Is having your ex’s nudes saved okay?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating a guy for a year now and recently came across photos and videos of his ex’s on his phone. He recently backed up all his photos and they jumbled up the order which caused a couple of nudes of his ex’s at the front of his camera role. I was sending myself photos from a holiday we recently went on and that’s when I saw them. When I saw them I was a bit shocked and didn’t say anything transferred the photos I wanted and then gave him back his phone. Is it too late to say something? If so what would I even say? I feel uncomfortable about all this but don’t want to come across as the psycho girlfriend. I’m insecure when it come to ex girlfriends and that’s because of my past relationships. He hasn’t given me a reason to feel insecure before this. I just don’t know what to do..

[Maguel]

To him it might be pretty much same thing as watching porn or something. I deleted all my ex's nudes and stuff from my phone when i started dating my current woman just to make sure to avoid these kind of awkward scenarios. My ex was hot af and i wouldn't have minded if i had keot some of the pics i had as fap material. They didn't hold much more implrtance besides that. I wouldn't be worridd about it if i were you. Think of it as if they were random pics of porn he downloaded. If it still bothers you just say it clearly that you are a bit bothered by him having then on his phone and that you don't force him to but would appreciate it if he deleted them. Then it is up to him how much he values keeping you happy compared to his ex's nudes.

[Logorithim]

Not nudes, no. Pics of vacations together, yeah, but not nudes.

[Anonymous]

I still have nudes if my old girlfriend why would i get rid of them they are still hot as fuck even though we aren't dating i can still look at them they are basically porn

[Darkdragon79]

Don't say anything it's his past and I'm sure theirs an good reason he's keeping them.

[lrichl]

Its hard to throw out what you once cherished.