Do guys really want a new mommy in their girlsfriends and does girls really see us guys like children to care for?
https://www.girlschase.com/content/wounded-man-nurturing-woman
Depends on what happened in your life. How's it weakness or unattractive unless you make it that way?
When you come home from work after a long night, imagine coming home to a bath just made, the lights are set just for you and everything's prepared, things are placed down maybe food who knows. Imagine you being the guy that doesn't eat enough he literally forgets to eat the entire day.. Girl just comes up and shoves an apply into your face until you bite it and they walk past.
Now imagine that on a mental/intellectual level. Why not? Depends on the guy, depends on the girl. Multiple ways, multiple hows, and lots of whys that are sorta irrelevant. It's not about them just being maternal towards you, do the same back in fatherly approach. Maybe my personality and experiences is just built for it, but I like brain things. (Except math you can count me in as a caveman sometimes.)
I never said it's weak or unattractive, it's just not me or any of my guy friends that is like that so i'm just asking if this is for real or bullshit? Nothing more im not here to judge just to understand IF any guy wants that, than why?
I'm 14 and hardly go to school so wouldn't know anything about work (that's me joking cause some people can't understand that so i said it just in case) Thing is i'm still living at home so everyting you said is what my mom is doing but if i was an adult i would still love all those things because that's just your girlfriend caring for you my question as in that article was more like if you girlfriend won't let you go out with your boys cause it's to late or she keeps smothering you or calls you 3 times at school to remind you that you might get a cold are you sure she can't bring you a warm jacket.
mental/intellectual level? I'm not saying it's wrong all im saying is it's not me nor any guy friend i know! Therefor im asking why? Well if you love a motherly girlfriend please share your reason? I'm not trying to be mean or rude in any way just to undertand but im east european so my English is not really good, maybe i came off as judgmental or just a missunderstanding. Thank you for responding Sir
Oh dear you took the understanding too much I'm not doing silly talk I promise.
That's what I'm saying though, I never implied you thought that, I'm explaining the idea that it's how it -feels-. I want it because I'm a paragon for romance and love. I'm defined by wanting a functioning family, I want to nurture and be nurtured. You're taking this post way too seriously I'd never just come onto a question and start acting so personal I'm offended LOL.. I mean unless it was a shit topic. Yeah man, I get you! It sounds all relative to me man, when you move on to an actual life why would you live a life without a figure you can lend a hand downwards to, to lift them up above you and they reach down and do the exact same for you?
I don't even think it could actually be debated that much, think of it like this.. How could it even be unnatural? Maybe it depends more on "what kind of ~mom~" they'd be.
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