Yes, I'd be fine with it. As long as he dont come off as arrogant or prudish and doesn't get mad when i do drink. I have a drink every now and then when i go out with others but im not a huge alcohol fan and never understood the hype around it so he wouldn't have to care too much about me drinking and I don't smoke at all and drugs are an automatic NO. So we'd get along fine.
People have more chemistry with people that engage in the same activities as them. I would prefer that my partner drinks at least occasionally so we can have fun together. On the other hand, I don't smoke and would rather my partner didn't smoke because I just see it as a dirty habit that makes you smell, ruins your lungs and doesn't really give you a happy feeling like drinking. It all varies from person to person and there's definitely no wrong preference here.
I am that kind of person. I drink a beer if I want to but that never happens actually.
I do not go to parties and I hate drugs more than anything else. Nothing is more degenerated.
Why would you poison yourself to feel better than average for a few hours, then fall asleep and wake up with a headache and a LOT of brain damage in the following years?
Literally the same as attacking a nest of poisonous insects.
I have no problem with that. Are we talking illegal drugs? If it's illegal , so i would ask what kinda of drugs and if it's a real problem for the person am dating, i wouldn't consider taking the person seriously to a relationship
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Of course. What kind of question is this? Lol They're the right type of people to date!
Smokers - breath stinks, body odour, etc Doing drugs - they will get addicted and will be very abusive and/or go to jail Alcoholic - they can turn into an abusive person and may financially go broke
But if he drinks on occasions, that's fine. I drink too when there's a birthday, etc But that's only once a month or once every 2 or 3 months. OCCASIONALLY
Ya i did. And while it wasn't a big deal. There was times i wish she could just get a bit drunk Like on vacation Or just having a glass of wine on evenings. A bottle of wine at dinner
Sounds boring. I would want him to at least drink socially if only a couple of shots. The ones who don't drink are usually the ones who complain about others drinking. Smoking and drugs are a no-go.
Of course! I would date someone who doesn’t drink, smoke, or do drugs because I would want someone who cares for their health. Also, I do cares about someone health and be happy.
Since i was 14 I've been drinking beer occasionally but only beer never other drugs or cigarettes. The smoke from cigarettes used to make my stomach sick. I need my beers.
Someone who doesn’t smoke or do drugs would be perfect!! I would want to get drunk with my boyfriend every once in a while so I’d be a little disappointed if he didn’t drink
After reading all these girls' comments about how this is their dream guy, I've come to the conclusion that I'm just a piece of shit. I dont smoke, drink, or do drugs, but I'm still every woman's last human choice. I'll never flirt again.
In general people who do drugs tend to find eachother... those people are not bad or mischievous but would it be held against them no just like it should not be held against anyone who doesn't do anything
So to me this is an issue of communication, respect and boundaries. Here I feel you must be upfront if you are serious about a relationship. People are all different, coming from different places in their lives, so priorities often differ. Best to sort them out early.
Always have however the single 1 (ONE) female i dated that did not, I got pregnant. She was also a complete psychopathic demonic bitch and thats not me being mean... I was awarded full custody.
Yes. Personally I do not do any of those things. I’ve seen firsthand due to family members and friends. how things of that nature can go sideways in a hurry.
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Yes, I'd be fine with it. As long as he dont come off as arrogant or prudish and doesn't get mad when i do drink. I have a drink every now and then when i go out with others but im not a huge alcohol fan and never understood the hype around it so he wouldn't have to care too much about me drinking and I don't smoke at all and drugs are an automatic NO. So we'd get along fine.
People have more chemistry with people that engage in the same activities as them. I would prefer that my partner drinks at least occasionally so we can have fun together. On the other hand, I don't smoke and would rather my partner didn't smoke because I just see it as a dirty habit that makes you smell, ruins your lungs and doesn't really give you a happy feeling like drinking. It all varies from person to person and there's definitely no wrong preference here.
I am that kind of person.
I drink a beer if I want to but that never happens actually.
I do not go to parties and I hate drugs more than anything else.
Nothing is more degenerated.
Why would you poison yourself to feel better than average for a few hours, then fall asleep and wake up with a headache and a LOT of brain damage in the following years?
Literally the same as attacking a nest of poisonous insects.
I have no problem with that. Are we talking illegal drugs? If it's illegal , so i would ask what kinda of drugs and if it's a real problem for the person am dating, i wouldn't consider taking the person seriously to a relationship
Of course.
What kind of question is this? Lol
They're the right type of people to date!
Smokers - breath stinks, body odour, etc
Doing drugs - they will get addicted and will be very abusive and/or go to jail
Alcoholic - they can turn into an abusive person and may financially go broke
But if he drinks on occasions, that's fine.
I drink too when there's a birthday, etc
But that's only once a month or once every 2 or 3 months.
OCCASIONALLY
90% of people in general wouldn't mind unless they're against it
Ya i did. And while it wasn't a big deal. There was times i wish she could just get a bit drunk
Like on vacation
Or just having a glass of wine on evenings. A bottle of wine at dinner
Stuff like that is more fun than none at all
Fuck yes. I wouldn't want to date some who did all of those things.
They're my preference actually. I wouldn't date a guy who does any of that to begin with.
Sounds boring. I would want him to at least drink socially if only a couple of shots. The ones who don't drink are usually the ones who complain about others drinking. Smoking and drugs are a no-go.
Drunks are annoying, though.
@supercutebutt yes i am
I wouldn't date someone who did drugs or smoked I am talking about recreational drugs
Of course! I would date someone who doesn’t drink, smoke, or do drugs because I would want someone who cares for their health. Also, I do cares about someone health and be happy.
Since i was 14 I've been drinking beer occasionally but only beer never other drugs or cigarettes. The smoke from cigarettes used to make my stomach sick. I need my beers.
Someone who doesn’t smoke or do drugs would be perfect!! I would want to get drunk with my boyfriend every once in a while so I’d be a little disappointed if he didn’t drink
That's exactly who I want since I don't do any of these things either. It's quite rare since most at least drink or smoke or both.
I don't do any of those things!❤
Smart guy
After reading all these girls' comments about how this is their dream guy, I've come to the conclusion that I'm just a piece of shit. I dont smoke, drink, or do drugs, but I'm still every woman's last human choice. I'll never flirt again.
must be your extremely negative attitude.
Very astute observation.
In general people who do drugs tend to find eachother... those people are not bad or mischievous but would it be held against them no just like it should not be held against anyone who doesn't do anything
So to me this is an issue of communication, respect and boundaries. Here I feel you must be upfront if you are serious about a relationship. People are all different, coming from different places in their lives, so priorities often differ. Best to sort them out early.
Always have however the single 1 (ONE) female i dated that did not, I got pregnant. She was also a complete psychopathic demonic bitch and thats not me being mean... I was awarded full custody.
Yes. Personally I do not do any of those things. I’ve seen firsthand due to family members and friends. how things of that nature can go sideways in a hurry.