Was she skinny before?
Chances are, she loves you a lot so she tells herself how much she likes the fat look since she knows you like it. Maybe she does like it. But she also could have forgotten how much she loved being skinny, and it has to be hard choosing to be fat for you instead of being thin for her family.
You obviously loved her and were attracted to her before she was fat, so would it make a difference to you if she got skinnier again?
I think you should be open with her, and tell her that if she does want to be thin again or if she doesn't really like the lifestyle of being fat as much as she lets on, you will be more than accepting.
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She is only going to grow bigger with your enabling words to allow her to get bigger than a balloon eventually. Turn her on to the 600 pound woman, please. I have seen some 1000 pounds. It's very unhealthy. You need to talk bird with her.
I don't think it's wrong to be fat per se, but it's unhealthy to have an obsession with eating and total refusal to exercise. She could run into serious health issues.
Anything excessive over a healthy BMI scale is concerning
The best way to reassure her friends and family is to get a report from the doctor. If her doctor says she is healthy they have no grounds to put up an argument. If however her doctor says she is unhealthy then better do what the doctor says to get better. Being fat may be something she has accepted, but it should not cause her to get sick in other ways.
It's right that they want her to lose weight. They just care about her because she's family. What if (god forbid) she becomes disabled or something worse. Do you care more about your fetish or your girlfriends health? Tell her to lose weight.
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she's eating herself to an early grave her family does not have to accept that its a good choice, just that its her choice to make.
you'll never be able to force them to accept her, they either will or they won't on their own.You could reassure them that you're putting money aside for her wheelchair, oxygen machine and quadruple bypass for when she turns 40.
She will definitely be happier once she gets several diseases because of obesity.
Gosh I got so disgusted by reading this
Let her be
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