Yeah, of course. I feel guilty for hurting his feelings or possibly ruining his day, but at the end of the day if I don’t like him, I’m not forced to like him.
Not particularly, but I always try my best to encourage them to keep trying with other women! It's not that they aren't my type or anything, it's just that I don't care for dating at this time of my life. However that shouldn't stop them for pursuing relationships with others. Many of those who have asked are amazing men. They deserve better than what I would have to offer anyway!
I personally do but it's hard to these days cause some females be fucking disrespectful with it so I just be wanting to have that same don't give a fuck attitude hut that's not me do. Always respectful
So- here is another instance of matching up a white woman with a negro man- as if this is normal. Shame. Could you not find 2 people of the same race to illustrate your question?
no. why? if i didn't love them, then there's nothing for them to be had in a relationship with me anyway. i mean it feels somewhat bad but well what can you do?
For one particular girl who I was the only guy she was going after, it was tough. I'm usually in her position so I know how much it sucks to be rejected by the only option.
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Yes, I still care for that person and we’re still good friends.
Yeah, of course. I feel guilty for hurting his feelings or possibly ruining his day, but at the end of the day if I don’t like him, I’m not forced to like him.
Not particularly, but I always try my best to encourage them to keep trying with other women! It's not that they aren't my type or anything, it's just that I don't care for dating at this time of my life. However that shouldn't stop them for pursuing relationships with others. Many of those who have asked are amazing men. They deserve better than what I would have to offer anyway!
Usually yes but if they don’t take the rejection properly then no
You feel sorry in the moment but should never hold on to that feeling, rejections are a part of life, you can't force someone to like you.
I personally do but it's hard to these days cause some females be fucking disrespectful with it so I just be wanting to have that same don't give a fuck attitude hut that's not me do. Always respectful
Not at all. They wouldn't want to be with a person who doesn't desire them in the first place (I hope).
So- here is another instance of matching up a white woman with a negro man- as if this is normal. Shame. Could you not find 2 people of the same race to illustrate your question?
Not really, I kind of did it for me and them. We wouldn't have worked out. Ir would have been one sided or a disaster either way
I did them a favor tbh
Been in their place multiple times and I know it really sucks for a while but you will be fine after some time realizing it was just not meant to be.
Everyone deserves someone who wants them so it’d be more cruel to say to a person I didn’t want
Yes only because I know I’m sensitive and I know how’d that make me feel.
no. why? if i didn't love them, then there's nothing for them to be had in a relationship with me anyway. i mean it feels somewhat bad but well what can you do?
No, no matter how it affected her I wouldn't feel sorry, that's on her not on me. All in her head and I own her nothing what so ever.
In the past sometimes because of the way it happened. Now with honesty and kindness. A friend if they need assuming it's possible.
No, not really. Better to be honest than carry on with a lie.
Yeah sometimes. It depends why I rejected them. But guys don't have to reject girls very often since girls don't pursue guys hardly ever.
I wish there was someone I even had the opportunity to reject, but alas I’m never asked out. I’m always the one on the far end of the stick though 😒
For one particular girl who I was the only guy she was going after, it was tough. I'm usually in her position so I know how much it sucks to be rejected by the only option.
It depends on the type of person. Some dont take no for answer or get mean about it.