I created this account because I need some advice and help. I snapped some pics of my girlfriend while she was getting ready this morning and welp here’s the deal... my girlfriend has gained a ton of weight since we started dating and I love her and really I don’t care that much but the thing is her belly gets in the way during sex and when I’m on top of her it’s hard to kiss her because of her big stomach. Even when I kiss her it sticks out while she’s standing up and sort of keeps me pushed back. She has tried keeping it sucked in during sex but she honestly can’t hold it in for long. I’ve tried to get her to workout to lose some lbs but she’s really not into the gym. The other thing to is she’s really lazy since the weight gain and just sleeps all day and doesn’t want to have sex as much and when we do she doesn’t want to be on top she says she gets tired and her belly gets really sweaty when she’s on top. I love her but her belly is just becoming annoying and too much can anyone help?
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Also I’ve had to take her shopping recently due to the extra lbs and any girls have any tips on where to find cute clothes for girls with a big tummy because it’s like the stores that have the cute clothes don’t want bigger girls wearing their clothes and nothing is made for a girl with a bigger belly
If being intimate is your only worry about her gaining weight, then let me tell you that your relation is on the brink.
There are a number of ways to show that you care for her and sex is only one small way. Actually, people put way too much importance on being sexually intimate. That is really not such a big thing. You can show her your love in so many different other ways. She does not like sex too much, so what? Lack of sex is really a poor excuse to sever a relation.
But to come back to your sexual issue, there are a number of positions that allow you to face her and her stomach not being in the way.
The best for that type of penetration would be the cowgirl position or any of its variants where she sits on your penis, facing you, with her legs on each side of your hips. That allows for a deep penetration, mainly given her weight. You might not be able to resist that kind of treatment for too long.
Otherwise you can try those frontal positions:
The Pinball Wizard Table Top The Spider The Lazy Man G-Whiz The Magic Mountain The Golden Arch
Positions are not what is missing, it is rather the lack of imagination.
Well honestly I do lots of things with her and one of them has been taking her places to eat or getting her foods she likes and she loves beer also which has led to her weight gain so honestly I’m the reason she has put on the weight
The important is that she realizes that she is doing herself a big disfavor because she will start to isolate herself socially which in turn will get her into a depression like state and she will compensate with eating.
You have to be proactive in trying to get her out of this vicious circle.
If she wants to lose weight eating less is more important than exercise bc it’s a sure thing. Then exercise on top of it. But eating less then she needs to maintain her weight is where it’s at.
People exaggerate how much e etcher actually burns. Unless she’s really active, exercise isn’t a magic bullet. Since she’s already reluctant to move, I’d start with reducing calories.
As for sex.. I mean can you do flip over missionary?
She just snacks a lot now and always wants Mexican food and she has a habit of eating a huge burrito when she gets home from work and passing out with her full belly resting on her lap
Lol well she could have Mexican and lose weight, but she would have to make it herself use whole grain wraps and low fat cheese and boiled Beans a LOT of vegetables, in place of grease and processes food.
The snacking should stop. She should aim towards a really healthy large meal in the evening so she won’t have time to eat after and can burn the energy during the day and not be weighed down by food.
Why doesn't she lose weight? That belly is excessive and unhealthy. If she cared about herself she wouldn't have let it get this far. And you should have brought it up before it was a problem. Tell her to control he portion sizes, eat less processed foods, and exercise. In a year or two that belly won't be a problem. And you will have no problem finding clothes.
1. Discuss this with her. 2. Make sure she's not suffering from some mental or eating disorder. 3. Listen to what she is saying is wrong, and try to make a plan to help her out.
Yes we have started going to the gym but she just sits on the bike and plays with her phone she’s just like really lazy since the weight gain and super not into working out but I’m trying to get her into it without pushing her too much
Start rubbing her belly there are massages you can google tat will make belly flat or ask her to ware spanks cause she is fat or straight up say your fat
I’ve done that also it makes her belly like hang upwards but it’s still in the way for me to kiss her or hold her close honestly one time we were both drunk and having sex and I thought there was a pillow between us but it was just her big full gut it felt bigger because she was really full we had dinner and drinks and she was super bloated I swear to god I was like reaching down and trying to remove a pillow it was funny
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