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If I were homeless my last priority would be relationships, and i'd seek a solution and fix shelter. I probably wouldn't date one because that would mean they chose it and want to live that way.
PS : you didn't give any info, backstory or hypothesis to your question so expect all kinds of judgement / assumptions.
However if the person i'm dating has become homeless due to external forces, I would still be with them and support through it.
Your assumption that they "chose" this life is the problem. Who the fuck, other than crusties, chooses to be homeless. Newsflash, nobody. to suggest so is to be ignorant of the situation and experience at hand.
Such a bitter guy. You asked for honest opinions, you got them.
I am bitter. I have the right to be. But not because of you. I hear this shit and much worse on a daily basis almost. I'm trying to educate you on your ignorant assumption (that many have) which claims homeless people lack character or are "choosing" this life.
I didn't assume they all were SMH. I said the ones who are comfortable enough in their situation to seek dating and relationships are. Read my opinion again.
they wouldn't be considered homeless their car would be there home sweet home
Maybe. It depends on how stable she is. I would more likely just be friends with her.
I dated a girl that when I met her she was living in a van, great looking and didn't do drugs, drunk sometimes
I hope you're algood bro, I hope you don't live in a cold climate. I'm not sure if it breaks the rule but you should explain or situation on give a little, but you are going to have to be truthfully convining
I myself have been in this situation. Personally I need not get help and I in No way had time to have a girlfriend unless she was going to help me, chances of that were slim.
So this is what happened, it was coming into winter, landlord was selling the house and gave me notice to move out, I couldn't find somewhere to live as the rental market is slim here and my girlfriend left me to move back to Europe, my family isn't here so I stayed at a friend's and I looked and looked for a place or room somewhere and had no luck, then my friends wife had a baby like a month after staying there and I felt I had over stayed my welcome, so I told them I had found a place and they said thank goodness cause next week you would of had to leave because of the baby. So I left and lived in my car in winter, talk about winter blues ! Anyway so I lost my job for various reasons mostly mental health and maybe hygiene and maybe since a small town people saw me around living in my car, no1 offered to help. Anyway as time went on it got super hard, but I had a lot of time on my hands so I borrowed some gardening tools off my friend and did some gardening work for random people, went afternoon door knocking, so I got a few small jobs and medium sized job.
I did that and in the process one of the people I did some work for said I should get a van for all my tools, and I told him I'll look into that, and he said he has a mate who has a van and will probably swap it for my car, so I ended up swapping my car for a van plus cash my way and with the cash I brought materials to turn it into a camper van (Like a cheap backpacker one ), the guy who's garden I was doing let me use his tools at his house, so I built storage areas and a bed platform and had somewhere better to sleep I thought fuck it I'll do what back packers do and just drive place to place site seeing and fruit picking, so I did this and meet some cool people on the couchsurfing app. Found some fruit picking work and meet these two hot German girls who lived in a van like mine, I just told them I'm travelling my country lol didn't say I was homeless. Anyway I saved up quite abit of money, and since there isn't much to do in a van Each night I would read and building regulations and details. After my travels through the country meeting backpackers every day I found a cool town and I arranged a job building houses, I bull shitted a little and said I've done building a year and have some tools, I didn't have shit lol.
I told them I'm new to town so I can't start for a month as I need to find a place to live, so I managed to find a studio with adjoining garage, so I moved in, I went and bought some tools, apron, hand tools, skillsaw, nail gun and drill and then changed the van around alittle to make it look like a builders wagon instead of a backpacker van. Started my job, pumped out the work, and everyday I'd ask or work out what we were doing the next day and go home and read about it, then the next day pump it out like I know it all, and sometimes correct the boss on certain minor regulations. After 3 months I got a pay rise 6months another pay rise then said he won't pay more unless I complete a apprenticeship so I did that, it took 3 years and then now I'm no really good money and running a job, living in a beach front house
Meet a girl living in her van and helped her out and gave her a place to stay, helped her get a job and we ended up hooking up
I could but I have no way of meeting them ! Thanks
No I would probably give then a job thow
Do you mean. Give them a job? Maybe they could be your tutor?🤣😅🤪
I do run a farm and ranch and 3 business
Ok thanks, your a good man. Kudos to you. 👊🏼
No I'm just a guy who comes from a good family who got very lucky and ended up taking over when my parents died when I was 14
If he managed to smell AND look good then yeah
I would if I was attracted to her.
Yeah I would, she can live with me
Theyre still a person!
Unlikely. How would I meet her?
No and if my daughter did I would kick her arse.
If he looks like leonardo dicaprio then it’s ok
Nope
Nope
No i wouldn't.
I'd do it.
Prolly not.
I don't know prolly not lol
Nope