Relationships are worth it once people grow past the "have endless fun and hookup with strangers" phase. I've always been much more mature than my generation and it's been painfully lonely waiting for my generation to grow the fuck up.
I hear ya, sir
That's why I kind of agree with JLO when she said "Men under 33 are useless." It's because they still enjoy exploring the world and not want to settle down. Hmmm... I think I came up with a new question.
Relationships will always be worth as much as the effort you’re willing to put into it.
I love Relatiinships they can be so much fun learn from every single one. If I say I'm done with Relationships thwn what I'm saying is I'm giving up learning more truths about myself!!
coachTanthony, thank you for the MHO.
False. MOST relationships aren't worth it.
But some are really really valuable.
Agree. Most people are completely worthless and just want someone to give up on life with them. Sit home depressed and eat potato chips and watch netflix and have crappy sex and live in a dirty apartment together forever. Count me out.
@bamesjond0069 LMFAO that was funny.
@fulfilling his telling the truth. Nothing matters to most people cause they have been given everything there whole life is not talking about rich. Talking about welfare family who has generations of this thought why should I work when the government will pay for my house my life my food. So instead of helping it only hurts people make them more selfish defeats who have no motivation to work. I know i know there are those that (need ). But the program was meant to help those that fell on hard times not have generation after generation depend on it.
Thanks for the MHO
Have an opinion?
One with someone compatible is definitely worth it.
A relationship is always worth it over a one night stand, if both people want it and put in the work. A relationship means you can have someone to snuggle up with at night, it means that you always have a best friend to do things with, it means that you can love and be loved. A lot of people who want a relationship though are having a hard time finding an appropriate person in a world where no one knows their own gender, their roles or what is ok. If they found the right person, my guess is, 100% they would choose relationship. It can just be very hard to find.
What she said!! Our culture is messed up... built on a foundation of? And need I wonder... was it intentionally trashed? Other cultures... Indians, Jewish, etc.. they are still productive and growing, they wouldn't ask your question. But the rest of us, it's a valid question. Scary.
Relationships are totally worth it if you find the right person or persons. You always have to remember that it is given take. Take it from a guy who's been in a relationship for 30 years and puts his girl on a pedestal even though there are some days I get frustrated with her. However, I do know that with out her I would have been lost many years ago. In addition, if you can have multiple relationships without jealousy then you always have someone you can turn to even when upset at the other person. Sometimes that person can help you work out the issues that you have what the person you're upset with. However, it is best to keep in mind the most time what made you upset also makes them upset. If you don't think a relationship is worth it then try and picture being in your sixties or seventies, alone, disabled and with no one to turn to or or tell you that they love you when you're at your lowest.
Eh... that depends on your perspective coach. Personally I don't think they are: it's more of a headache trying to find someone nowadays, especially people looking for monogamous, long term relationships. You have to dig through a lot of crap to find a diamond... if you're lucky. But if you're patient, persistent, a diehard romantic, one of those people that feel like they need a relationship to be happy, or lucky when it comes to dating? I guess for them a relationship is worth it.
Honesty is the best policy. I like it!
It depends on the ages of couples. It depends on the depth of connection between 2 people. It isn't related to time/year at all.It relates to sincerity and intention of those people.If both are clear they only want things casual, that'd be fine. (Not me)If both agree to settle down, and build a family together, it's worthy. Especially, when there is a child.If a man still wants to have more and more women, he doesn't deserve a relationship, as well as women.Well, so being casual shouldn't be called a relationship then?
Relationships always worth it when they are based on the right values and built upon internal connections. A relationship worth it when there is true love. When there is spiritual internal connection beyond physicality. A true honest and innocent bond felt by the hearts not the bodies. People rush relationships, force relationships, they pick relationships and build their relations based on sexuality, materialistic and superficial values. Those kind of relationships never worth it and rarely works. There is no surprise why so many relationships fails nowadays. It definitely worth it when you do it the right way and not become victimized of your own impatience and mistakes.
We've just returned from a vacation with a few other young couples a day ago. It was pretty amazing and we had a blast. From my experience: 1. Have a job 2. Be a bit old fashioned 3. Don't date feminists 4. Have at least half a brain And it works.
Your right but what do you mean by be a bit old fashioned?
5. Flee to the east (get away from the west coast)
@No_Archons lol I’m not near either coast.
