I’m genderfluid and I don’t if its because of that, but most of the time a guy opens the door or does any of the chivalry stuff I just feel awkward and like I should do it myself/he shouldn’t go through the trouble of doing it.
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Honestly I wouldn't care that much but it would feel good if he did.
This ain't the 1950s bitch pull your own chair its 2019 feminism feminism feminism feminism feminism
If he didn't do that I honestly probably wouldn't even notice.
I would notice if he did pull it out and be impressed, if he didn't I would not even think about it or care. But it gets him cool points if he does
No I personally think that kind of behavior is obsequious and dated and not romantic
No. What do you take me for some of those misogynist pigs?
I wouldn't care if he pulled the chair for me...
I’m genderfluid and I don’t if its because of that, but most of the time a guy opens the door or does any of the chivalry stuff I just feel awkward and like I should do it myself/he shouldn’t go through the trouble of doing it.
I prefer it that way.
Always and would continue to do so.
She got her own Hands
It's a chair you can pull it out yourself.
Personally it wouldn't bother me whatsoever
Nah. No need for this.
If she's handicapped, Yes.
He better pull out that fucking chair
I had women do for me.
no cuz last time I did that the waiter fell
How does that happen? 😂
@15Nightingale51 cuz he was backing up an dint turn till hit the chair
Shoo and that'd be a confirmed second date with me too
It feels nice when im doing it. ☕☕
Don't you guys have arms? Pull the chair yourself.