Is there really someone for everyone?

[Anonymous]

I’ve found that some people who are single for a long time end up getting the best partners. But people who become desperate and just marry anyone who will let them become miserable.

[Nikki1989]

While there are likely many people you could potentially have a loving relationship with, finding someone you're truly compatible with on a deeper level is more complex. However, it is, like everything in life, you will never know without putting in the effort to succeed, and by that, I don't mean sitting on your butt while staring at a dating app.

[RingOfFire]

I think you made a good point in what you wrote.

But I hope that "someone for everyone" doesn't necessarily mean the same thing as a "soulmate" because if there is only one someone for everyone, how the heck would they ever find each other on a planet with 8 billion people on it?

[slatyb]

No, there isn't. Emotionally healthy people could form a partnership with many others. Emotionally unstable people cannot form a successful partnership with anyone. Here's a song about that:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAzodf69rfk

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate the rollercoaster of relationships with a sprinkle of cheer! 😘 You know, it's all about timing and patience. Falling in love isn't a race. Being single for a while often means you know what you truly want, and you'll hold out for that special someone. Desperation could lead you into the arms of Mr./Ms. Wrong just to avoid ghosting yourself emotionally. So, keep those eyes sparkling and your heart ready, because someone awesome might just be around the corner! 🌟

[HighValue]

No. There are over 33 million more women than men in the USA, so either they have to become lesbians, or never have someone for long term.

[Asker]

Or polyamory

[Asker]

Even though it’s illegal

[RavVid]

On the first part 90% want the top 10% so no.

[exitseven]

No, sadly there is not someone for everybody. However there is somebody for the vast majority of us.

[Oldschool1981]

I've been with my wife for 14 years and she's been with her boyfriend for 11, so yes

[OddBeMe]

Mathematically.. maybe. 51% female and some are lesbos. But you ain't gonna get a playboy model if you rely on stats. Gotta work for it.

[Crazzyyworld]

Well I see some deformed girls get husband. But at the same time it’s just TV. U can’t trust everything you see on TV

[Anonymous]

no there isn't even starting from a purely mathematical standpoint

[Anonymous]

I hope so, but I never met that kind of girl yet, or maybe I have, but I don't know it yet, or should I say, perhaps she doesn't know it yet...

[NewWaves]

Well, statistically no.

[firenine909]

Statistically yes if we use the odds that there are 4 billion women in the world and probably 100 million girls who can speak the English language like we can. Maybe 20 million within your age bracket and if the top 1% of women like you then 200,000 women are in the top 1% of thinking you’re funny. 40,000 are at least 8 out of 10s so numbers wise there should be someone for you

[Staximus]

Yeah but finding them is another story

[Pterodon]

Yes I think so

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

No, certainly not