There will always be men, who are richer than I am and men, who are poorer than I am.
Practically nothing stops women from just getting a new and richer boyfriend or an upgraded man rather than help her boyfriend upgrading him and then upgrade each other.
How do we men win against the female hypergamy?
- You don't
- There is a way to deal with the female hypergamy
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I don't really think you do. You can opt out and focus on yourself and if most guys facing the same problem do a similar thing then in a few years maybe attitudes can change. Just generally having high expectations i. e seeking women that aren't hypergamous -- will keep you on that path and if one out there does happen to come along then maybe you can give her a chance.
I'm in a weird spot where I still of course want a relationship as I always have, however my experiences make me feel as though it's not a realistic thing to want, like it's not something I could ever trust to be sincere from someone at this point. I'm not interested in going to brothel nor hookups with strangers -- maybe friends if the chance presents. But really I think I can only focus on what I've got going on and on the things I can actually trust to make me happy e. g friends, hobbies.
There's a way to beat this so called "hypergamy". It's called finding a real woman. Not a little girl whos in it for the money, not a hoe whos in it for the body.
A real woman who is in it for you.