What’s so bad about being a gold digger? (Page 4)
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Well, here;s another perspective. Perhaps money is more than just body parts specifically designed to help bring yet another human into the world. Perhaps money takes more work than just letting a stick be rammed into you multiple times you every so often. Or not. I mean, gosh, think about all that shopping that must be done and surgeries too in order to keep up the looks for said ramming to continue! Way harder than say, getting shot in the leg in Iraq, getting the bar exam passed, or working to bild the next 1000 ft building with a few weak strings attached so at least the fall chance is only 85%. (better than 90% as in *insert country here* trust me). Nah, WAY more work gto have said stick ram into ya for an hour. Deserves way more cred, plus, fewf! That shopping spree is SUCH a workout! SOOO hard and the chaffeur wasn't even available until after lunch at La Madeline's! Can you imagine? Ugh men just don't get it!
A man's attraction is on a woman and a woman isn't something material or a material object. He puts his value in her not some thing. Where as a woman putting her attraction in material things is her putting her attraction in material things. This is why women should stay away from feminazism indoctrination propaganda IE Marxism.
I think its normal to find wealth and the things it provides appealing but ti my knowledge "gold digger" usually refers to when you are with someone purely for those benefits and nothing else, which. Addressing your point, is just as unhealthy as dating someone purely because you find them attractive. Neither circumstance will end well.
Gold diggers are women who like men ONLY because of their wealth. It's fine to want a man who's financially stable. It's not fine to want a man just because they have money
If you had anything else to offer besides the size of your ass then maybe men wouldst be "hottie diggers". Moreover, a man can show the same love and affection to a woman that is inferior to other women in terms of looks. While a gold digger wants to have it all and is never satisfied. She will always go for someone different, special with more money.
The reason people malign it (men and women alike) is because money is an inanimate object that is completely separate from the person himself. Physical beauty is not. Physical beauty is part of our humanity, our body, our physical presence in the world. A woman's body is an integral part of who she is. Money is not. Dating someone for money tells the world that you don't really care about his personal qualities. It's unnatural.
So when a woman gets in an accident and becomes deformed, she's no longer herself anymore?
@mistixs I didn't say a person's body *is* the person, I said it's *part of* the person, an integral part, even. Do girls separate the physical from the emotional when they reject fat or short guys? No. The reason is that the physical is part of who we are. Wealth is largely external. It can change our lifestyle, but it cannot fundamentally change who a person is.
Thank you!!!
That's what I think, too. And it was confirmed in Josette Sona's free ebook: "Woman to Women" so it's not just us thinking like this. :)
I used to have a woman as a customer, probs early 30's, husband early - mid 70's. Had the ugliest children imaginable think she just wanted to fuck the old boy to death to inherit his milions, just sayin', it happens.
Because the amount of wealth a person has can easily change, while a person attractiveness does not.
Sure there's ageing, but people don't just get old and wrinkle overnight -unlike wealth where a people can become a billionaire overnight or lose it all.
You know, at least with guys getting with a hot woman the looks are going to last a while, unlike his wealth which is down to luck -I mean, unemployment, fraud, theft, yeah, it can change real quick.
Appreciating beauty and whoring for money are two different things entirely.
A person IS beautiful. That's who they are but a person HAS money it's something they have that you want to use them for or take from them.
This is not a double standard.
You can be as shallow as you want to be it okay as long as your loyal
You can dig his money💰or anyone's money but if you scam him for it then your wrong like if you marry him for certain year you take crap load of amounts from him which is not right fully yours
I'm not necessarily interested in the size of a woman's breasts/butt (both men and women look at the physical health or lack thereof of the people they might end up dating). In almost every case, women marry up for social status (e. g., Meghan Merkel) when it is far less prevalent men marrying women of a higher social class. This is how I see it anyway. To advocate for "equal pay for equal work" is to end the double standards favoring women.
Men work hard for 20 and 30 years to save up for retirement or to start a company for some little bitch to drain his bank account by pretending to be in love with him. In Latin America a LOT of women are ending up dead for gold digging. I'd suggest against it. It's not a double standard and has nothing in comparison to men dating hot women. So what? We like good looking women. What's so bad about that?
Most men want to date but don't date hot womens
@Emily2375 We don't date hot women for many reasons. Maybe the guy isn't that good looking or he's boring or he's BROKE and so hot women dont want him. Maybe he can't deal with the arrogance of hot women so he goes for the cute girls.
Hot women means good looking women cute girl's included most guy's try but get rejected
That's a bad comparison.
Going after looks is a natural occurrence, going after someone's wealth is just sad.
Men don't solely decide who to go after for the size of their butt, that is a ridiculous statement.
But I get it, women like you are not too smart.
The comparison is going after a woman for her looks and only her looks even if she's a terrible person just to show her off but you don't really like her as a person or care about her as a person. That's no different than using a guy for his money and not caring about him at all. So it's okay to use a woman for her vagina but not a man for his wallet? Lol, okay.
@Shuri It would be the same if a woman uses a man for his dick.
If all you look for in a man is money, you can find yourself a woman that gives you money, you can become a prostitute, you could get a job, you could start robbing people.
Or you could find an old, desperate rich guy who will give you free money, if that's the kind of a relationship or life you want then go for it.
Why do you want a man for money?
If you're actually attracted to men and want a relationship with one, then it makes sense to be with a man and get into relationship with a man.
@ThisGuyDucks You went off on a tangent that's not relevant. My point is that wanting someone and using them for their money isn't any different than wanting and using a woman for her body. I actually think using women for their body is much more violating.
@Shuri No, it is different. Like I said it would be the same if a woman wanted a man for his looks.
And neither is worse.
If you're a woman and all you want in a man is his money, then go for it.
