What if there isn't someone for everyone?

[purplepoppy]

We've all heard the tired cliche, there's someone for everyone. But what if there isn't? Do we tell people "I'm sorry but it's highly unlikely there's anyone who would settle for you?" are there really people out there who who everyone would reject?

What if there isn't someone for everyone?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Of course there's not someone out there for everyone!

Sorry to be cynical, but that's just like that "soulmate" nonsense: if there was someone out there for everyone, then why are some people single or alone their entire lives? Or unable to find love, or even someone willing to date them?

And in some cases, some of the ones in relationships or marriages just settle to avoid being alone- who's to say they're completely happy? (Again, this is only some people, not everyone).

My point is, some people will not find their special someone for whatever reason: due to their looks, personality, or just bad luck with dating.

[IceMoon]

The comparison between the soulmate nonsense isn’t quite comparable to the saying “there’s someone for everyone”.
There is obviously not someone out there with your name transcribed in his/her heart, the saying “there’s someone for everyone” implies there is someone out there who will in fact be attracted to you and your qualities and attributes, not necessarily astrological.

“Why are some people single or alone their entire lives?, “Or unable to find love, or even someone willing to date them?”
There is someone for everyone, however that doesn’t mean they will find each-other, there’s 3.7 billion men and women out there, and on average people fall in love 2-4 times in their lifetimes.

[Guardian45]

Yikes!

[IslanderSparkle_Siki]

I'm pretty sure there is someone for me but I keep on rejecting people or I do not open up to them. If it ever happened to me I make sure I'm here for myself that's why I take care of myself, pamper myself, live in the moment and most important be happy

[Anonymous]

I think that is bullshit.
There are so many people out there. You just have to lower your standards if they are too high.
And if yoi feel lonliness.
I reccomend the guys should go to a strip club or a brothel.
There is no grief that a bunch of sexy naked tits and pussy can't take care of😂

[Cammy137]

Chances are that as time goes on and you become more desperate for intimacy and connection, your standards will lower to the point of finding someone you deem "acceptable".
The truth is that soul mates and true love are concept for fairytales and children.

[Guardian45]

Hmm. Plausible.

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe you make your life happen but I think if you are responsible and loyal and not the cheating or using type - and you want to get married - that God will give you a chance and might give you multiple chances. However - sometimes God wants you to struggle a little bit - before He gives you the things you desire or ask for - just because He wants to train us to wrestle against evil impulses within ourselves.

[Apope16]

That someone is a choice. there's no such thing as perfect. You have to work. You have to compromise.

[Browneye57]

There are many potential suitors for an ideal mate. This is why you DATE. You get to know, and gather sufficient knowledge of them to be able to discern whether they're a match or not. Whether they are worthy.

So date. Date a LOT. Just don't have sex with them all. This way you'll gain sufficient experience to actually be able to make a determination.

Work on your attraction traits and social skills. For love cannot start 'till there's attraction, and then there needs to be a conversation.

[purplepoppy]

That's not the question. I'm asking are there people who nobody wants and should they be told to stop looking

[Browneye57]

No. It changes nothing I said.
Don't believe me? Go to your local giant shopping mall and sit on a bench or chair in the middle of it and watch all the people going by, holding hands, laughing and smiling, enjoying each other.
I guarantee you most of them are either not that attractive or down right ugly.
The moral of the story is that you be the very best YOU that YOU can be and when mr. or ms. right comes along you engage them. You TALK and get to know. For you never know when things will click. And they may not even be what or whom you were expecting. Keep your options open.

[Bananaman177]

What if there WAS someone for everyone at first, and we aborted approximately 1.5 billion of them worldwide in the last 60 years?

[Bananaman177]

*excuse me, 40 years. Even worse than I remembered.

[Lance1965]

There is someone for everyone but the chances of finding that person varies person to person due to lifestyle choices and different circumstances. For some the chances are very good, for others the chances are extremely low. There are a lot of great people in this world that are alone and WILL stay alone forever due to the choices they make.

[Guardian45]

Sad and plausible.

[BrexitAteMyHamster]

Even if there is someone for everyone it doesn't mean that you'll meet them. Many people will live and die single, it happens all the time.

[anmari2001]

you can make the choise to believe that there is somebody out there who is for you and this will motivate you to continue your journey
although sometimes i feel it is hopeless, i can't help it but do the best i can to be happy

[Liam_Hayden]

There might be a few here and there who are so outrageously dysfunctional that no one wants them, but for 99.999% of the population, there are people who would make decent partners.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

I think theoretically there really is someone for everyone, but that doesn't mean they all find each other.

[JohnAlaska43]

I think their is someone for everyone. But some people just hive up and choose to be single because of fear of rejection or just make excuses not to date.

[MusicMayhem]

There's plenty of people for someone IF they're prepared to go out and put in effort to developing their confidence, social and flirting skills.

[marc60641]

That’s a good question. I will say this... if someone has a hard time finding his other half, it’s better to be single than in an unhappy relationship

[ecfresh]

Yes, because of free will there are people everyone would object to being with.

[Truthatanycost]

It's not 'what if there isn't'. I guaranteed there isn't. I don't care either way.

[sidvt]

Everyone comes alone to earth while taking birth and leave alone from all in death and no one is permanent in ur life just learn to adjust with situations and live alone

[ITGirl95]

I believe there isn't coz some people end up alone anyway.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Well, considering there is more men then women on this planet, it CAN'T be true

[dwvin]

There are cases in which people dont find anyone. Depends on what you mean someone as like a life partner or just a relationship. And if your intrested consider this a resume

[weirdoweirdo]

There isn't someone for everyone. We've known this for well generations. A lot of people die alone.

[WhoDatGuy]

Are you really getting bent out of shape because you haven't found them by age 19?

[Blue_moonlight]

Then we all belongs to monastery. As far as I'm seeing not a chance to stay single rest of ur life.

[goalash]

Well lve been single now for years and a lot more happy so lm happy on my own

[ItsTheNephilim]

They end up dying alone.

[MackToday]

Then some of us just find other ways to live.

[ceales]

That s a high possibility imho.