@Champ78 lucky you
@Champ78 Being more conservative. Believing in the role of women and men as mothers and fathers. Rejecting the meaningless contemporary culture in the west that reduces both sexes to mere money making machines and their relationships to meaningless and fruitless lust.
Ah okay that makes sense. I’d much rather date a woman that I think could be a good mother rather than a girl who wants money and attention, although I think a lot of girls only want attention from a guy.
@Champ78 Giving each other positive attention is a part of a relationship. It becomes toxic when there's nothing else to moderate it and/or it becomes the center of gravity in your relationship. But yeah. I agree.
It depends on one's definition of "dating" is. By most people's definition of the word, yes. Its a waste and full of drama and stress, I'm not lowering my standards but that means high mileage and their ability to truly bond when they are around my age has seriously diminished, and honestly I think my ability to bond has dropped as well.
If you're a man, true. Better to be on the safe side. We are seeing a drop in birth rates, sexual activity, marriage and relationships. So yeah. Just follow the trend and stay out of relationships. Stick with the bro's instead of the hoe's.
Just follow the trend? Way to be your own man!
I am my own man. I'm not gonna put myself on the "Available" list if no one else is.
Again... congrats! LOL
😡 Quit it. It's my life.
It's all good! You do you boo!
they are worth it if you're in it with the right person, who YOU generally care about (and vice versa) and would make compromises to love. I've been in relationships where we are together so that we feel better about ourselves. If you're in it for yourself, instead of for the other person, you're in it for the wrong reason.
False.In my opinion, people are lusting for intense endorphine kicks all the time, leaving them in a constant shift of ecstatic highs and depressing lows.Within a deep relationship, your highs may not be as high, but the lows are certainly not as low, keeping yourself in a permanently satisfied situation and a happy life.
No experience with relationships myself, but from what I hear from people in relationships, a loving relationship can be the best part of their life. Something that makes it worth it to get up every day, something that makes them feel loved, happy, and boosts their image of themselves. Naturally, once again from what I hear, there are significant risks involved and problems may arise, but apparently, a loving relationship can definitely be worth it for a lot of people.
I really wish it was worth it... cause it would be nice for my heart n soul n shit. Unfortunately, it really doesn't appear to be worth it; there is not a single one of my friend's relationships that I envy for anything other than the sex, and I would not be willing to give those pretend fucks just to get laid, I can't lie to a girl to bed her...
relationships are worth it as long as the man and woman in it have the time for the relationship and are mature enough to have one with out a bunch of sex involved ! thanks
Every relationship is different. Some are not worth investing more than 15 minutes in and others are so amazing that a dozen lifetimes would never be enough. A large part of dating is sorting through the pieces of crystal before finding that rare diamond.
Are relationships worth it any time. I do not have it in me to meet another liar, cheat, narcissistic loser who brings me to the depths of hell again. Hell no I'd rather remain single and wait till I attract a worthy man that knows my value.
Regular unprotected intercourse is so good for you that even a really shitty relationship is worth it.
What if a kid is produced? What if she crazy (and any girl willing to give up her future to be my cum rag for a few years is crazy) and she fucks my life up? I mean I know the physical health benefits in the moment, and the mood benefits are amazing, it's made me wonder if it would be worth it... but I still can't justify that shit.
@No_Archons People who aren't toxic and crazy can have a shitty relationship. Obviously no health benefits are worth dealing with toxicity, abuse, or a partner who is straight up burdensome or a vampire. Likewise if you're the crazy one or are just a waste of time. That's not the quality of the relationship we're talking about anymore. That's the quality of the individuals in it.
lol dude that's the dumbest justification I've ever heard'It's not the quality of the relationship, it's the quality of the individuals in it'... what is the relationship if not the individuals in it?
@No_Archons Have you never known two good people who had a shitty relationship together? It's fairly common.
Depends on ur definition of good. If they were really good they'd break up instead of selfishly staying together
I gave up long time ago and long have stopped looking as I find it completely pointless either way, thus in my case, it's true. Can't say the same for everyone else though.
TRUE I don't think so but I wish those that try well. The social fabric is torn and rotten while the individual is self-absorbed beyond compatibility. Personally, I simply no longer have interest in an LTR, marriage, or family. I am not even concerned about continuing this mutated species any further. I am so into my interests and career that I think those will keep me occupied to keep my mind out of the relationship gutter.