But remember as soon as your looks fade ( stretch marks, cellulite, fat, saggy boobs, wrinkles ) you'll be replaced by attractive younger women.
Nothing wrong with it, you like what you like.
Similarly, if a woman wants an actual loving relationship with a man, that's best too.
@ThisGuyDucks It is not different and nothing you listed made it any different.
@Shuri it is literally different, one wants cash, one wants pussy.
If all you want is cash, why do you man to come with it?
It is different because you as a woman can get your own cash by getting a job, a man can not create pussy out of thin air.
Are women really this fucking retarded?
@ThisGuyDucks It's not different lol. No need to get your thong in a twist just because you're wrong.
@Shuri I mean you're 30 years old so I understand, love is not in the books for you.
If i were you i'd also be looking to settle down with someone rich.
Good luck.
@ThisGuyDucks I'm actually an heiress to a multi million dollar estate so I don't need to marry rich lol. That's what happens when daddy pays for everything.
I'm also 29, but nice try. I like that you literally have no arguments left though that the only thing you can resort to are arbitrary ad hominems.
Besides, everyone woman from my generation in my family got married when they were in their 30's, including my own sister.
@Shuri Lol if you were that rich, you would be flying around the world in your private jet partying 24/7, not being a 30 year old woman wasting time on a site called 'girlsaskguys'.
And no, i already presented my arguments and reasoning and all you responded with "tHeYrE tHe SaMe", just that, no arguments in return.
And I can assure you, a rich attractive guy would never in a million years go for a 30 year old woman, they replace and date women less than 25, just look at Leo DiCap.
@ThisGuyDucks So, again, 29.
I also said heiress (a woman who is legally entitled to the property or rank of another on that person's death), and I also said my dad is paying for everything indicating he's still alive. He has to die first for me to get it. I didn't say I was rich. My dad is, which is why he pays for everything, including my entire college education out of pocket. That's how inheritance works, but I guess if your family has nothing to pass down to you then you wouldn't understand that.
I already explained why your arguments don't make any sense in my initial response to name_is_eric. I'm not going to repeat myself just because you have the comprehension skills of a 4th grader and are too lazy to go back read for yourself. That's your problem lol.
@Shuri So you fuck your dad, and when he's dead you'll find a rich old guy and fuck him, so he gives you his money?
That's what you're saying?
Nah. Going for wealth or beauty are both shallow. Equally shallow. Looks and wealth are both temporary things and don't define a person.
But you have to find them physically attractive. So going after looks is natural.
Going after material objects, money, is not
How is it hard to comprehend?
Me: “I’m an heiress.”
Name_is_eric: “So you sleep with your dad for money?”
Do you see now that I have it side by side how stupid you sound? That comment didn’t even make sense. In order to be a smart ass, you first have to, you know, be smart.
Going after money is also natural, it is natural to find the top hierarchy desirable. It is natural to desire security, power and luxury which is all that money can afford. But for the species that we are, it is very unnatueal and ironic to be the most intelligent species on earth and not understand that there are things on earth that matter more than looks and money.
@Shuri
When did I say that? You're mixing two people.
You’re right, my bad. Sorry Eric.
@CubsterSarah
You don't seek security by going after someone's money, on a sole basis. You're mixing the feeling of security (physical), and economic gains.
Sure you'd want to have a stable family, but golddiggers don't have a family with the man. They only want his money, and the benefits of it all. New shoes, fast cars, etc.
What would a man gain for going after a beautiful woman? Companionship.
@Shuri It's all good, it happens.
This app is messing up my replies 😂
@CubsterShura Going after money, but why?
You can earn your own money, you can secure yourself.
Why must it come from a man?
Why do you only value money in a man? Why not value money in women? After all you're not interested in the man and neither are you attracted to him, you're only attracted to his money, why can't you be attracted to a woman's money?
Do you see how you make no sense?
You either want a man or you want money.
@ThisGuyDucks not every woman believes that they have a financial obligation. And remember that in other parts of the world where dating isn't a thing but arranged marriages are, even the bride's parents reject any guy that doesn't earn a lot. My mom even beat my sister because she wanted to marry a guy that wasn't rich enough for their liking. So what can you do about parents and society itself convincing young girls that a rich husband is the best one?
I don't what there is to actually call it other then a Gold Digger if you're with someone because of their money. I don't see anything wrong with it since the guy is allowing it. The only problem I would have with it is if the guy had dementia and the woman was seriously taking advantage of him.
A woman's physical looks is inherited and part of her and she can't lose it unless when she gets old physically.
A gold digger on the other hand is bad because she typically seeks out men for their resources and to use them for their money while pretending she likes or loves the man she is with but if the money is gone she will abandon her man.
What about men who abandon their wives after their wives lose their looks via injury (thereby becoming deformed), childbirth, or old age?
It's like strippers or prostitutes or revealing clothes.. they love to criticize and complain about it, but oh how they pursue it.
Well... If your sole purpose is to get as much money as you can and flee, then I think that's pretty dishonest, and manipulative.
The difference is, guys don't consume and take away your physical beauty. Don't equate those things.
Men who want women for their looks are like WOMEN who want MEN for their looks.
Women who want men for their money, are just like men who get together with women, just to get their fingers on their money.
What do you think about men like that? Who get together with women and spend their money, and the women tolerate it, because the guy looks so good? Kind of disgusting, no?
Time is money, dear. He take her youth because unlike men a woman ‘s 20’s are her most important years, if she want to settle down. If she’s giving him her youth and beauty then she deserve his money
Doesn't deserve a damn thing nobody owes you anything high time you learned that
She doesn't GIVE him her youth. She uses it to gain something.
None of those people are valued, unless by other assholes. They are the reason we normal people distrust so much, because shitty people like them make everyone look like douchebag.