True or false. Relationships are not WORTH it in 2019?

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Dark93 · Accepted Answer

Relationships are worth it once people grow past the "have endless fun and hookup with strangers" phase. I've always been much more mature than my generation and it's been painfully lonely waiting for my generation to grow the fuck up.

clampfan101 · Accepted Answer

Relationships will always be worth as much as the effort you’re willing to put into it.

Moonchild714 · Accepted Answer

I love Relatiinships they can be so much fun learn from every single one. If I say I'm done with Relationships thwn what I'm saying is I'm giving up learning more truths about myself!!

StingRayxoxo · Accepted Answer

False. MOST relationships aren't worth it.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Eh... that depends on your perspective coach.

Personally I don't think they are: it's more of a headache trying to find someone nowadays, especially people looking for monogamous, long term relationships. You have to dig through a lot of crap to find a diamond... if you're lucky.

But if you're patient, persistent, a diehard romantic, one of those people that feel like they need a relationship to be happy, or lucky when it comes to dating? I guess for them a relationship is worth it.

Logorithim · Answer

One with someone compatible is definitely worth it.

Wishfire17 · Answer

A relationship is always worth it over a one night stand, if both people want it and put in the work. A relationship means you can have someone to snuggle up with at night, it means that you always have a best friend to do things with, it means that you can love and be loved. A lot of people who want a relationship though are having a hard time finding an appropriate person in a world where no one knows their own gender, their roles or what is ok. If they found the right person, my guess is, 100% they would choose relationship. It can just be very hard to find.

KaliMe · Answer

Relationships are totally worth it if you find the right person or persons. You always have to remember that it is given take. Take it from a guy who's been in a relationship for 30 years and puts his girl on a pedestal even though there are some days I get frustrated with her. However, I do know that with out her I would have been lost many years ago. In addition, if you can have multiple relationships without jealousy then you always have someone you can turn to even when upset at the other person. Sometimes that person can help you work out the issues that you have what the person you're upset with. However, it is best to keep in mind the most time what made you upset also makes them upset. If you don't think a relationship is worth it then try and picture being in your sixties or seventies, alone, disabled and with no one to turn to or or tell you that they love you when you're at your lowest.

Klara-Hitler · Answer

We've just returned from a vacation with a few other young couples a day ago. It was pretty amazing and we had a blast.

From my experience:

1. Have a job
2. Be a bit old fashioned
3. Don't date feminists
4. Have at least half a brain

And it works.

UnknownReflection · Answer

Relationships always worth it when they are based on the right values and built upon internal connections. A relationship worth it when there is true love. When there is spiritual internal connection beyond physicality. A true honest and innocent bond felt by the hearts not the bodies.

People rush relationships, force relationships, they pick relationships and build their relations based on sexuality, materialistic and superficial values. Those kind of relationships never worth it and rarely works. There is no surprise why so many relationships fails nowadays.

It definitely worth it when you do it the right way and not become victimized of your own impatience and mistakes.

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Answer

It depends on the ages of couples.
It depends on the depth of connection between 2 people.
It isn't related to time/year at all.
It relates to sincerity and intention of those people.
If both are clear they only want things casual, that'd be fine. (Not me)
If both agree to settle down, and build a family together, it's worthy. Especially, when there is a child.
If a man still wants to have more and more women, he doesn't deserve a relationship, as well as women.
Well, so being casual shouldn't be called a relationship then?

SkipStop · Answer

If you're a man, true. Better to be on the safe side. We are seeing a drop in birth rates, sexual activity, marriage and relationships. So yeah. Just follow the trend and stay out of relationships. Stick with the bro's instead of the hoe's.

NightFlirt · Answer

Every relationship is different. Some are not worth investing more than 15 minutes in and others are so amazing that a dozen lifetimes would never be enough. A large part of dating is sorting through the pieces of crystal before finding that rare diamond.

JudgmentDay · Answer

I gave up long time ago and long have stopped looking as I find it completely pointless either way, thus in my case, it's true. Can't say the same for everyone else though.

UnicornLobotomy · Answer

It depends on one's definition of "dating" is. By most people's definition of the word, yes. Its a waste and full of drama and stress, I'm not lowering my standards but that means high mileage and their ability to truly bond when they are around my age has seriously diminished, and honestly I think my ability to bond has dropped as well.

Passinggas · Answer

TRUE I don't think so but I wish those that try well. The social fabric is torn and rotten while the individual is self-absorbed beyond compatibility. Personally, I simply no longer have interest in an LTR, marriage, or family. I am not even concerned about continuing this mutated species any further. I am so into my interests and career that I think those will keep me occupied to keep my mind out of the relationship gutter.

cassthemotions · Answer

they are worth it if you're in it with the right person, who YOU generally care about (and vice versa) and would make compromises to love.
I've been in relationships where we are together so that we feel better about ourselves. If you're in it for yourself, instead of for the other person, you're in it for the wrong reason.

MrMilti · Answer

False.

In my opinion, people are lusting for intense endorphine kicks all the time, leaving them in a constant shift of ecstatic highs and depressing lows.

Within a deep relationship, your highs may not be as high, but the lows are certainly not as low, keeping yourself in a permanently satisfied situation and a happy life.

Factshurt90 · Answer

Meh... I know a few happy couples. For me? What I want is asking too much I guess🤷🏾‍♀️ so I quit for now

TheFlak38 · Answer

True. Too much drama, too much time and money waste, too many risks for no gain. Relationships have become an unhealthy, miserable waste of time and money.

tartaarsaus · Answer

No experience with relationships myself, but from what I hear from people in relationships, a loving relationship can be the best part of their life. Something that makes it worth it to get up every day, something that makes them feel loved, happy, and boosts their image of themselves.