Oh, excuse me, things are difficult these times with relations, I'm going to go to a corner and start to cry...Things are worse but, why are we gonna chose the bad end, just because the good one is more difficult?
It’s hard to say. It seems to me that the number of people who don’t possess datable qualities are diminishing very quickly. It’s only worth it if God smiles upon you and actually gives you a partner who will forever have your best interest in mind.
Hey it might not have worked the first 8 times this year. I’ll just pick myself back up again 😌
True. Too much drama, too much time and money waste, too many risks for no gain. Relationships have become an unhealthy, miserable waste of time and money.
Maybe in your prime is pays to shop around but as the clock starts ticking time to lock one down. Assuming you dont want to die alone (some dont care).
False. Too many narcissistics nowadays believing they're too good to be in a relationship, because everyone else sucks.A relationship with the right person is always worth it.
Relationships with selfish and self centered people who want no commitment are not worth it. A lot of people now just want everything while giving nothing.
My relationship is really valuable to me. I do not know what the year got to do with it though.
Thing is, it’s kinda up to you to make it worth it, like in any other aspect of life.
Meh... I know a few happy couples. For me? What I want is asking too much I guess🤷🏾♀️ so I quit for now
I am in a GREAT relationship
Well that gives me hope😊 hell someone out here is happy
Depends what you want coach.I would say false, if you want to give a woman babies.
Didn't you say men should give woman babies? They are satanic if they don't?
Yes, its what we are supposed to do. I said having sterile sex is satanic, i. e. using contraceptives. Because you are taking something fertile and making it sterile. Its an inversion of the natural order.I have had plenty of sterile sex, but no longer! the next woman who gets in bed with me better be ready because i ain't pulling out haha
LOL just making sure!
Well of course they are! I can't think of any differences between having a relationship now Vs 10 years ago
Im in a very happy and healthy relationship. So id say its false.
Relationships are to be developed and maintained. . One cannot evaluate their worth with every passing year, Be Good, Do Good, If you cannot help anyone at least do not harm ! This advice is timeless.
They're worth it but when you're ready to get into one and the same for the other person.
I hitted the B option so hard!Of course they are! One just needs to find the right person.
Girls go for bad boys , men go fo MGTOW , dating apps made casual sex easier to girls... young people both girls and guys just want to have fun then search for good partner after 30. how will relationships work?
False , unless you take a chance you won't know if a relationship would beworth taking a chance on in 2019.
I think they are if both the people in it genuinely care about one another and want to work towards things.
They are very annoying so you just gotta be SOOOOO selective.
Definitely not worth it but I still hope to fall in love with my crush (and him with me) lmao xD
BAD relationships are never worth it, no matter what year it is, while good ones always are !!
Dude wtf is wrong with you, what brings you to ask this question, is this a joke or are you just stupid?
Hey hey don’t be a filthy troll. Be nice.
Ok fine. Let me rephrase; are you seeking attention with this post, or are you joking, or are you genuinely concerned about dating in modern America?
I seek attention with all my posts ! I am a dating coach that’s what I do... I get people to discuss things.
False, a relationship with the right person is always going to be worth it. It's worth more than almost everything.
Relationships are great. Living together is dangerous. Marriage can be catastrophic.
It depends on the people involved and what they want. I don't really desire one right now.
Everyone who pressed true must be desperate and dumb
Relationships are work yes but matrimony is the destroyer of relationships
100% false. Only online are these weirdo saying that.
I think people should just focus on themselves so I voted true
If that was true, why not just start laying down and die already? That sounds to me like the world definitively is lost and humans are doomed (which we are, but not just extinguished yet though :))
Inconclusive. In my experience, it's not worth even trying for one.Simples...
Everyone needs a little love in their life
Yes they do!
And that love is called single life. I mean who wants be a fucking slave to one of your friends
Because everybody hates themselves slices of Hope for the future
I think it all depends on the person you’re in a relationship with
l am still looking to date a nice girl l won't ever give up
I think for some people, there just aren't enough benefits when you consider how much work it takes, so it's true I guess
False. Relationship are always worth it. But the number of assholes have increased so it's harder to find a relationship that's actually a relationship and not just a long term booty call.
Considering how women behave in relationships, they are not worth it.
That doesn’t make sense to me. Every era has its pros and cons. If you honestly think that something so trivial like relationships isn’t worth pursuing based on social climate, you are one lazy individual.
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