely rather stay in

Muhammad1999 · Answer

I would show her my cooking skills.

candani · Answer

Both... hehe... Sometimes sometimes in

Cookie8888 · Answer

Go out. I've been staying in for 8 months now.

Alpha2019 · Answer

You and me could Netflix and chill

Philyouup · Answer

Mood would determine that.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Depends on the weather

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