Naturally, once again from what I hear, there are significant risks involved and problems may arise, but apparently, a loving relationship can definitely be worth it for a lot of people.

Hurlyburly · Answer

My relationship is really valuable to me. I do not know what the year got to do with it though.

No_Archons · Answer

I really wish it was worth it... cause it would be nice for my heart n soul n shit. Unfortunately, it really doesn't appear to be worth it; there is not a single one of my friend's relationships that I envy for anything other than the sex, and I would not be willing to give those pretend fucks just to get laid, I can't lie to a girl to bed her...

Cammy137 · Answer

Im in a very happy and healthy relationship. So id say its false.

LegendarySir · Answer

False. Too many narcissistics nowadays believing they're too good to be in a relationship, because everyone else sucks. A relationship with the right person is always worth it.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

Katebfun · Answer

Are relationships worth it any time. I do not have it in me to meet another liar, cheat, narcissistic loser who brings me to the depths of hell again. Hell no I'd rather remain single and wait till I attract a worthy man that knows my value.

asd_nasa · Answer

Dude wtf is wrong with you, what brings you to ask this question, is this a joke or are you just stupid?

MissDawn7961 · Answer

relationships are worth it as long as the man and woman in it have the time for the relationship and are mature enough to have one with out a bunch of sex involved ! thanks

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Relationships are great. Living together is dangerous. Marriage can be catastrophic.

DanishSaint · Answer

If that was true, why not just start laying down and die already? That sounds to me like the world definitively is lost and humans are doomed (which we are, but not just extinguished yet though :))

Just_a_human · Answer

I think for some people, there just aren't enough benefits when you consider how much work it takes, so it's true I guess

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Inconclusive. In my experience, it's not worth even trying for one. Simples...

Billie_ · Answer

Everyone needs a little love in their life

Ogopogo · Answer

Regular unprotected intercourse is so good for you that even a really shitty relationship is worth it.

VaIiant · Answer

False. Many relationships aren't worth it- the good ones are. Wouldn't trade my partner for anything, and its 2019.

someginger · Answer

Well of course they are! I can't think of any differences between having a relationship now Vs 10 years ago

lernulo · Answer

Oh, excuse me, things are difficult these times with relations, I'm going to go to a corner and start to cry...
Things are worse but, why are we gonna chose the bad end, just because the good one is more difficult?

Lawschoolgossips · Answer

I don’t get the urge that people feel to get into a relationship. I’m happy to be single. I have more me-time and time to chase my dreams. I don’t want to take care of a husband or kids. I prefer spending my time on myself.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Relationships with selfish and self centered people who want no commitment are not worth it. A lot of people now just want everything while giving nothing.

buttcrackjoe · Answer

Maybe in your prime is pays to shop around but as the clock starts ticking time to lock one down. Assuming you dont want to die alone (some dont care).

Snakeyes7 · Answer

It’s hard to say. It seems to me that the number of people who don’t possess datable qualities are diminishing very quickly. It’s only worth it if God smiles upon you and actually gives you a partner who will forever have your best interest in mind.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as people continue to live through the ego and its endless desires, relationships will continue to be worthless.

mattl338 · Answer

Worth it? No. Valuable for character development? Yes.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Hey it might not have worked the first 8 times this year. I’ll just pick myself back up again 😌

Anonymous · Answer

Why would they not be worth it? As long as you’re with a person that you love and they love you, relationships are great.  And if they are not worth it, it’s got nothing to do with the year.

CubsterShura · Answer

Relationships have already been worth it. People's priorities have changed now.

MemeSupreme · Answer

They're worth it but when you're ready to get into one and the same for the other person.

SlimeC0RE · Answer

Thing is, it’s kinda up to you to make it worth it, like in any other aspect of life.

Wvguy · Answer

I think a relationship is always worth it. If it fails, you learn about yourself. If it thrives, you are happier and in better health.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

False , unless you take a chance you won't know if a relationship would be worth taking a chance on in 2019.

GhostMochi · Answer

I think they are if both the people in it genuinely care about one another and want to work towards things.

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Depends what you want coach. I would say false, if you want to give a woman babies.

MzAsh · Answer

They are but only if you are high value and know what you’re doing.

Twenty2 · Answer

False. Relationship are always worth it. But the number of assholes have increased so it's harder to find a relationship that's actually a relationship and not just a long term booty call.

Only_Ozzie · Answer

That doesn’t make sense to me. Every era has its pros and cons. If you honestly think that something so trivial like relationships isn’t worth pursuing based on social climate, you are one lazy individual.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Definitely not worth it but I still hope to fall in love with my crush (and him with me) lmao xD

blkhermano · Answer

Relationships are worth it as long as you're not shallow and actually know what commitment means

Samhanks · Answer

Relationships are to be developed and maintained. . One cannot evaluate their worth with every passing year, Be Good, Do Good, If you cannot help anyone at least do not harm ! This advice is timeless.

iFarted · Answer

False, a relationship with the right person is always going to be worth it. It's worth more than almost everything.

lucidhope · Answer

They are definitely worth it. If they weren’t what’s the point in even trying in mine

Sweatyotterr · Answer

I think people should just focus on themselves so I voted true

RedThread · Answer

It depends on the people involved and what they want. I don't really desire one right now.

Jaysonava · Answer

They are very annoying so you just gotta be SOOOOO selective.

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