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Why would a pretty girl be single (not by choice)? (Page 2)
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Often times, the most beautiful people are the ones who are most lonely because other people are wither intimidated to ask them out or they just assume that they don't have a shot and move on. It could also be because of personality but that is usually in the case of if the person can't sustain a relationship not so common as a reason for not being approached...
Wither - either*
A few possibilities:
- she's so attractive that boys think she is out of their league and just don't bother;
- she is too reserved, stuck-up, weird, shy or lacks personality completely;
- she has incredibly high standards ("if he doesn't look like he could be a model and doesn't have a 6 pack, why bother?")
- or simply she is not as attractive to others as she seems to you.
These are just assumptions. I cannot be more specific without knowing her.
One of literally only two reasons, if it truly isn't by choice:
1) She's a stone-cold bitch and no one likes her, no matter how pretty she is, or
2) she isn't actually as attractive/pretty as you're saying she is, or as she thinks she is. As in, she thinks she's attractive, and maybe so do you, but she actually isn't.
That is all.
People assume since a person is pretty they have no problem getting into a relationship. Which is bs what people fail to realize is that most pretty women have to avoid a lot of fuck boy. Most men want them for sex. Also it could be that she’s so pretty it’s intimidating
boys hate rejection and so won't go for girls they imagine to be out of their leage... this means your friend and many other beautiful and pretty women feel just as isolated. as a younger guy i was so pleased i ignored this stupid notion
That makes total sense!
see im the one guy that never gave a shit about 'leagues' so i do know what im on about
I have a very pretty friend also, turns out she's possesive and controlling and guys can't breath without her coming to check what's happening, she looks good and they fall in the trap, soon enough they find her checking messages, sending friend requests to all their female friends, requesting they only hang out with guys and they simply go crazy eventually
She pretty... but i bet maybe she stepped in some dog doo doo on her way to the party thats why they won't ask the girl out if you are really her friend clean her shoe problem solved... your welcome... next.
Also does she wear jewelry on her hands? (most guys won't talk to women they think are in a relationship).
Does she wear pro feminist or pro #metoo apparel? (The cost benefit analysis says don't go within 10ft of women like that, we want to keep our pensions)
She probably acts the way she looks and that will drive guys away, without her realizing it the air about her is don't bother me I'm too good for you.
Well there's a few reasons why your friend could be single she could be antisocial or maybe guys are just intimidated by her or maybe her attitude is bad or maybe she's just not approachable you say everybody looks at her but who actually comes up to her to talk to her that's the question
I guess she is the one who wants to choose a boyfriend. I mean she won't really accept/allow any approach towars her by others. So when she finds someone she likes, she'll give the guy signs until she gets the guy.
At least thats my theory in this case.
Guys don't ask you out based on looks only, most of the time they need to be able to have a conversation with the girl first. If she's intimidatingly beautiful AND shy enough to be closed off, she's probably pretty unapproachable.
They feel intimidated by her. She has not yet met a man who is confident enough to approach her because they probably think it's a waste of time to try and talk to her because they thinks she already taken or won't give them the time of day.
well good luck finding a guy that is serious about commitment if you're pretty. to the girl they all seem the same. they can't see who will stick with her and who will leave after one night. that's the issue when you're pretty as a girl.
They assume she’s already with somebody plus they mat not be confident. Go to places where confident guys are common or focus on getting a career or something else for now & worry about dating later
Maybe they're intimidated by her🤷🏽♀️
I know when I would see a HOT guy, my automatic thought was "forget it; you'd never have a chance with a guy like that"
What if he comes after you?
Honestly, I wouldn't return the pursuit; then I'd worry about every other woman wanting him. And yes, I am unfortunately the jealous type.
Speculative Fact ,,,,,, it might just work out... I mean him ignoring other girls due to your magical prowess in terms of ya personality
Lol. I don't know. Maybe 🙃
No offense, but I’m willing to bet that your issues are due to insecurity.
No guy wants to be with a woman who 1) doesn’t trust him, and 2) doesn’t think she’s deserves or is good enough for him.
#2 is a huge deal. Insecure people cheat the most. If you don’t think you deserve your partner, you will likely become careless and reckless with the relationship.
Lol. I didn’t know I had issues, lol. But thanks Dr. Phil😁
And by the way, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. What I was addressing to this gentleman was simply a hypothetical scenario. I’ve worked out my issues, and I’m grateful that my boyfriend was mentally strong and patient enough to stick around.
It was a general response. You don’t need to take it personal. Many people have had phases of insecurity. No need to act like your being personally attacked.
I know I’m not being attacked. Just stating my facts.
@Texas_born , you've got yours working , so help others feel a little secure with your hipotetikal opinion 😉
Haha. we’ll see
You should never ever think that cause you might just be his type
@bklynbadboy1 🤷🏽♀️
I am not particularly handsome, just fine. Bit when at a party, if I want to hook up with a girl, I always go after the most beautiful girl. If only because no one ever dates to do so. That's probably why your friend is single.
Awww thats so sad, probably like being pretty obviously helps but if she doesn't let ln that she likes a guy, even just a little bit then he's never going to be brave enough to ask her
Lol yes she can its just no one ever bother to avk because they think that she would already be taken.
Some reasons
1. she's crazy
2. because she's pretty good guys are too afraid to approach her, assuming she's out of their league
3. because she's pretty the player type guys are the only ones brave enough to approach her.